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Valentine’s Day 2023: 15 Sexy Gifts to Get Their Heart Racing

A young woman with curly hair holds a red heart balloon

Ah, Valentine’s Day: it’s the perfect time for sweet gestures, romantic dinners and… spicing things up. As much as we love a Valentine’s gift that will give them butterflies, we also appreciate the sexy side of Feb. 14th — and giving Valentine’s Day gifts that bring some heat.

With that in mind, if you’re looking for some sexy Valentine’s Day 2023 gift ideas with a bit of sizzle, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve rounded up 15 non-cheesy Valentine’s Day gifts to get their heart racing this February.

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A hand holding a bottle of personal lubricant

A luxe lubricant

Whether you’re looking for a gift for yourself to make solo sessions more pleasurable or you want to make time with your partner more comfortable (and fun), the right personal lubricant can be a game changer. This organic, ultra-hydrating option from maude features a gentle pH-balanced formula that’s free from glycerin and parabens, made with moisturizing aloe and safe to use with toys. 

Maude Shine Organic Personal Lubricant, Indigo, $34.

A black personal massager

A soft vibe

Speaking of toys, sex toys make great Valentine’s gifts for the right person. This three-speed, soft-touch personal massager features a signature shape and flutter tip — which means it’s ideal for focused external simulation for solo play or with a partner. 

Maude Vibe Personal Massager, Indigo, $66.

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A red silky eye mask

A silky blindfold

Who doesn’t love a multifunctional gift? This soft silk eye mask is smooth and comfortable whether your lover wants to wear it to block out light for a better sleep — or as a sexy blindfold.

OLESILK Silk Eye Mask & Blindfold, Amazon, $16.


Happy Valentine's Day card

A spicy Valentine’s Day card

Put it in writing. For a totally personal gesture, use your words by writing out all your erotic messages in a fun card that’s sure to be saved.

TrapCardStudio Snarky Valentine’s Day Card, Etsy, $8.

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A black Lelo candle

A candle — with a spicy bonus

It doesn’t have to take much to set a memorable mood this Valentine’s Day: sometimes all you need are some sultry tunes, a little romantic candlelight and a sensual massage. We’ve got you covered with the sexy playlist here, and this gift-worthy candle can help take care of the rest. Featuring a vanilla and crème de cacao scent, this candle melts into a pool of silky massage oil.

Lelo Flickering Massage Candle, Indigo, $48.

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A woman wearing a pink-red bra and panty set

A pretty piece

Lingerie is a classic Valentine’s gift idea, but that doesn’t mean it has to be basic. Take this Velvet Vixen balconette bra from Rihanna’s Savage X Fenty line: made from high-shine soft-stretch velvet with tulle-lined cups, this bra is a gorgeous piece featuring plenty of intricate details for an elevated look and feel.

Savage X Fenty Velvet Vixen Unlined Balconette Bra, Amazon, $65.

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A Truth or Dare card game

A game of truth or dare

Feeling a bit shy? Love to play? This naughty game of truth or dare can heat things up with spicy prompts via 52 “truth” cards and 52 “dare cards.”

Naughty Truth or Dare, Indigo, $13 (On sale now).

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A pink vibrator

A flame-worthy vibrator

This versatile vibrator brings the heat — plus, it’s literally shaped like a flame. This soft silicone vibrator is designed to help stimulate both the clitoris and the labia. Featuring four speeds and two pulsation modes, it’s a pleasure-boosting gift for the holiday (and really any day).

The Firefighter Vibrator by Smile Makers, Indigo, $75.

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Saje gift set

A scent-ual gift

Scent can be a powerful way to set the mood, and this limited-edition kit (available starting Jan. 27) makes a sensual and scent-ual gift for your lover (and yourself). Inspired by the Canadian brand’s best-selling Tantra scent, the kit — designed to “cultivate compassion and invite deeper connection” — includes a Tantra Candle, a luxe Tantra Body Butter and a Connection Heartwarming Oil Blend roll-on (featuring a blend of grapefruit, spearmint and bergamot essential oils).

Limited Edition Tantra Connections Kit, Saje, $40 (Available starting Jan. 27).

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A bed with red satin sheets

A smoother sheet set

Set the scene for a night of romance with super-soft and luxe satin sheets. This four-piece set is made from 400 thread count satin fabric that’s soft and cool to touch.

Lanest Housing 4-Pc. Queen Satin Bed Sheet Set, Amazon, $78.

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A red lace thong
Chou Chou Cheri

A little lace

Sexy lingerie makes for a simply sexy gift. If you’re stumped looking at all of the options available, lace is a luxe option — especially in a sensual shade of red, as this thong shows in spades.

Superboost Lace Thong Rouge, Chou Chou Cheri, $36.


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A heart-shaped bath bomb showing flower petals in the centre

A decadent bath

Getting clean can be totally romantic. Filled with dried flowers, scented like candied rose and shaped like a heart, this luxurious bath bomb makes their bath into a romantic experience.

Valentine Bombshell Bath Bomb, Lush, $15.

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A red bottle of Passion Oil

A drop of passion

Honour your desire for your partner and set the mood with the power of scent (and maybe a little massage). This signature blend features hand-picked jasmine and rose oils (for floral fragrances and aphrodisiac effects), which are rounded out beautifully with mandarin and other citrus scents. For Valentine’s Day, you can add a few drops to your favorite massage oil to elevate an at-home massage.

Passion Essential Oil by Helias, Indigo, $38 (On sale now).

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A pink camera

A personal portrait

Some photos aren’t meant to be shared digitally, and instant photos on film can help you keep things private between you and your partner.

Fujifilm Instax Mini 11 Instant Camera in Blush Pink, Amazon, $99.

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A black book with "Adventure Challenges... In Bed" on the cover

A challenge… in bed

Bring the heat to the bedroom and build your bond with your partner: this flirty book features 50 seductive, intimate adventure challenges for you and your love to try out… in bed.

The Adventure Challenge…in Bed, Indigo, $64.

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