10 Things You Should Never Say to a Bride

Yes technically that's true, but it's not wholly the case. This is a once-in-a-lifetime event and we want to make it great in our mind's eyes.

Here's the thing about getting engaged, in the lead up to your big day you're almost constantly cheersing someone or taste-testing a dish that will be on display. That may lead to weight gain. I'm good with it if you are.

Uh, no. This isn't info you need to know. All you need to know is we've done what we can with the money we allotted to our big day. Enjoy it!

It's nice to give input on vendors, etc.—and that info is super helpful—but it's not so great to tell us that you're going to judge us for the way we've setup our big day. We chose what we chose. And remember: If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.

No, I'm not nervous—or at least I wasn't until you asked me that question. And now that I'm thinking about whether or not I'm nervous, maybe I am. Thanks for that.

I suppose I will. But your line of questioning implies that I'm not enjoying what I'm doing right now; I'm busy, but I'm enjoying the wedding planning process. It'll all be worth it!

I completely understand that weddings are hard to travel to—and we really appreciate you coming to our big day. That said, this was a location that spoke to us and we're really looking forward to having our big day in this space. Once you get there, we think you'll completely agree with our choice!

I'm really sorry to say, but if your beau/kids weren't expressly invited, they probably aren't on our guest lists. That's not because we don't love them (we do!). It comes down to budget and space.

Probably. (Wedding planning equals stress which could equal grey hair?) Also, so what if it is? Maybe I'm the type of bride who's going for the "au naturel" look?

To that I say: "What's your definition of Bridezilla?" (Also: self high-five.)