The Gentlewoman: Non-Binary Style Secrets From Your Dad

Papa, don’t preach — unless it’s to dole out style tips. There are countless cuts, fabrics, trends and lessons to steal from dad’s closet. These pieces not only flatter a wide variety of shapes, sizes and bodies — but are perfect for non-binary and gender-fluid fashion lovers looking for a summer trend refresh. Read on for more of dad’s style secrets to kick your wardrobe up a notch — with inclusive gender identity in tow.

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Suits for everybody

For as long as dads have been clocking suits in the 9-to-5, people have been turning the tradition inside out in unexpected and stylish ways. Whether you opt for a tailored fit or an over-sized, menswear-inspired cut a la vintage Diane Keaton, this dapper look suits everyone.

Celebs like Celine Dion have been rocking suits for decades.

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Boxer briefs for all of us

Boxer briefs are immensely popular in the genderqueer community for their practical, adaptable style that suits all variety of gender-non-conforming people. But the appeal of boxer briefs goes way beyond practicality: in an array of colours (hello, Gender Free World), patterns, fabrics, and more, they’re one of the best looks we’ve stolen from Pops.

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Hawaiian shirts for everyone

We were just as surprised as you were. Hawaiian shirts — really? But the dad vacation staple in all its various prints has expanded into the wardrobes of everyone. And with summer around the corner, we couldn’t be more grateful for them. All we need now is an umbrella in every drink we sip.

Pro-tip: throw one on over these swim suits for the ultimate summer look.

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Trench-inspired coats

An oldie but a goodie. This timeless dad staple is a classic for a reason: it’s flattering on all shapes and sizes, and it instantly conjures images of old school feels of Casablanca. Slip on your trench-inspired topper and be whisked away like Bogart and Bergman—even if your dad liked it more for the rain flap than anything else.

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Button-down shirts

Dads don’t have the market cornered on button-downs, but the way they button them is pretty distinctive. Button your crisp cotton shirt to the top for a clean, modern look. Even better if it’s paired with a funky retro pattern, a la rising gay star Amanda Stenberg.

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Check (or chequer) patterns

Ready to retire to the study with your pipe? Houndstooth and fellow old-school check patterns are ready to assist you. Mix them up with modern cuts, like Janelle Monae’s slightly-oversized jumpsuit, and you’ve got a brand-new twist on an ol’ faithful.

Of course, patterns can be tough to navigate — make sure you avoid these 11 fashion faux pas.

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Oversized shirts

Long before grunge took over, dads rocked the over-sized shirt unironically. Wear them as a dress, over fitted bottoms, or paired with over-sized or loose-fitting clothing for an interesting clash of layers. Ruby Rose has your inspiration covered with a simple take on the grunge staple.

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Vests

Vests are easy to pick up as bohemian toppers, but for a truly dad-inspired look, turn to tailored and polished pieces that look fresh off a three-piece suit. Make like Miley and opt for a splash of colour or pattern for your own fun spin on the androgynous wardrobe classic.

Though Miley looks comfortable here, the entertainer has been spotted in very uncomfortable looking outfits.

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Leather jackets

They’re not just for bad boys. Steal dad’s motorcycle-wannabe look for edgy outerwear. From baggy to cropped, classic inky black to colours, there’s a jacket out there for every dad, and everyone. After all, a leather jacket is a great fall investment piece for your money. Pssst, pair with extra hardware, like Cate Blanchett’s bold zippered pants, for extra dad points.

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Aviators

Whether you’re reenacting Top Gun, need a break from the rays — or just want to look cool, aviators are right there with you. This classic eye-wear shape adds a touch of tough-meets-polished to your outfit. Tilda Swinton knows the power of a solid aviator — especially in experimenting with different materials, like her acetate frames.

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