If my partner had asked me to get plastic surgery, I would have to end it because obviously there are things they are unhappy with, if they can't accept you for who you are then why bother?For a long while now I've been thinking about getting a breast augementation, luckily for me I have a partner who wishes I didn't but would support me in the end if i really wished to do it. There are pros and cons and i've been thinking about doing it for at least six years now but doing a lot of research before or if i take that next step

Asked me to? No. My husband did say that if I lost weight (and my boobs) he'd pay for me to get my boobs back if I wanted. lol

I think my husband may not like the idea of me getting plastic surgery done, but i always wanted to get it done and my problem is financially i cannot afford it. I am 42 have 5 kids a big hanging belly flab, droppy breast, lots and lots on stretch marks.
I hate the way i look when i look at the mirror i like to wear nice fitting clothes but don't like how my stomach look in it so i dressed like my grandmother used to. I also work and it is hard to go the gym after work because i am so tired standing on my feet for 8-10 hours a day. I

Jacky, as a mom part of the problem is also you are not putting yourself first ever or making yourself a priority... if you consider this is also for your health, try working exercise into your daily routine. It's understandable you wouldn't want to work out at the end of your day. Maybe walk to work, or half way, or walk stairs if you have any nearby. Change one thing, then two, then three and watch for any differences. Maybe not in shedding pounds, but watch if your clothes fit differently. Good luck!!

he said if he could afford it he would just to make me feel better about my self,he dosent think i need to but i have no boobs , i alway catch him stareing at women with big one even right in front of me that includes my friends. we cant aford it with 4 kids good luck!

If your husband or partner is telling you they'd pay for new boobs/tummy tuck or pay for it if they could afford it then you have to face the fact that they would like you to have it done. That makes me quite sad. My husband would absolutely hate it if I even entertained the idea of getting any plastic surgery done. Once I brought up the idea getting my teeth whitened and he thought that was ridiculous. It was just my teeth for goodness sake and no surgery would have been req'd but he thought it would be silly if I would choose to pay (even a nominal fee) to "enhance" my smile. He loves me the way I am. 100% natural.

Iam almots 44 years old and my man loves me the way iam...we have been togeather for 5 years now..i have 3 kids,2 are moved out my baby is 18..i have to grandbabys to.to get back to men he has never seen me in the nude,because of my streatch marks and flabby belly im 54..145 pounds..we have talked about it dont matter 2 him but in tyrin to save so i can get my tummy tuck done ..then i will keep all the lights on all the time ty..

I would dump him, but not before creating a list of cosmetic procedures HE needs to have before you find him loveable again.

HA HA HA! Sue, that is hilarious. I think that's the option I would go with.
Or, I would sarcasticly reply: "Plastic surgery? Why of course! I'll go get my breasts and tummy done, and you can go get your nose, chin, cheeks, mouth, ears, stomach, and your but done! We'll go together!". Just to see his reaction. I mean if he wants to make a suggestion it would have to be a two way road right?
Surgery for medical reasons is one thing, but I am against any kind of cosmetic or plastic surgery.

Personally I would love breast implants, but if my man suggested I get plastic surgery and he would pay.. then I would let him pay then leave his ass after the surgery and Im healed. And of course while Im healing I wont be up for sex which he will have to deal with. So he pays for big boobs, doesnt get sex and doesnt get to play with his purchase. well aint that a bitch

I don't think the relationship could ever be the same, it doesn't matter if I'd want it or not... I could never let that go, I'd dump him and be with a man who wants me for me.

Well, you see? I have the BIG BOOBS that my husband, Tristan Teo, loves.... Once, when we were dating (we were 10) and I was going through puberty. He said that he would pay to help me get my breast bigger... I said no. He was mad but after puberty and my breast was larger, he licked them everyday... EVEN IN PUBLIC!

If he will pay it, I will do it :)

Consider it, prioritize my life and see where it fits in. I have to be happy and he or she should be happy too....

I have lost over 100 lbs and have the sagging belly and tummy.
I would love to get a tummy tuck for my self and only me.
I have been married to the love of my life & he has never said anything negative fat or thin.
But I would feel a lot better about myself.
Have no idea about the cost but money isn't growing on trees in my house.
have to settle for tummy girdle.

I am getting breast agumentation for myself. If anyone asked me to get cosmetic surgery for thier own agenda I would tell them to take a hike.

Men are visual creatures. If he's nice enough to not comment on your fat, chances are he has some fat of his own. But don't be foolish enough to think that he wouldnt prefer it if you had less of that fat/stretch marks/tummy
It's just the facts, ladies

never in my life would i do that

"Sigh".... I wish that I could get plastic surgery... I was in an abusive relationship for 10 years...and I mean ABUSIVE!!... I have had a broken finger...my face is all messed up..have to get this lump removed from my leg..they say it is from an injury...yeah.. I know how that happened... when I met him,..I was alive and happy...now I feel dead and sad...only thing that is keeping me going are my kids... I told them that I wanted plastic surgery..and they understand..but financially..it is impossible...so I have to live with this.. I am all up for women that want to improve themselves...I would be there in a heart beat....I should'nt look the way I do...not at all...teeth got knocked out.. etc etc..I was once a pretty good looking gal...now I look like I am 60.. but I am only 41...sucks to me..for letting it all happen..and staying with it...but now, I am free.. and trying to boost my confidence any way I can...cheap...lol...Go for it ladies.. u want it,... take it!!

Well, ladies if you want to have anything done, do it for yourself, not because someone is asking you to. You don't stay with a woman because she's got big boobs. Besides being a good friend and a supportive woman, a man wants good sex. Ask any men: Big boobs, flat tommy or crazy wild sex? Now, if your man insists that you need plastic surgery, agree with him and tell him that you too will be happier if he gets a penis enlargment procedure, after all "you're so much smaller than my ex-bfs" hahahah. That will drive your man mad (forget about telling him that he needs a chin or nose job, we don't care, but we DO CARE about our penis size.)

if it was something that you also didnt like and was going to pay for it then ..do it

Absolutely would!! Nothing wrong with wanting a boob job (large or smaller) if it will make one feel better! And that goes for a big tummy if one has had c-sections. First though, eating MODERATELY and DAILY EXERCISE is THE most IMPORTANT thing of all!!!

'I have had my nose done when I was single and my breast done a few years ago in my mid thirties. I had lost 25 pounds and it was all from my top half. I am now 115 pounds with a great rack. Best thing I ever did. Nobody EVER regrets a new set of breasts. It makes you feel so great and as a bonus your man can\x27t keep his eyes, or hands off you. best 7 grand we ever spent. EVER. I will have to get them redone in 8 years but by that time they will have perfected the process and boobs will look and feel even better'