Am I Ugly??
Q: Hi i need your honest oppion on this.... do you think im ugly? and if not why have i only had 2 boufriends. im 16 years old im smart, funny, and really laied back, im not fat and im not too sensitive and i'm not mean im really sweet, i love reading and singing and im doing cheerleading but im not a prepi really need to know whats wrong with me. Don't be afried to tell em the truth i can take it lol :)
A: You are way too young for me, but you are definitely cute. And two boyfriends by 16 is not exactly nothing. I think you just need to be patient and just keep being yourself and you’ll find someone you like. Your spelling could use some work, although I am sure that has nothing to do with boys liking you or not!
A: You are totally cute. It sounds to me like maybe you’re a victim of the ol’ women-mature-faster-than-men scenario. Guys are going to frustrate you with their childish ways for the next few years (i.e., forever), but you have to keep being your cool, busy self and one of these days you’ll meet someone who you want to keep around and who is crazy about you in return. In other words, keep doing what you’re doing; you can’t rush chemistry. Oh, and for the record, two boyfriends by 16 is plenty!
A: No, you're not ugly!!! What you have to realize is that most 16-year-old guys are morons. There's no way they're going to be able to appreciate your great qualities beyond the obvious. And some of them will never be able to, just ask any 40-year-old single women you might know. Hang in there, wait for them to catch up (and, by the way, I don't really think two boyfriends by the time you're 16 is such a bad track record). And in the meantime, enjoy being 16 and beautiful!
A: You’re being waaaay too hard on yourself. The most attractive quality is confidence and you sound like you’ve got tons of reasons to be confident and feel great about yourself. High school guys are idiots (I would know, I was one) and I’m guessing you’re more mature than most of them. Just take it easy on yourself, do the things you enjoy, and work on feeling great about the smart, funny, cool person that you are. Everything will fall into place from there. I promise.