Brad's Blog - Episode 5060: Hairy Home Wreckers
Sarah and Lee had a very interesting dynamic, with a lack of understanding of what each person needs in the relationship as well as the divide the dog is being blamed for.
It was never the dog’s intention to be a jerk or steal away love and affection from Sarah. Misguided actions blended in a tidal wave of BS in the personal relationship. Guilt, honour, affection, love—all took on its own agenda, an agenda that will end sad, ugly, and leave emotional scars.
Is Lee a lost soul? Is Sarah unrealistic in what she desires? Is the dog supposed to be human?
Lee is not lost but he certainly needs to be pulled back into a reality he can identify with and embrace so his life partner will feel loved. But this will be a long process. Sarah has needs, those needs are real, not over the top. She desires simple pleasures but the tangled emotions of Lee and the dog will need some time to sort out. If success is found in this tangled mess then a happy ending will prevail.
Lee was inspirational, making these changes and looking deep within himself as a person and sorting out his priorities. His journey was not as simple as turning over a new leaf. He needed Sarah’s support in order to find balance. Sarah, as with most women, was the backbone and pillar of the relationship. Her voice needed to be heard in actions. Lee stepped down from his male ego role and accepted his wife as an equal. The dog is an extension of their success.
This is a beautiful episode, with a real-life prince and princess.
Brad ;-)