My boyfriend has wanted me to give him head for about 5 yrs now. I have never done it before but i think its about time to give him his wish. How do i get past being neverous, i want to do it right but what if he doesnt like it?

Hey this is in response to Sara. Don't be nervous, there's no reason to. Even if you were really bad he honestly wouldn't care, cuz hey, he's getting h*ad! The only thing that might happen is that he suggests you practice more... on him of course!

hey sara maybe useing some lube will help, if my bf turns me on before i give him head its more enjoyable for me, so maybe fool around a little first get a little horny, and maybe that will slow down your nervs

For Sara -
A good place to start is just to start with oral sex, but finish with normal sex. It's a little less intimidating (and less pressure on you) than start-to-finish oral.

Hey Sara,
I'm really surprised that your boyfriend has stuck with you for 5 years without you doing the deed!!!
Pull it out...loosen your jaw and suck on it like a candy cane at Christmas...or he will find someone else to do it for you...if he hasn't already!!!

Dearest Sara
The whole point of spending time love your fellow is to give yourself to each other, Oral sex is just and normal thing between two people that love each other. Above all relax! You don't have to do much to make his happy, But the one thing you shoulg know is that the way a woman treats his penis is the way he feels she treats him. It's a guy thing honey, your going to have to trust me on this. And after a while your are going to find that you will enjoy it too. 1. for the reaction that you get from him and 2. the way it will make you feel.

To Sara:

Just pretend your licking an ice cream cone and you're really hungry, lol, just DONT use the teeth. Of course, keep it romantic, you'll like it and so will he.

I have to honestly say that the worst head is still great head so don't be shy, but you do have to COMMUNICATE with your partner whether its in bed giving head or anything else. Relationships where people do not communicate with each other do not work out. People have to stop being so insecure or they will never know true happiness!

Hey Sara, if you want to practice, you can practice on me.

Is there a reason why my boyfriend gets a blister thing on his penis after oral. He never gets this with sex or any other time. I have tried deep throating, just the tip and hand and he always gets a sore. This is the first person I have been with that this happens. I also made him get tested for STD/STI and everything was clear.

OMG when I first got with my boyfriend all he wanted eas head and I haed it!!! I t was sooo nasty but after 5 years and giving him the time of day I actually enjoyed it!!! It turns me on so much i get wet lick a popsicle on a hot summer day! Trust me give in you'll never regret it!

Sara, is he willing to go down on you?

yes he is now, but it wasnt like that before, which is y im changing my mind and want to give back

Thanks, I was too self-conscious to ask my boyfriend if I was doing this right. I'm a little embarrassed to admit that this helped.

I don't know personally I always thought Oral sex was kind of gross. I mean, having a guy's trodger in my mouth is so nasty just even to think about it! I don't want people bashing at me for saying this but I'd rather have one place for my guy's genatils. ;)

Hey sara,
i just wanna say i was just as afraid as u were and i thought it was weird that i was scared too so thank u! just for the record i have now tried going down on a guy and it totally wasn't as horrifying as i thought it would be...it was sort of fun ha

i never get turned on when im with my boyfriend, even though i really like him. why should i give him head when he cant return the favour?

Wow, I just read this article to find that I could have written it word for action. Now I will believe my husband when he says I'm amazing and that no one else was even close to being so good at giving head. Wow - and what they say about the sensitive spot under the balls is correct. Puts him over the top everytime....

Has anyone tried poprock while giving him head?..... OMG my hubby went nuts.
Its like he was having a shake attack, i had to ask him a few times if i was hurting him, b/c he was shacking so much..Try it , its fun..

What's a poprock?

poprocks are these tiny candies that pop or "explode" in your mouth

Giving head if one of my fave things to do. I turns me on, as well as putting my guy over the edge. There's really no wrong way to do it, but try different and new things whenever possible. And always change it up. Start slow and sensual to get him really pumped up, then speed it up gradually. And every minute or so, go as deep as you possibly can without puking, and go slow and powerful. That's the kind of thing that really makes him shake and moan.

Giving head is such a great turn on -- for both, when you're doing it right!!!!

As for the "sickos" that just --had-- to add comments......... get a life!!

Hey sara, i was really scared too because i had a bad experience before with a guy. However Im with a guy now who talks to me through it. If your guy is supportive, he will talk you through and tell you what he likes and doesnt like. I found that my jaw gets sore so maybe have him sit in a chair or be in a different position so the angles arent so hard on you. Also i was really worried about the cum.. I still struggle with the taste of it so I always spit. But if the guy again is understanding he wont get insulted, besides you are pleasuring him. I would also say if he wont return the favour and go down on you then i would refuse to pleasure him. No one likes their face down there or their mouth in areas that are normally dirty. But its really an intimate thing when you want to connect. Remember if you dont feel comfortable then say NO.. No guy should ever pressure you into it, if you dont like it, he should still love you no matter what.

does anyone find that when u give a guy head first and then hav sex he doesnt go in for kissing as much? ive personally never given head, but i want to, cept i dont kno how i would feel not kissing during sex just becuz i gave him head first, i love kissing! when my friend told me the guy shes sleeping with wouldnt go in for kisses becuz she gives him head first i started wondering if thats totally natural... but really isnt that a bit ridiculous? i mean when ur in the moment ur not about to stop everything to go brush ur teeth right haha? wat if u jus chew sum gum afterwards? do guys even care? my friend said "well i understand becuz i wouldnt want to give a guy head when he's been inside me first"... n then i think well the guy shes sleeping with is actually a jerk (i say that becuz of reasons too long to explain here), so mayb thats y? or r all guys that way? i want to ask a guy becuz im wondering if it depends on the guy?

In answer to "Question":

When my boy and I start with oral then move to sex, we still kiss. He'll laugh about my breath at times, telling me I have penis breath (gee, I wonder why!), but it doesn't stop us from enjoying everything!

Mind you, we'll also do oral after if we're sore and haven't finished ;)

i LOVE giving head!! not only cuz my guy injoys it also because it gives me confidence to make him feeel awesome!
plus im prettty sure im good at it sooo im happy with that also:)

omg my man loves me giving him head!! but i personally hate it so what do i do. i guess if it makes him happy then i will do it but is there any way that i could please him differently?

ok...this is kind of embarassing...but...me and my boyfriend have oral sex a lot...he seems to love it...or that's what he says..but he has never finished during oral....well with me...he has with women before me unfortunately...what am i doing wrong...?

For 4892, I am not sure why those areas would be dirty, that is why they have wet wipes and there is lots of water to go around..lol..If the guy is dirty there then something is wrong..he must have hygene problems if it is not in his control then he should go see a doctor, adn so shoudl teh girl. Maybe I am jst lucky I never have a bad scent and my BF loves going down, he can't get enough...lol.....Lucky me!
And for Question......if he does not kiss afetr your mouth has been on him I say thenhe does not deserve your mouth ot be there. If he does no like his own taste why should you. The tasts of cum acan also depend on diet..for men and woman......FRUIT IS GOOD..starwberries and kiwi and pineapple. I alsways say only expect of oters in the bed room what you are willing to give yourself. I always thought that ORAL was not that big of a deal and I could settle going without in a relatinship...well that is not the case. I love giving , but being the only giver gets old and makes you feel bad eventually. Plus I think people need to see the body not as a dirty thing but as something beautiful!
Communication is key and a glas of water or juice beside you will help if you don't liek teh taste if there is a taste, there may not always be. I LOVE IT ALL THE WAY!..and I can't get enough..my mouth is like a niagara just thinking or talking about it and my BF loves it. Good Luck everyone and the more the better!

THIS IS FOR SHELLY UR MAN OBVIOUSLY DOESNT GET TURNED ON BY U GIVING HIM HEAD CAUSE IF U CANT EVEN SUCK HIM OFF THEN U R OBVIOUSLY NOT DOING IT RIGHT. EVERYTIME I GIVE MY MAN HEAD AND I WANT TO FINISH HIM I GET THE JOB DONE. I DO ALL SORTS OF NEW THINGS TO KEEP HIM ENTERTAINED..HE LOVES IT SO MUCH HIS TOES EVEN CURL.U NEED TO SUCK THAT DICK BETTER AND WEAR SOMETHING SEXY WHILE UR DOING IT,, THAT WILL GET HIM GOING FASTER.IT MUST SUCK TO BE U IF U CANT DO IT BUT HIS EX'S CAN

8=========D>: I LOVE DICK 8===D

Lots of ladies posting, not too many guys. I have never come from getting head, I've not had a lot of girlfriends but they were all long term and we just finished me off other ways. Probably half of my partners have not wanted me to come in their mouth. One of the best lines I have read is "A guy should not expect a girl to do what he won't do." I wonder how many guys have tasted their own come? Hint, start with just a bit on the tip of the finger. What he eats really makes a difference. Beer and red meat are not the best I've been told. Eat those fruits and salads, guys! My girlfriend is not too kicked about kissing after I've done oral on her, which I love to do, so we keep cinnamon heart candies by the bed, and I make sure if I want oral from her I get it before I've been inside. Men are not the cleanest people in the world as most of you ladies know. If he smells or tastes bad a lot of the time get naked and drag him into the shower before sex, don't rub the privates too long with soap though, it burns. After the shower give him some extra time and effort, less so when he's not fresh, he will clue in hopefully. Another trick is to get out your sundae topping of choice or honey and drizzle it over his privates and then lick and suck it all off, tastes great for you, feels great for him, plus it has a little kink factor as well. Some other tips; guys like it wet and slobbery, fast then slow, repeat. If he's too big to deep throat when hard, do it when he's soft, which won't last long. If he's always hard before sex, surprise him in the kitchen, rip his pant down and take it all down before he has a chance to harden up. Guys also like noise, sucking, slurping, moaning like it's the best thing you've ever tasted. Most important, have fun with your partner in bed!

I'am wondering if you give head does it smell?? If so how do you keep going when it smell??

My b/f & I have been together bout 7mos. We have had all kinds of fun w/sex in the time we've been together but, for like the las month or 2 it seems as though he's gotten lazy, bored, or maybe turned off??? Not really sure, he only wants me to give him head!! He's 47yrs old...any ideas as to why things have changed??

4 Sara I swar that u'r guy will love U no matter if u'r good at it at first or not!!! they just love the fact that U have the guts 2 do it!!! cuz I asked mi guy that the other day and he said thats realy all they want! which I think is sick but he said the first time I gave it 2 him i was "Not 2 bad" but trust ne thats what they will say at first then they will start saying WAY better things about how u'r doing it might just be a bumpy start!

yea ive always thought of the idea of giving head is gross... but i really wannt to bc my boyfriend does oral to me and i dont feel like im contributing back , im just to scared to do it cause i mean its gonna taste gross.Also hes been waitin 2 yrs as well and everyone thinks i am crazy for not.

How do i give head to my bf... like to tell you the truth i love giving him oral action...but he always wants to come in my mouth and i dont like it...but i think that he woud be offended if i spit it out in the sink afterward so what do i do...its come to the point where he just gives up on asking me but i want to make him happy...how do i do that and not get grossed out?

my bf jizzed in my eye after I passed out, didn't wipe it off....I had to go the hospital. Lost my eyelid and have some vision loss.

keep it safe girlz.

Sara

i have never given head, is it just like sucking a lollipop in and out or candy cane or icy pole, how long do you usually do it for?

Q - How do you describe the worst blowjob you've ever had?
A- FANTASTIC!!!!

I LOVE GIVING HEAD NOTHING LIKE A GOOD MOUTHFUL OF HOT JIZZ AND IT MAKES MY BF VERY HAPPY BUT HES WORTH IT........

Jus gave my bf my first ever bj and he loved it, did some research prior and he went nuts.It drove him wild and was turned on as well after wards.

My jaw was painful the next day,guess I overdid it somehow

Ladies, if your guy is not going down on you, I would love to serve you. Find me.

Yeah, I've never gone for it before and I really want to this weekend, but I'm soooo worried that I'll be bad or even not be able to make him cum. I'm so worried about being bad that i almost won't do it.... help!

And, barring teath-action, is all head good or at least decent?

To me...if a guy isn't willing to kiss you after you go down on him then you shouldn't go down on him.

And Jenna, if you HAPPEN to be reading this...give Eric head already!! I'm tired of hearing about him always going down on you and you not returning the favor. That's bullS***!!

One ladies, coming from a guy I agree with the above, the worst head I've ever gotten was still awesome. In a large way its mental if he wants it and you do it, he'll love it.

Two for all these people talking about kissing vs not kissing and swallowing vs not swallowing. Leave it up to the individuals. If two people like going down on each other but dont want to kiss afterwards fine leave them alone. Gentlemen if your lady doesnt swallow just be glad she wanted to please you enough to do it. Oh, and dont just spray it on her face, unless she likes it that way of course.

Third to address the taste issue, there are a couple tricks. Diet helps but takes time and can have mixed results. Flavored lubs or honey and surp works for more immediate results. I like the warming lubes where you can feel the heat when she blows on the head, god thats so hot. And finally I haven't tired this yet but have some in the mail for both me and my woman just to play with for fun... Wonder Fruit or Berries, ThinkGeek.com sells them and some other places, you eat them and the change sour flavors into sweet because something in them bonds to your taste buds. Might also help with the taste when kissing. But still wont address the smell.

Has anyone else tired the Wonder Fruit thing yet, I am excited to try it. They call it flavor tripping, sound fun. I figure mise well mix with something else fun... like sex ;) I'll post back to let you all know how big a difference it makes.

ive given head a few times but when i am doing it sometimes his dick hits my teeth..im not biting on it or anything, sometimes they just get in the way.
none of the guys have said anything when its happened but does it hurt at all or is it bad for him?
just wondering if anyone knew how to avoid that.
cheers.

ive been with my bf for almost a year and a half and i have never "gone down" on him. he was my first and i was not at all sexually active nor aware before him. he has asked me a couple times if i would ever give him head and ive always said no. BUT I'VE CHANGED MY MIND! lol. like,, i really want to try it but im not at all sure how to initiate it. he has never pressured me into doing it which makes me want to try it more. he like "going down" on me a lot and i would like to return the favor.
so,, if anyone has any advice i would greatly appreciate it
:-D

My boyfriend is too self conscious to let me give him head. I've tried before but he's never came because he was too uncomfortable. What can I do to help him relax?

I really want to give my bf head but i'm so inexperienced! He was with his ex for over a year and they were eachother's first and did a lot of stuff together and i'm worried i'll be bad and he'll compare me to her. I don't even know what I'm supposed to do down there! please help S: xx

What is the problem? Get an adult movie and you will learn 1001 moves.

Whoever the last sara was is definitely not the first one. You don't have any more chance of losing an eyelid from sperm as you would from female cream.

i like blow my job very much

The taste and consistency of cum is DIFFERENT from one man to another. Someone already mentioned diet but guys who drink a lot of water taste a lot better and have less thick, ropey cum. So, drink lots of water guys! Also ladies, your sense of salty and sweet are located on the front of your tongue. Make sure he's as far in as you can tolerate when he comes (and past the front part of your tongue) and you are less likely to taste the SALT as strongly. If you tongue tip it, it will be like licking a salt block.

Guys n ladies i need certain help.. Big problem, i hav been with this guy for abt 4 mnths. We have had sex but coz me am big we end up having sex in the same position and once he comes everythg is over.. how can i make it more exciting n maybe last longer..any suggestions, as too what i can try?? he has also wanted me to go down or give oral sex a chance, but im scared, n dont really know as much.. he has had another girl in his life, has never mentioned his sex life with her but i have a feeling that he misses her.. which obviously is not a good thing for me... so all the girl out there, really need help to keep my bf from going else where... what n how can i make him happy.. i really wanna try something that will make him love me more and not go hunting around..
if anyone can advice me, i would highly appreciate it..

ive given my bf a blowjob many times and he really enjoyed it and so did i but somehow i get very shy to make eye contact when im sucking on him. i also feel weird when he's staring at me.

willl it be more enjoyable for him if we make eye contact?
is there any way i can get around that?

hey does anyone else here think that cum tastes like bleach?

but i must say, its an acquired taste!:)

i'm like alot of other commenters here. We've been messing around for about 3 months. He's been down on me and at first didn't even mention me going down on him, but has brought it up in convo for the last 3 weeks or so. I'm nervous because he's my first i've been with and i'm not sure how to go down on him. any advice?

Wow, I feel less alone! I have been with my first boyfriend, for about 4 months now and he is just so great. He gave me oral, about a month after our relationship, it was the first time, I recieved oral and LOVED it! Wow, its AMAZING. Honestly before I ever got it, I never thought anything of it. Anways, I feel really bad and feel like I am not contributing, he says hand jobs aren't that great and loves receiving a blow job. I am so scared, because even thinking about putting dick in my mouth, creeps me out (also I have a gag reflex, but he says, I don't have to deep throat)! I don't really want him to cum in my mouth (again he loves the way I taste and loves giving oral, which makes me feel SO bad). I don't really want to, I am scared to do it. But he is so giving and I really like him so much and I am scared that he'll get bored and leave (even though he says he won't). What can I do to make it more pleasurable and enjoyable for me? So he can get some attention?

Oral sex, to all those who are new to this what may seem to be freighting topic, always start with a guys ear! then move down, eventually over time you will learn new tactics on your own, To all those who are worried about the gag reflex situation, I had the same problem... pop a mint or a halls and let your throat relax.... you will get to your comfort zone eventually.
To all those who think sex dosent last long enough!

Sex that doesn't last long enough, sometimes cut out the oral. Some of my friends and I discussed this topic not too long ago actually, and we have gone through different ways to make our alpha males moan for more, and halt to cumming,
First way to do it is speed things up, then slow them down. don't let him be the boss in bed, sometimes when your the boss it makes them more turned on... however if you slow things down after making it all hott!!!! then work them back up again it helps prolong sex.
Second way... which is my favorite... just before the climax, of both partners jump off and go into another room for about two to five minutes, then go back and jump on.. it makes the ending feel like the beginning. ITS HOTTT
Third and most common. tell him to stop and give you oral, its more enjoyable for you, however there is some concern out there with those germ freaks.... there are alternatives around this situation.... they`re called oral dams people!!!!

hopefully this helps
good luck on seducing your men ladies

<3 pam a

I don't want to give my current boyfriend a bj because he pre-ejaculates and I think that's gross! All the other guys I've been with haven't. So I guess it depends on the guy you're with. Has anyone experienced this problem? I don't mind for a guy to come in my mouth (it does taste different depending on the guy), but when he already has pre-cum it makes me grossed out to even start!!!!! I like him, but the sex for me is def not there.

I keep trying to give the guy i'm with a good blow job, but i have some problems...
1. I have such a bad gag reflex i can't even swallow pills besides my birthcontrol and he wants to be deep throated.
2. He takes a REALLY long time to ejaculate and my mouth and arm gets tired and i give up.

Any tricks with my gag reflex problems? and how cam i make him jizz faster?

Get on it - you don't know what you're missing - giving head is superb; let him skull you and lick his balls while he's in your mouth - luuuuurrrrvellllly

MY BOYFRIEND SAID THAT I HURT HIM WITH MY TEETH SOMETIMES.I DO I NOT DO THIS?

Hey, i recently started going out with a new guy, i have yet to give him head, but i told him that i hate having cum in my mouth and he understand, but his reply was well i have never cummed from a bj so it wont be a problem.
Is this something that some guys have, or is all the other girls hes been with just terrible?

I never had a problem with my EX so..Im not sure if this is something guys have, or if i just need to teach him something new..

I love eating the P***!

My girlfriend never wants to give oral sex but I'm trying to make it less of an ordeal to her. And the thing is, provided she is shaved and washed, I'd love to go down on her. I think it's equally hot either way.

I've been eating a lot of fruits lately. I might just start filling up on cantaloupe and pineapple. I hear that makes the flavor much better.

I'm not too optimistic about her changing her mind, but hopefully it works.

can giving oral sex tell you if your partner has been unfaithful

oral sex is fun....it taste good and the bf LOVES IT.!!!! i jus say go for it....

hi to everyone i've been with my girlfriend for about 3 and a half years now and we're both definitely big lovers of oral sex. If you're not doing it then do it, cause all i can say is you're missing out.

Flavoured lubes are good if you're not so keen on the taste, if guys are not so keen to go down on you then it could be because of taste so remember this, also remember that we can lose our hornyness very quickly after we've cum, so i suggest you take advantage before we do, get him to finish you first!!

for those of you that aren't sure where to start, i say that guys like thinks put simply, so just tell your guy you want to give him something back, a blowjob, be very blunt, he's NOT going to say no.

if you're worried about technique then try different things and ask him to tell you truthfully if they feel good, how could they be improved etc, we know what feels good and we can all tell you what makes the perfect blowjob so just ask and listen for 10mins and it will make the world of difference.

it is possible to give a 'not so good' blowjob, to begin with my girlfriend wasnt the best, they were a bit rough, i don't think it was teeth i think maybe her lips were too tight or something, i still came though. best advice for first time try and get things very wet and your mouth very loose and make sure you talk with him about what you're doing/done/going to do.

as for someone elses comment about the g-spot being easy to find, well after 3 and a half years yes, but there are a LOT of different textures in your vaginas so the process would be a lot quicker if while we're 'looking' you very clearly state when we've found it, if you know lol.

hmm i've ranted a lot here, what else to cover, oh cum breath, it can be an offput depends how horny you are, i suggest keeping some tic tacs or something quick and easy gum takes to long if you're horny, i think you'll find that guys can't smell or taste cum their cum anywhere near as strongly as you until it's on your breath.

ooh things i personally love from blowjobs, lots of wetness, bit of eye-contact, but keep your mind on the task, tongue, but not too much, up and down is more important, we don't mind breaks but keep the hand working the penis, deep throat is amazing!!! but we know it's difficult and are understanding of this, but i have to say if you can get over the gag reflex you're guy will be willing to give a lot back. gently fondling balls while sucking is good but be gentle! and lots of general stroking of our stomach and legs and moaning, also humming can send vibrations down our shaft that feels good! always start by just kissing and licking the penis, never jump straight in unless it's a surprise attack lol they are good occasionally actually.

right now i can't reallly be bothered to write anymore, tell me if you want to hear about anything else i might know about :)

I've been married for 22 years and my wife has not once given me a blow job! No big deal.

My boyfriend keeps asking me if i would like to try oral sex (We have had main sex a lot)... But the thing is i'm really self conscious and to be honest i just find the whole idea of oral sex gross...
He says that he doesnt mind not getting it, but admitted others have given it to him. I just don't want him to be disappointed in me... How do i get the confidence to let him perform on me and me on him...

Advice is greatly appreciated x

For CR25:

You have nothing to worry about. My girlfriend had the same problem until a couple weeks ago. One of the worst things you can do is be too self conscious. From a man's point of view, it is silly what women are generally self conscious about. Personally, i love giving head, and this was the first time I'd heard from a girl that she didn't like receiving it. It wasn't too abnormal though when she said she didn't give it. Finally, i had asked her if she had ever received it before and the answer was no. Same answer for giving it. Long story short, we talked and the reason was because she was self-conscious about her performance/look. Once i made her feel comfortable with herself, we had passionate sex in which she let me. Surprisingly, shorty after, she went down on me! Now it's a usual thing and she still can't believe we'd been missing out all this time, and sais contrary to her idea's about it, she loves both giving and receiving. Well, hope i helped ya out.

I've been goign out with my bf for 6 moths and we have had oral sex already. I didnt wanna do it cause im very cnservative (we havent had normal sex) and i was all freaked out. but when I did it, i did it cause he always goes down on me and because he had asked me before if i wanted to go down on him. The thing is that I have gone down on him several times cause i get really horny after he touches me (probably 5 or 6 times ive done it), but everytime i do so, after a little while, i start feeling scared and i get all nervous and i freak out. He is a gentleman and does not pressures me into it again once im freaked out. I dont know what can i do not to freak out like that again. I really love this guy and he is very understanding. I dont know if we should just quit doing it for a while... or i dont know... maybe im just exaggerating... i dont know but i really get freaked out!

would you guys rather give head or HJ?

my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 years and e have NOT done it even though he whants to and i think its time but my question is if i should or should not swallow so i ould like some advice from someone with experince

do guys like it more if u do swallow? c my bf and i r going 2 do it 4 the 1st time this sumer + i want him to like it +yes im a guy

i give head but want to be so much better for him

okayyyy so like i "kind of" gave head to my bf of two months tonight. & i say "kind of" because he didnt cum,,,like i put his in my mouth and stuff but i didnt do it long enough for him to cum... does that still count as "head"????

I was givin my bf head and everything was fine then he came and he started saying his dick was hurting like if it was broken...
The next day he was fine. But is it normal or like? ..

Rachel9,
You cannot ask someone else wether you should or shouldn't swallow because it completely depends on your comfort level. But to be completely honest, I hate swallowing, and any guy I've ever been with doesn't care. Men CAN be very simple.(Sometimes can be incredibly complicated, but I've found when it comes to a good old BJ...simple..) If the job's done, they're going to be too busy basking in the afterglow going "did that really just happen!?" to even notice wether you spat it out or not. My advice? If he's waited 5 years, then he knows that you're not experienced and he's obviously a very patient man, so go for it. Make it a loving gesture rather than an animalistic attack, and if you're comfortable swallowing, do it, if not, spit it. But I do recommend, if you think you may spit, get something ready to spit into BEFORE you begin, that way you're not running away from him into the bathroom. ...That kinda kills the mood. Good luck and happy blowjobs!

Brittany,
I don't want to offend you, but you seem very young. And depending who you're trying to get justification for, it may or may not "count" ...If you only put his penis in your mouth for a second, then no, you didn't really give a blowjob, and therefor it doesn't really "count" However, if that's all you're comfortable doing, then I suggest you don't go any further. Wait until you're ready.

generally guys just like the idea that their partner is willing to please them. dont worry about spiting or swallowing or even taking it in the mouth . if you do spit be discreet no noises like you ar ecoughing up a lung that is a turn off for continuing enjoying each other.kissing after is not a problem most guys wont tase or smell thier cum and if he has gone down on you it is just the same , if you are concerned have a drink or mint ready beside the bed and include this as part of the act of lovemaking ie feeding mints to each other before continuing.
to those concerned that there guy wont like it DONT be he will just love that you are doing it and if you cant make him cum just climb on top and ride him to finish off the job .

I finally fully gave a blow job. & it was amazing. i totally love it. & it turns me on knowing im pleasing him. (:

i love giving head 2 my B/F.

my boyfriend wants me in pantyhose when i give him a blowjob. is this normal ?

i'm being pressured into giving a bj to a boy that I barely even know, and I'm honstely contemplating it. The thing is, it isn't even him pressuring me! he is totally sweet and understanding about it! My own friend is telling me to do it, she said I should do it just to get it over with. Should I do it?

I wanna have sex with a boy but I have no guts to do it. Im really interested in touching someones private parts.

Is having sex really fun?

To sha:
Sex is indescribable, it is totally and utterly euphoric.

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and recently he has been asking me to do a BJ on him I have never done this before but I really do care about him and I am not sure if I am the only person that he is been intimate with what should i do?

my boyfriend loves getting head from me but sometimes he says i hurt him ...its not my teeth though, its his penis hitting the back of my throat because i cant deep throat... would that seriously hurt? i guess because its so sensitive..... it doesnt really matter because we just have sex instead and its great but i guess the only way to prevent that is to not put it so far in???

Sha, you are still too young...can tell by your language.No need to rush girl