Have you ever dated someone, being fully aware that one of your close friends likes him/her?
Can't say I have. It's a make it/break it of a friendship! If I knew my friend liked this person that much, I would think that I could find someone else out there to date!
A few years ago my friend had the hots for this gorgeous guy we'd met through a mutual friend. She'd asked me to dig up some dirt on him for her, so me being her friend did it. Although I went into it completely disinterested in him, the more I talked with him the more attracted I became. I did end up hooking up with him and although it turned into a 4 year relationship with him, it ended my 10 year friendship with my best friend - and looking back I know it wasn't worth it.
Omg my best friend totally backstabbed me and went out with my ex boyfriend who she knew I still had feelings for. Im really stubborn and I still never forgave her for that. She even seemed to rub it in my face, some friend right?
Well, my best friend dated a guy when she was 16ish and they broke up... they remained friends and she still had feelings for him when we were 20... Him and I became friends and we really hit it off... I didn't go into a friendship trying to get a relationship out of it, but we've been together now for five years now and he has been my best friend ever since. My best friend, S was a little angry about it at the time, but she's over it and is happy for the both of us.
My BFF and her guy friend see a lot of each other. The guy had feelings for her but she was just taking her time. She didn't want to go too quick with him.The guy couldn't wait so he came to see me. Me who never knew she really had big feelings for him went on a date with him.She called me the same night and told me everything and she told me that I was the worse friend ever.In the end, the guy was a jerk and never saw him again. Me and my friend are still BFF after 6 months of not talking when we both realized he was a jerk.
My friend grew up living across the street from a cute boy, but they were never very close. After university we all reconnected at a mutual freinds wedding. My friend commented that she had always had a crush on the boy, but never said anything to him. The day after the wedding he asked me out! I knew it might hurt her feelings, but I went out with him anyway. Three years later and we are engaged! My friend was disappointed that "the boy next door" wasn't meant for her...but I think she is happy for us anyway.
My friend only told me after we started dating that she have had feelings for him for a while and that I needed to break up with him. I didn't.To be honest, I think boyfriends and recent ex-boyfriends are off limits but otherwise, friends should understand.It's not because your friend doesn't go out with the guy that he will ask you out.
Maaaan... I had a suppostly "friend" she was talking my ex boyfriend while I was going out with him. Than he broke up with me and he went out with her. Plus, they kissed infront of my face but its whatever bkusz I didnt took him that seriously.. But at the end he ended up cheating on her. Haha
I'm sure I've done it unknowingly and found out after I've gotten into the relationship. But a friend I had for four years repeated dated guys that I told her I liked. I later learned from many others including the guys that she did that to every chick friend she has to make girls feeling lower than her superiority. But the sad thing is she never made anyone feel low except herself because everyone caught onto her schemes and she ended up being all alone.
Sure did! I was bff's with a girl from when we were teenagers. She had a crush on a guy who was unattainable (for legitimate reasons - he was her step brother through marriage). I ended up marrying him. She hasn't spoke to me since.
For the longest time I've felt guilgy for dating a friend's ex, the ex wanted y friend back, I wanted to help out....no one would've guessed that THAT ex got into me, I was suS***ious for the first few months of the relationship and the guilt's been eating me alive....let me just say, people say i didn't steal my friend's ex, but i still feel guilty as hell :(
yes but she had no chance in hell with him
I once hooked up with my best friends ex after going to her party.They had just broke up bc he realized he wasn't really attracted to her and wanted to be friends. He admitted to me that he always had a crush on me which is part of the reason he broke up with her. At first I felt guilty but then to think of it we both really liked each other so a few days later we hung out again and this time I slept with him.
no but my friends boyfriend broke up with her and tried to date me a day later. i said no
he was a total creep. and i think im still a little young for dating im only in grade 6
I think that if your friend and the guy breoke up, its because theyre not right for each other. I also think that doesnt mean he is not right for you. I am NOT saying its ok to start seeing him right away, but I have dated a friends ex, and we all stayed friends, he was my best friend for years and came to my wedding. The guy I married was the ex of an aquantaintence, and if I had said "oh, no, cant date him cuz someone I know did" I would have been throwing away all the could have been. We have been married 10 years. ANd PS I think if your girlfriend will hate you and ditch you for it, she was too quick to let you go anyway, and that is not a true friend.
I am dating a guy right now and my friend likes him but me and this guy have been going out for over a year already and me friend knows we like each other a lot. My boyfriend knows my friend likes him but he really doesn't like her that much.
'It\x27s been done to me. And let me just tell any girls considering doing it\x3f Don\x27t. Unless you genuinely don\x27t care about your friend or her feelings. I was in love with one of my guy friends and now he and this girl who used to be my best friend are dating. It ruined EVERYTHING and it kills me every time to think about it and be around them. She just really broke my trust completely because she told me she would never have feelings for him. \x3cbr \x2f\x3eI told her everything about how in love I was with this guy and now she\x27s dating him. I\x27m still a little in love with him. It really kills me. Please don\x27t hurt someone over such a selfish thing. It really sucks.'
'my closest friend hooked up with a guy one night then came and told me all about it...at first she had a thing for him but he totally was ignoring her. then she kept telling me shes over him. one night he saw us together, he added me on face book and we started talking \x28i didnt want to talk to him at first bcus of my frnd and wat i heard about him\x29 we got to know eachother better. we hooked up and he asked me out but i was keeping it as a secret from my frnd. she knew we talk but didnt imagine i would go out with him. so she found out tht we talk and she got so mad at me and now we re in a fight. did i do something wrong\x3f'
'Had a 2 year relationship and as soon as my close unhappily married friend found out we broke up, she showed up with a bikini at his boat....Of course, she\x27s an ex friend and he remains an ex boyfriend..\x3cbr \x2f\x3eshe can have him and his hidden addictions...maybe she\x27ll see the signs earlier than I did and realize that she\x27ll be competing with his true love...himself and his addictions'
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