Q: My wife and I have decided to limit our time spent with her family because we feel the siblings and spouses have trouble getting along, although no one else thinks this is the case. We are fine with our decision but worry that soon we will have to defend our choice and I don't want it to come to a horrible conclusion where we can't see anyone at all, especially since this would hurt her parents deeply. Can you give us some advice about how to explain this to her siblings and their partners?