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Did I Screw Up Because I Didn't Say "I Love You"?

Q: My Boyfriend told me he loved me on the fifth date Which was three weeks into dating...I ddidn't say it back because it seemed too soon and I would have been lying.

Should I Be The Woman On The Side?

Q: have a guy friend who I have known for quite a while. In the beginning of our friendship I told him that I liked him alot and that I wanted more. He told me he liked me back but he had a girlfriend who he'd been dating for a year. I didn't know this until then. I decided to keep his friendship anyway and supress my feelings. Things were going ok but whenever we hung out I could feel this chemistry between us that was getting harder and harder to ignore.

We're already growing apart!

Q: Hi I am 27 years old and I live in Quebec (sorry for my English). I have a question for you, I think I know the answer, but I want to make sure I am not over reacting or over thinking this.

Did he just want to hook up?

Q: So, I meet this guy at a club and we seem to have hit it off. We had a lot of things in common and he seemed to be interested. He even wanted me to stay with him the whole night.

What do I get for a guy who’s not into sports or the more stereotypical “guy stuff”?

Okay, this has been puzzling me for a long time now. In movies and books you'll see the guy giving the girl flowers and jewellery and all of these wonderful and romantic things. It seems easy! A simple rose could mean the world for the girl in a relationship. But what would be okay for the girl to give her guy?

Who pays for the new couch??

Q: Hello I'm moving in with my boyfriend soon, he's lived at home all his life and its going to be my fifth apartment, I have all my furniture, he's bringing his clothes and a tv. We want to get new couches, he has the money for it but I don't. A lot of people are telling me he should pay since everything else we don't have to buy because I already have so I'm saving him all that money.

I can't go to parties if there are guys there

Q: How can I get my boyfriend to listen to me when it's important? He always says I talk TOO much, but whenever I say anything it's like talking to a brick wall. My boyfriend hates talking about ANYTHING about our relationship, but sometimes things DO need to be talked about. When we fight, does it need to be discussed afterward? ...

Small-Town Girl, Big-Time Dreams

Q: I live in a small town of 10,000 people. I grew up in the area as a chubby girl. I moved away and I'm back. Recently I lost 100 pounds, feel sexy and attractive but still nothing has changed.

Celebrity Edition: Greg Behrendt

Greg, a former consultant to Sex and the City and co-author of He's Just Not That Into You, takes some of slice.ca's readers' questions to the Ask a Guy column.

Ménage à Trois?

Threesomes could work, but the best friend angle seems a little dangerous. Tons of weirdness potential coming out of a situation like that.

Celebrity Edition: Ben Folds

Ben Folds, piano player extraordinaire, sat down with us and gave us the skinny on what guys are thinking. He did issue this warning, “Like Neil Young says, ‘Take my advice, don’t listen to me.

Will you visit a strip club with me?

Q: Are guys comfortable going with their girlfriend or partner to strip bars? Would it make you uncomfortable if it was at her request? A: First Reaction: “You’re kidding – I’ll get the keys!” Second Reaction: “Hope I have enough cash for the stage show.” Third Reaction: “Wait, what’s she getting out of this?” Ultimately, we need to know your motivation for wanting to go.

What are your expectations?

Q: Do you expect a woman to have an orgasm the first time you have sex? Are your feelings hurt if we don’t? A: Every woman comes with an Ikea-like set of instructions to assemble an orgasm, and every one is different. Where her spots are, how she likes the lights, what fantasies...

I Know We Just Met But Wanna Meet My Friends?

Q: How long should I wait to introduce you to my friends? A: I usually wait until...

Can a Girl Ask a Guy Out First?

Q: Can a girl ask a guy out first? A: Do it more, do it...

 
 
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