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Classy vs. Trashy Dressing

Classy vs. Trashy Dressing
Showing off your coochie is actually not classy

Andrew Sardone is your slice.ca gay best friend. A litte sassy with a limp-free wrist and always there to set you (um) straight on everything from fashion to the fella who did you wrong.

A recent water cooler debate at my office revolved around underwear trends for 2007. I was cruising the American Apparel website hunting for briefs and boy shorts to dress some models for a photo shoot when another staffer spying over my shoulder questioned the selection of a pair of fuchsia boxers.

“Aren’t boxers out?” she asked. I granted that seventies, porn star tighty whities were big among Toronto’s hipsters.

Our art director chimed in: “I thought going commando was the underwear fad right now?”

He had a point. A quick Google search of the biggest tabloid celebutantes reveals that underwear is so over. Paris, Lindsey, and Britney are all working no-panties-required looks and flashing their coochies at anyone with a cell phone camera. Midriff bearing, low-cut cleavage and butt cheek revealing booty shorts seem chaste next to the very-in-vogue vagina flash.

And you’d think the boys would be going crazy. The amount of self-actualized men who still find themselves waving a fiver at a strip club suggests that you should show up for a first date already half-undressed. The truth is most guys would rather not see your goodies before the bread basket hits the table and as your online gay best friend, I know exactly what they’re thinking about your barely there ensemble.

My brain might not be wired to find your lady bits alluring, but I still know how the butchest straight boy will react to that micro-mini. And while I usually like to write in plain old English, I’m prepared to pull out my dusty flamey language dictionary to deliver some sassy reviews of your haute-to-hoochie looks.

#1. The look:
A wooly turtleneck and wide legged tweed pants topped with a puffy coat.

The gay review:
Granny, I know it’s like Siberia outside but the only thing that’s going to mount you in that fuzzy look is a polar bear with low expectations (snap! snap! snap!).

The fashion tip translation:
Practical winter coats can still be svelte and sexy. Keep cozy for a winter date under a piece of tailored outerwear.

#2. The look:
A sharp blazer over a collared shirt with jeans and some statement jewellery.

The gay review:
Girrrrl, that boss lady look is making me want to get all up in your biz-ness (neck jerks in a circular motion). And that necklace is fierce!

The fashion tip translation:
Show off intelligence and a creative sense of style by customizing modern, basic pieces with unique accessories.

#3. The look:
A tube dress and plastic platform heels.

The gay review:
Honey, I hope you kept your Stag Shop receipt ‘cause those stripper shoes and sausage casing gots to be re-turned. Geri Halliwell killed Ginger Spice so why you’d have to go and bring her back?!

The fashion tip translation:
You may think you’re bringing one of his Hustler model fantasies to life, but you’re probably setting yourself up for a hump and dump.

I’m quickly running out of attitude and muscle twitches so queeny Andrew’s final advice is: Some people like to say, “Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?” I prefer, “Why buy the horse if it looks like it’s already been ridden twice that day?” (Hands on hips, lips pursed.)

Written by Andrew Sardone


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Comments:

LOL! horse jokes lmao

Mary
Friday, 30 March 2007 16:15 PM EST

I hate trashy dressers. I think it is unproffessional and cheap. I think that a nice pair of dresspants is classy and lovely. Short skirts, belly tops- Way too distracting. Have some respect for yourselves,ladies.

Gale
Friday, 06 April 2007 10:58 AM EST

we like sausages thats why we wear the casing dresses.

Heather and Al
Friday, 06 April 2007 13:53 PM EST

very true....
you can still look sexy wothout being "trashy"

ellie
Sunday, 08 April 2007 19:15 PM EST

very true....
you can still look sexy without being "trashy"

ellie
Sunday, 08 April 2007 19:15 PM EST

I'm lovin the article! So true. (Horse joke=even truer!)

Glessanda
Monday, 09 April 2007 04:02 AM EST

i think its ok too dress trash , but not all the time , like if a woman goes to the bar its ok , but not as everyday wear , then thats trashy , for me i dress professional , but when i hit the bar with friends i want to dress alittle revealing

jessiva
Tuesday, 10 April 2007 16:36 PM EST

This is hilarious!! So true..

ChickAdvisor
Monday, 16 April 2007 23:14 PM EST

Hi I'M from canada need to know i can i could register for the catwalk contest

tks
email add mayeshi@yahoo.com

Delva

Ms Delva
Tuesday, 17 April 2007 09:43 AM EST

I have a very toned stomach and i love to show it off...Belly tops can be very sexy and flattering not trashy if they are worn with the appropriate attire... FOr example: belly top + skirt or little shorts.. is way too much skin.

Crystal
Wednesday, 18 April 2007 00:21 AM EST

Sure, belly tops or mini skirts are cute!... If you're 16!
Girls, get over the short clothes! You can look nice with out looking like a whore. Leave a little to the imagination!

Knowlagable
Wednesday, 18 April 2007 18:50 PM EST

Well written! Loves it :)

Tasha
Friday, 27 April 2007 00:42 AM EST

I like the girls I call "no skirts"
I randomly ask them why they didnt buy the entire skirt.
Why is sexy so trashy looking?

Why show off your entire cleavage?
Why wear barely there skirts?

Mostly...sexy is an attitude.
Look good, feel good, if you can wear a pant suit and look hot...I want to say that you are the sexiest woman!

August Long Weekend
Monday, 07 May 2007 16:39 PM EST

haha



dont people who are pigs like the whole tube dress thing?

Mel....
Sunday, 20 May 2007 17:27 PM EST

Strut it if you've got it! But if you don't use structured pieces to fake it!

Kelby
Friday, 25 May 2007 03:26 AM EST

I have been trying for weeks to log on to get on that new show the list but I can never dor it!!! Could someone from this sight help me??

Annie
Monday, 28 May 2007 11:36 AM EST

First time reader to Andrew's column and I loved it - the horse is much more timely than the cow analogy. No one wants sloppy seconds!
Some advice from a women in her later 30's who made many too short and too tight mistakes along the way. Trust me 20 somethings, you will look back and CRINGE at all pictures of your belly, bootie and coochie exposing outfits (and yes, even if these bits are perfect you will still chringe). Cover up your bits, leave something to the imagination - it will take your flirting to a whole new level!

Kdp
Tuesday, 05 June 2007 09:46 AM EST

Ok, when I go out with my girls I wear something very fashionable and comfortable, I NEVER show too much. Then you see these girls showing off everything, what are they trying to do or prove? In my opinion, I think these girls are trying to attract the bad men (scrum).
Now for my point, my girls and I will find ourselves getting the most of attention and free drinks all night.
This proves that MEN like class and not trash!

Amanda from Wisconsin
Thursday, 21 June 2007 11:42 AM EST

I LOVE this article. I am 21, very young, and even I know better than to wear clothes that show EVERYTHING. I went to a night club for the first time a little while ago (for the record I wore: nice black pants, a red tank top with a leather jacket over top although that got abandoned in coat check) and I saw 2 girls dancing around in BRAS and little skirts! I guess now even a bra qualifies as a shirt, it's sad.

Lexi
Saturday, 23 June 2007 15:31 PM EST

fashionable is the way to go...wear a cute pair of shorts and plain pointed toes stilettos..your legs will look awesome and its fashionable not trashy. try it ladies!

lovaa
Wednesday, 04 July 2007 21:26 PM EST

LADIES who dress to impress the men with tiny,to tight,and over all S***y clothes.Just get the attention of men who are intrested in only one thing.Thank you to all you nasties for leaving the great men to all of us real women.Keep up the skirts GIRLS.

crystal
Thursday, 05 July 2007 17:15 PM EST

Haha! Love the attitude there!

someone
Monday, 30 July 2007 22:20 PM EST

OK Ladies. .Seriously.. if your over oh say.. 18.. WEAR something less S***ty! There i said it! I mean yes if you are lets saying going for halloween, S*** it up.. But really.. No one respect a girl in a skirt so short you think it's a hairband.! Seriously, i as in a store that starts with a w.. need i say more? And i picked it up, turned to my mom and said" Why is there a hairband here?" and she replied" I think it's a skirt"... Anyways.. Ladies.. Another nono- No one wants to see your thong out the back of your pants that when you sit down go sooo low you can see cracks. It's not hot, not sexy, it's cheap and trashy. Go back to the park! [ You know the on i mean!] Why is that that longer skirts can not be sexy? Cause they can be very sexy. And i never was on to like belly tops..... But a nice sleek pair of long sexy black stelletto boots hot. Or tiny rounded show girl inspired high heel.. hot! Rally it's common sence...Trashy is NOT sexy!

sex says it all
Monday, 27 August 2007 20:10 PM EST

I love wearing clothes that show my bare belly. It is my best asset. I notice people looking at my belly when I wear belly tops with my gold belly chain and it makes me feel good. What's wrong with that?

lauren
Wednesday, 23 July 2008 19:52 PM EST

S***ty is in the girl, not in the clothes. S***ty is good, if you can pull it off with dignity, and so few women are able to do this. Leggings with an extremely short dress transforms it into classy, not trashy. Solid color tights with the right shoes can do the same. You can still do the no-panties-required look without exposing anything. Lindsay Lohan and even Paris Hilton started doing it more.

Anonymous Hippopotamous
Wednesday, 22 October 2008 17:50 PM EST

Love Crystal's comment, way to go girl! I couldn't agree with you more!

Starlit
Thursday, 03 December 2009 11:53 AM EST

lauren those are not stares of lust or envy...

soph
Tuesday, 12 January 2010 18:23 PM EST

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