my friend is dating my ex and well frankly that doesn't bother me because i don't like him at all but what does bother me is when he does gross things behind her back and when I say gross I mean womenizing ,disgusting , perverted things. when I try to explain the events that take place when she's not at school she doesn't believe me she'll only believe it if it comes from his mouth. Of course he lies about it just to spite me,but even if he didn't lie it's like a huge slap in the face that ahe can't even believe her best friend. Also their relationship is sooo lame. Basically consists of her and her boytoy flirting in public ,than doing more flirting at school ,than her talking about how much she hates him....yeah i know confusing !! the day before March Break she took a "break "from him ,but it was exactly like it was before it was like they were still going out it was insane! But as her best friend I don't Know how to tell her that she's not treating me like her best friend and that her relationship is really pointless...I'm good at giving advice to my friends but I can't take my own advice which frankly isnt the best situation to be in.my best friends family is crazy ,like insane ,they're all in love with her boyfriend and her mom is even calling him her future son in law ......we're in grade 8!! it's sooo pathetic I can't stand it. And I don't Know what to do and how to tell her how I'm feeling.If anyone else is in a situation like mine give me some hints or tips to tell her I may be 13 but I'm very mature I can't seem to spin myself out of this crazy web we've weaved PLEASE HELP!!

Well over a year ago I told my best friend that her boyfriend was a controlling jerk with a tempter. She then told him how my fiance and I felt and ever since then she hasn't been allowed to see me, talk to me. We've emailed each other since however just recently ended our friendship. She chose her controling boyfriend over having me in her life as her best friend. She was to be my maid of honour in my wedding, ut obviously that has changed as well. I originally wanted to express my gut feeling to my friend because that's what best friends do when they're looking out for each others best interests.

My word of advice to all, make sure you ask your friend to keep the conversation between the two of you, and not to tell the boyfriend. It's a risk you will take, however could you go on living if you didn't say anything and something bad happened? I know I couldn't.

First, explore your motives, honestly, for wanting to give your opinion and be aware of the risk you'll be taking in possibly hurting your friend's feelings and your relationship with her. Being blunt is cruel. Period. Saying "keep this confidential" is unfair and puts all the responsibility on her. The one scenario when you must speak up is abuse. Personally, I don't like anyone badmouthing someone for whom I have strong feelings. Most people are intelligent enough to solve their own problems so be a good listener and supportive. That's a true friend.

I wrote my best friend a long letter about a lot of different things, all that had been happening and i also added what I thought about her boyfriend, who she'd been with for a year. For most of the relationship, she drove them everywhere. They lived a almost an hour away from each other, but she drove him to work, to band practice, everywhere! she always bought him really nice things and was so thoughtful, he was a selfish jerk who blew his money on marijuana. he has cheated on her, and she stayed with him after she found out. i just didnt think that they could have a healthy relationship. he really knows how to maniP***te her into doing what he wants. he is controlling and sleazy. arrogant, disrespectful and lazy. she deserves so much better but doesnt think so because she has had many bad previous relationships. We had been best friends for years, but it took less than a year for her boyfriend to decide i was a threat and turning her against me. it saddens me really, because she is being really stupid. no other way to put it. i really thought she was stronger and smarter than that. we haven't spoken in about four months now.

well my friend has a boyfrend. and she and i got into a huge fight about it. she just doesnt get it. she is basically choosing her boyfrend over me. her bess frend since the 7th grade. she always has an attiude now and she thinks nothing of it. she will come and hang out wiht all of us me nd mii frends nd then wen he comes forget it none of us exsist n e more. we arent talkin now because she thinks that im jealous of her boyfrend. he treats me like crap. always swearin at me nd disrespecting me. your boyfrends will come in and out buh your frends will always be there. it doesnt matter how much in love wiht them you are. there will always be someone else who is frankly better. juss remember that. and n e guys who disrespects their girlfrends frend is RUDE AND IGNORANT. and wen ur "bess frend" doesnt stand up for u nd lets it go she juss as much as a back stabber as he is.

I don't like the way my close friend's boyfriend treats her. He is not abusive, from what I know, but he is very controlling. She is an adult, and can make her own choices, and I see no reason to impose my opinion on her. That being said, it makes me sad that she accepts his controlling and insecure behaviour. She deserves better, and I wish she could see that.

My Problem is the opposite and this is the closest thing I could relate to. I don't like my brother-in-law's girlfriend and have a gut feeling that she is messing around. She is younger not that thats an excuse. I just feel awful since its his first gf and I can see plain as day that she is taking him for a ride, She moved in with him just so she wouldnt have a curfew, and she controls his money. I'm so torn because I know he is going to be crushed, and at the same time I dont want to look like a jerk for saying something and have it thrown back at me. I just wish there was some way to indirectly help him.

I completely agree with Halifax 100%! My BF has been dating this creep for almost a year. She's not even that serious about him, yet she won't drop him! She's even been dating someone else for the past few months.
He's so rude to all of her friends and rude to her in front of us. He'll act like a complete jerk around us an then say whatever she wants to hear later when they are alone to smooth things over with her. I know she is smarter than this and should see that he knows exactly how to play her. It's almost embarassing.
I can't wait for the day that she finally kicks him to the curb!
Please know, I've never been so offended or disliked anymore more in my life. Like my name, I am known as a pretty nice person and extremely easy to get along with. For someone to make me feel as strongly as I feel about him, you know he has to really be jerky!

well my best friend is stuipd , she has this boy calling her,and he is telling all the nice words and i know him for about 4 years we went to school together and he had a lot of girl. i tell her about this boy that he is no good. me and my best friend are friends for 2 years and she only know this boy for 3 months. and she don't belive what i told her about him, she is choseing this boy over me her bestfriend.the boy is sending her some bad text message and he told her that he will kill him self if she leaves him.but she told me that she does not lilke this boy them i foound out that she lied to me and that she actually like him,but he is far away and she doesn't know what he is doing where he is.and all he wasn't from her is sex. i told her coz his text message that he sents her can say that.and my best friend say is just joke. but she said he is serious. please can anyone give me some advice to give to my best friend , and ever time i tell her about it she say that is her personal life and that i should not business but i can't understand y do she tell me what he says to her and he told her that he want to have sex and she said yes when he comes.my best friend is a christian like my self and i think she is out of her mine.please can u help me.

I've a best friend from college that'd been dating her boyfriend for four months. We live across country and she was going to be in town where I live to visit her boyfriend's extended family. She said she couldn't wait to get together with me. I told her how excited I was to meet her new man. Well, she came in town and I never heard from her. I called her a couple of times with no response. I then called her when I knew she was back home and no longer in the area. She picked up and explained to me that not calling me made sense at the time and she should have never told me she was coming. She said she should've stayed in the area without me knowing. It was unlike her. Finally, she called later and cried on the phone that her boyfriend didn't like meeting her friends. Not even the ones back where she lives. She said that she always lies for him in situations because her family likes him. I found out that in four months he had never taken her on a date. They slept in the same bed everynight, but nothing happened. They later broke up, but now she is back together with him and informed me that she never mentioned me to her boyfriend when they were in town. That was a real slap in the face. She said that he was disappointed in her because of this. She also said that things were going great. It's been a month and our friendship has faded. She promised she would make an effort to show me she still cared about our friendship, but since then has made no attempt to call or write. I think our friendship is over.

I have my best best friend for over 10 years, And i have already lost her once to a controlling dickhead boyfriend for 3 years because he told her we( her friends for years )were a bad influence.I am now the only friend from that group of friends that opened back up to her and we became even better friends since years ago now,until last year we were living together and being a friend of so long she supported me when i was unemployed looking for a job,maximum 2 weeks without lack of trying, I found employment,then a bunch of new comers to the town boy & girlfriend started to get a bit clicky with her,(they were smoking alot of grass)I told her they were not our friends and she knew i did not like them,I went out bush on a cattle station for 4 months or so and the day I left she invited them to stay in the house.
Which turned out to be a nightmare when i got back to find them,him and my mate (the other chick had left)and numerous other backpackers all camping in our 2 bd room apartment all doped up and smoking all the time till all hours day and at night til they passed out.
my best mate was funding this now unemployed F***wit while he sat at home and smoked all their weed while she was at work,then they would go buy more,on her.spending $50 every second day on the stuff.for 3 months and more.I think she loves him but he keeps sleeping around,he's not committed,but she's giving him everything,we had a scooter together and as soon as he moved in she let him ride it,all fine and good except he has balded the tires by his stupid stunt riding ,now she's footing the bill for that too.along with all the rent and bills,he's not contributing to.
I moved back to my folks place(dif state) and told my other good mate,we got on to her about it so she would clean up her act,surprisingly she did.and the loser dickhead got a job.
she came back for chrissy to see her friends and family all the while getting fone calls from him cause he was loosing it cause she wasn't there with him! then she went back and now i think this loser hasn't got a job again and she is supporting him again,SHE HAS ONLY KNOWN HIM FOR 7 MONTHS!!!!!!!!and now i want to move back to this place, cause i love it,and mentioned that it would be good if we could move out together,she seems to want to bring this dickhead along but i have sent her the biggest email explaining everything i feel and how i cant stand him.waiting on the reply,very scary,i could loose her again to another dickhead bloke!

my best mate knows i hate this boy and she keeps going out with him- he always breaks her heart and every time she promises me she will never go bk out with him, within weeks they are going back out and i no the same thing will happen again.x

So my best friend just started getting involved with this new guy Kevin. At first i thought he was a decent guy, but recently he's be making my friend change. My friend and i liked to go out and have a few drinks every now and again, but now, because Kevin doesn't like drinking he's told my friend that he cant drink anymore. Every time he calls him and it's evening Kevin always asks "Have you had anything to drink?" and even if my friend has had an after supper drink he'll lie.
Look, if someone dates you, it should be because that person likes you for who you are, not because that person likes somethings about you and it's going to make sure you change to fit their liking.
I just wish my friend would open his eyes, i understand that the beginning of a relationship feels good because you have someone who likes you and you can feel close to that person. But be realistic, if that person if making you become someone your not then that person is maN***ulating and controlling. I love my best friend for who he is, and now he's changing for some A***, if he doesn't like you for you, then he can find someone ells.

my best friend's boyfriend is my stepcousin. I don't like him because i think he is arrogant, conceited and lazy. He gets everything he wants since his parents got divorced when he was 10. She has meanwhile realized that i don't like him and always tells me how great he is and that i should talk to him and get to know him better.But I just can't do it, i really tried!!! Believe me. I just fear that he might presume upon her good nature!!
I fear that i might lose her and that would be the most horrible thing that could happen to me, and now i don't know what to do. Is it okay if I just say nothing and accept the whole situation? or should i risk our freindship for an idiot like him? But the problem is that if i just accept the situation i am not feeling good and will never enjoy the time spending with her.
But the worst thing is that she has a really really nice, hot and understanding guy that really loves her, but she just wants him as her friend. He has been loving her for years. And the good thing is that i like him and that he ACCEPTS me as her best friend!!

my best friend is 19 and her bf is 23. i really detest my best friend's bf. he's an abusive freak. he's really not goodlooking, has no job, no income, as in nothing. the thing is, they have only known each other for 3 months and pushed her to have sex with him. darn. everytime i talk to her about her bf, and how freak he is, she was like i'm not interfering with ur love life, and i love him too much.

her bf was soooo in control of her as if he's the master of my friend's destiny. i abhor the guy. he wants her to call him everynight and sms him everytime. my best friend has a job. she can't concentrate with her work. i am really upset about how things are right now.

the thing is, how can i stop her? it's affecting her work and her life. she doesn't even have time for her family and her savings belts to zero. i dunno what to do as a friend. sigh.

My close friend is really irritating me. She is always yapping on about all her trips to so and so with her boyfriend and her BIG trip to be with her boyfriend. I'm sick of it. When I get to see her...she just keeps on talking about him and I can't relate or converse anything with her without her mentioning him.

I'm happy for her but I don't think I can be friends with someone who is so self-centered.
I hope maybe someone can relate to my situation.

I have known my best friend since the second grade. We've been friends and next door neighbors for years. She hasnt really ever had a real relationship with any guy. Though, she took a real intrest to this one guy who dumps every girl he dates for some sleazy chick. If not that he cheats on them all. I told her i had a bad feeling about him, because of his history, and some of the things he does. But she insisted hes a great guy, and that i didnt really know him. Which was totally true. I didnt really know him, so i thought i was just being paranoid. A couple of weeks went by and she told me shes was going to go hangout at his house with her other friend, Christina. I figured everything would be fine, since she wouldnt be alone with him. But, the next day she told me he did some things to her [[that i dont think is aloud to be put on the internet]] and i didnt want to to show her that i was mad, but the truth was, i was furious! tey had only been going out for an hour! and she thinks that what he did is something normal in a relationship, and its not. Its not healthy. she told me i was soundnig like her mother. They've been dating a week now, and i know for sure now, he isnt a nice guy, and hes going to get her hurt and in trouble. This being her first relationship, I dont want her thinking this is how a normal boyfriend acts, she needs to have some self-respect. but how do i tell her that? Its been bothering me for a couple of weeks now, please someone help me.

im best friends with this one girl. weve ben best friends for about 2 years. she really had a rough childhood and reltionship history. before we started hanging out she did some drugs and drank and rolled with this one crew but after we got close she ditched them because she saw that there are good people in the world and that you dont need to do those things to have fun. but yeah her dad has a history of walking out on her and its because of her mom and shed blame her but then found out her dad hits her. shes a recovring wrist cutter and has depression and afterawhile she was doing great! her grades were amazing, she was happy and healthy. then she started dating this guy firt off she was about 13 and he was 21 which is sick already and then he was an A*** and broke up with her. she was crushed,heartbroken, i never saw my friend like this before. now shes dating this creepy grimy metal haed guy whose 20. he lied to her and said he was a senior and 18 but my friend siad she goes to the school he used to go to and that he graduated two years ago. hes unbeliveably grimy, like i wanna take 4314 showers after seeing this guy. and like idk i get a really really bad vibe from him. maybe im paranoid but sometimes you just know? anyway i dont want to tell her this because then im afraid ill upset her and shell go back to the way she was before and i really dont want to loose my best friend, i really dont. =[

women are sometimes often controlled by men. i know after reading this first (powerful) sentence many women will be offended but the truth is... it happens to most women atleast once in their lifetime... I'm not gonna lie i went through it at a young age which i'm thankful for. but the only good thing about that is after you dump the loser and get over it you learn so much more to appreciate your family and friends and learn to juggle your relationships a lot better. its not until you go through this that you learn to do that. and its ok to get angry if your the one on the other side or the best friend watching your friend date a jerk. because it will make you learn as well. when you start dating a jerk you'll learn to recognize it a lot faster.

ps. i'm great with advice... i have life experiences that might help the youth today if any of you ever need advice or just someone to vent to or just chat it up a bit do not hesitate to email me...


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Ive been bestfriends with this girl for seven years. We've gone through alot, and we each know eachothers flaws. shes only had a few boyfriends in her life. And she either pressures them to get what she wants, or they get sick of her and dump her. Well now shes with this one guy, and I dont like him. Hes vile, has anger problems, he bad mouths me, calls me such things like "whore" Its ridiculous. She just got together with this guy a month ago, only a week after her old boyfriend dumped her. Me and her ex are very good friends, and we dont want anything bad to come of this, and as much as i dont like the guy, i dont want him hurting her or visa versa. She constantly ditches me, and her other friends to go hang out with this sleezeball, and i feel hurt because she dosent hardly ever talk to me anymore and when she does, its only a few words over the internet or on the phone. Me and her ex are contemplating pretending to be together, and blowing her off the same way shes doing it to everyone else. I know its not the smartest thing to do, but i feel the sting will knock her back into reality.

Me and my best mate have been friends for many years now and have been threw many situations with each other, and was really close, she means the world to me and nothing seemed to crack us, untill her new man has come in to her life. i know im not jealous of her relationship as i have a strong relationship with my bpyfriend but i set them to up and now he pulls her away from me and always have to be all over her and it is starting to get to me now as i cant lose my best friend, i dont know what to do, as i dont wantt him to win, but on the other hand she can always tell him to go way for a bit of space when she is with me, it hurting me so much it reduces me to tears as i feel that my relationship is going to end over a boy even though mates come well before guys , but the thing that hurts the most is i really got on with her boyfriend and i cant spend 5 minutes with her with out him feelling insecure and has to be with her and pull him away, i dont know what i should do please help.

omg thank you!! this helps. i cant stand that creep!!!!!!!! he is a jerk and i know my bff can do wayy better than him!

i think my bestfriend deserves a whole lot better. cause i know her bf just wants to be in her pants. she wont listen to me, she doesnt seem to care about what i have to say. she can do way better. :/

I have this friend and we're so close that we're practically sisters. she didn't bother to tell me they were going out. but she told this girl, who has the biggest mouth on the planet. it makes me mad & sad at her. but her boyfriend gives me a really bad vibe, and i feel like hes gonna treat her badly & hurt her very bad! it makes me feel like hes gonna be like my ex (a jerk) and i desperatly wanna tell her but i'm really scared of loosing her......i feel like since we're so close that i should tell her. but i don't wanna impose, what do i do???

My best friend started going out with her A*** of a boyfriend over a year ago now, and nothing has been the same between us or between her and any of our other friends since. He is really controlling, maniP***tive and insecure, he always goes on and on and on about her past to her, making her feel guilty about any guy she ever went out with or any guy that liked her before they were together, just because he never had a girlf before her. She has no reason to feel guilty, she cannot change the past. He goes mental and sulks if she even talks to another guy, and has made her delete all her male msn and yahoo contacts. He insults her and belittles her all the time, treating her like hes only joking but hes wearing away her self confidence. He had hit her hard enough to leave bruises a few times before me and another friend stepped in, but she refuses to leave him. The only time i really have proper conversations anymore is when she (literally) needs a shoulder to cry on, the rest of the time as he is always with us, she pretty much ignores everyone else and focuses on him. But she continues to stay with him, insists she loves him. Me and our other friends can't intervene or say anything to him, because he'll get mad that she 'told' and take it out on her. All her energy goes into trying to keep him happy and she can't say no to him on anything, which is why he is crashing a girls night out we had planned tomorrow night for our friends birthday. He will be the only guy, but she cant say no to him, and i know that if he thinks another guy so much as looks in her direction tomorow night he will go mental at her and ruin the night. She is worth a million of him and she deserves so much better, but i've given up hope she'll ever break free of him now.

I have been friends with my Best Friend since we have been kids. She met this guy not too long ago. He quite a bit older and I know he hangs out with some weird people, and to be honest I have heard bad things about him and just get this really bad feeling about him. She has this way of picking these guys however she tells me nothing is going on they are"just friends" but I have heard things that make it seem like they are but she keeps insisting that they are not. I know he has pressured her to have sex and she has stayed at his house several times but talking to her doesn't work she just gets defensive I don't want to give up on her but what can I do? why would she chose this creep she has known 3 months over her best friend for years.

A friend of mine has just found out that her bf cheated on her although it was "JUST" a kiss as she says, it really hurt her. She told me that she really does Love him and has decided to forgive him. How do i tell her that once is enough, and even though she loves him she needs to leave him ?

My best friend has been going out with this dude that once was like totally in love with me...i mean seriously he would call and text and the funny thing is i never gave him my number in the first place...he was so into me and i tried so hard to push him away ..and thankfully i did ..but then him and my best friend started going out and stuff and since then he has made my life a living hell... my best friend who's name is lisa would be there all the time calling me and texting way before the dude( justin) came ...and she was before justin dating his cousin mike and i thought they were a great couple but she cheated on mike and mike cheated on her and that's how their relationship ended but between her and justin it was just the beginning.. it doesnt bother me that justin once like me and stuff and now his going out with my best friend but what does bother me is they way his pushing her from me..since they started dating lisa barely asnwers my calls or texts ..last time we when one month without talking and it bugs me cuz shes my best friend and i expect her to be there for me cuz i've always been there for her and im trying so hard to be there now that things changes...i tried to tell her that her boyfriend is a jerk who only calls me names and insults me and stuff but shes always telling me you do it too..only cuz im the type of hard girl who is not gonna take a boy calling her names and stuff so i'll said it back to him and then will be like fighting ...now there's a rumor going out that she cheated on mike cuz she kiss-kiss justin..and when i said kiss-kiss i dont mean a peck but make out ....and she told me the secret and i swear i never told anyone but somehow everyone as in her friends and ex boyfriend found out and that's why everyone talks stuff about justin and lisa..she doesnt believe in me and now she's threatened me ..telling me she'll tell me crush that i like him and she's gonna make me look bad for him...i dont know what to do i've been stressing out since justin came into my life and my best friend is so impossible to talk cuz she doesnt understand me cuz she soo in love with justin and stuff ..funny thing is lisa is in a another country so they have a long- distance relationship and stuff and when i talk to her how i feel she'll be like " oh jessica ur just jealous of us and stuff.." i dont know what to do to make her understand me anymore...i tried everything even breaking them up but its just impossible...right now i called our friendship quits ..i told her i was done with her and her boyfriend...i hope i did the right thing... :(

i love my bff!! shes lyk a sista to me bt recently i found out she lykd this guy...wel u see she kinda dated this guy nd dan i dated him nd nw she sooo badly wanna date him agen its nt lyk i hv feelins for him bt i jus dnt want 2 see her get hurt lyk i dd coz i knw wat hez lyk nd hez gna hurt her bt she heel ova heels in love wit him nd she lyk askd him out nd nw she wating for da reply...im such a bad bff...coz i kinda hping he gna say no i knw she gna b hurt bt itz beta nw dan lata...nd lyk even if he sayz yes i mean i hate him!! nd he hates me mre dan i hate him...afta we broke up he dd da worst thing 2 me he lied, jus played me,send reali mean things abt me behind my bak nd LOT MRE!! bt she knws this i knw it happend quite awhile ago bt me nd him jus dnt get on nd hez stil childish nd stil lyk reali hates me...i jus so worried dat if dey date dat gna push me nd hr apart...i mean shes knw me for lyk over 5 years nd shesjus knw him for lyk 1 or 2 years....im scared he myt say stuff abt me to her nd she jus gna lyk forget abt me..im scared if she has to choose between me nd him she wil choose him nd im way to scared to tel her any of this i mean wat if she hates!! ah i dnt knw wat to do!!! help

One of my best friends recently told me she doesn't like my boyfriend. She should have read this before she did it. It put a total strain on our friendship, because I really care about my boyfriend. We've been together seven months, and she's met him once, and judged based on one night. We had a huge fight about it, and to be honest, now I'm in a really weird position. I'm not breaking up with my boyfriend, but now I'm afraid to have the two of them hang out. I have to decide who to hang with, and feel weird talking about my bf to my best friend. And if you can't talk about your boyfriend to your best friend, then that's a real problem. For any of you ladies about to tell your friend and you don't like he boyfriend, make sure you know the guy properly first, and can really back everything you say up. And be careful with your friends feelings, because if not she'll end up resenting you.

well iv had my best friend for 6 years...now she is dateing a loser who treats her like crap..i dont get it because befor she started to go out with them we all hung out as friends and she seen how he acks ..hes mean dose not no how to treat a gir or even talk to onel. I once was talking to him and as soon as i found out what he was really like i said NO.....she was there right by my side saying hes a jerk.. now they are togetther me in my bestfriend really dont talk anymore she is always with him. she dont want to do anyhing without him i dont like him so i dont want to be aronud him. i dont know what to do. The only time she needs me is when somwthing goes wrong for her. I dont want to stick around and just wait for her toget over him i know its not going to last long with them two..well i hope not but i want to move on so i can show her that im not goin to wait for you because she wont have any one once there done because she blows all her good friends off for that LAME!

hi my name is louise my friend has a boyfriend she think its great have a boyfriend she always going somewere with him but she not tell me she going out with him idont have a boyfriend ,she lie to me all the time and she does want me around

Well my friend is dating this Guy and he keeps saying that he loves her, but I know he's just a player, she even said it herself. He broke up with her adn went out with another girl, then broke up with that other girl and is going out with her again. I HATE HIM! but she LOVES him! please help!

Let me start off by saying I'm a guy and my best friend is a girl. So the other day My best friend and I were hanging out and the next day at school her boyfriend said he didn't want her to hang out with me because he thought I was stealing all his time with her. WE'VE BEEN BEST FRIENDS SINCE 2ND GRADE!!!! Whenhe siad that it made her cry and she almost broke up witth him, like I was hoping, but she didn't and when I asked her why not she said because she "loved him", they haven't been going out a year. And then when I said I didn't like her boyfriend she said I should try because if her bf and I didn't get along she would have to choose which relationship to keep togehter and she sadi it like it was a difficult choice! 2ND GRADE MIND YOU! Now I don't know what to do, although this little rant helped.

We're in high school now, so 2nd grade is a pretty long time.

heyy all i don t know wat to do i can t seem to let my friend of 10yrs go. i have been with my bf for 3yrs and she has been with her bf for 4yrs. we all got on really well till we moved in with them her bf was really lazy never helped out always trying to hit on me just a dickhead. well one day me and her bf got in to a fight not that big so i went and brought a home with my bf it was to hard to live there. when we moved he turned her on me to hate me. after all these years i took her back when she would stop talk to me over her other bf. i feel for the whole 10yrs she just used me. HELP!!!!!!!!

i dislike my bestfriend's boyfriend cause in the past he was a pervert, really liked to flirt with girls, and really care about every girls,, by means care is he could took something from ur hair and said " there is smthing on ur hair," and then he swept ur hair gently,,, ewwwww,,
he also kissed with his ex gf's bff,, and he flirted with my bff while she has her boyfriend, and for God knows why she accepted him and she had 2 boyfriends for a while,,

when suddenly she felt so guilty, she cut off the relationship with that jerk and do u knw what happen next??? that jerk said that he will cut his vein, slice it, so that he can forget about the pain,, and u knw whatttt??? my bff again fell on his trick,,,,,,,,,,,,, arrrrrrrrrrgggggghhhhhhhhhhhhh
i hate both of them

My mum is seeing someone that is controlling and maniP***tive and everyone can see it but her. He is rude to all her friends and says nasty things whilst she is out of earshot. He treats her lovely home like a hotel and doesn't lift a finger. My Mum solit up with her ex husband and asked us all to tell her if we thought someone wasnt right for her all her friends have as have I but she won't listen. He is so rude and a complete sponger. I dont know what to do,

My friend has been dating this guy for 6 months and I can't stand him! He is so controlling and rude. He always makes rude racist remarks toward me and anytime I'm trying to talk to my bff and he is around he will go up to her and start making out right in front of me! It's soo fricken nasty. Anytime we have something planned he has to crash it bc he "wants to hang out with her" but they see eachother every day and I neve see her. Like today we were supposed to go to a sweet 16 together. She said she couldn't ride with me and we would just meet up there. It was supposed to be a girls night out, just me and her. I get to the party and there he is. I didn't know anyone else bc she knew th girl and was just inviting me and she was on top of him the whole time bc he wanted to be "alone" soo I was stuck alone at the snack table all night. I'm just sick of him not respcting our plans making racist remarks and just being controlling . I have been best friends with her for 3 years and she is like my sister, but I am getting sick of him, should I tell her how I feel or just leave this friendship alone??? Idk what to do. I don't want to lose a great friendship butbher bf is a controlling obsessive prick!!

I'm a guy My friend (a girl) has been dating this guy for nine months now and he is all wrong for her. He doesn't express his emotions or how he feels to her unless they're fighting and she is about to break up with him. Her boyfriend is extremely dependent on her and is unable to have any sort of fun when he is not with her. He takes up all of her free time (he has to be around her 24/7). I've told her that she deserves someone better but she refuses to believe it. He's nice and all but I feel like she's not getting to have a life. He's graduating this year and she'll be a junior but he told her even though he's going to a college over an hour and a half away that he will come see her everyday after school and or work. When he said this she didn't look pleased. I think she's afraid of hurting his feelings if sh breaks up with him. Also everyone else seems to think he's the perfect guy for her and that they are going to get married but he's only her second real bf. He's extremely clingy and needy and when they fight because he gets upset she's not hanging out with him or when she feels like he isn't putting in his half. He doesn't do anything romantic for her and she LOVES romance, she's told him that since day one but he doesnt listen. Now he's pressuring her to have sex with him. Am I just supposed to stand by and let him ruin her life?

My best friends boyfriend is so annoying i mean every time i am hanging with her he comes and expects me to leave i mean what the hell. I am getting really pissed and annoyed and i don't know what to do. He just bugs me so much...i kind of liked him before she did but i never told her and i never will now but i am feeling very rude towards him cause i walk away everytime he comes near. It's either that or hearing talk about her i love her so much but latelty shes been ingnoring me and ditching me for him. We are going out in a few days he's cming :(ahhhh. i am going to ingnore him like she ignores me when he comes around. What should I do?

Best friend since kinder-garden is experiencing her first love and it is with a guy that, as far as I can tell, is a weirdo. She claims they are in love, but they have broken up several times. I'm afraid they will be together for a long time and I don't know how this will affect our sisterly bond. He has done some really immature, rude and horrible things to her, me, and our other friend and he is friends with some not so good people. She has changed so much because of him and thinks that she can change him. He can't change though. Any normal, not-in-love person would know this. Now she doesn't even talk about him with me because she knows I don't like him at all. I'm so scared for our future....

If your a best friend, be honest. Not harsh, but honest. It is altimately the persons decision, so don't be overly cruel, but do not make it seem like nothing. Tell her that you are her best friend and love her no matter what and will be there no matter what, but that you think she can do much better. Make her understand that you get it, that you can see how much she like\love\lusts after him, but you think that she will find someone better. But make sure when you end a conversation like this that you make it clear you are only voicing your concerns and that in no way are you judging because you are on the outside of the relationship, and don't know everything that goes on behind closed doors!....... p.s. never should you give your best friend an ultimatum! That is cruel and unfair and if you do then you must not want a best friend but only someone who is there when you want them to be, because that's exactly what you'll get.

our roommate has this bf we hate. The first time she meet him we meet him. She talked to hom online for like a month then decided to bring him to our dorm room which has 3 girls in it and have him stay for 4 days and 3 nights. The first time she even meet him. He seemed ok at first, however first thing he says when he comes back is "Did you tell them about the party?" Meaning this 25 yr old guy wants to buy all 19 yr olds alcohol in a very dry campus. Cool nice to know hes an acloholic. Next he pulls our roommate on top of him and they start making out hard core. They dont even notice me and my other roomate run out of the room and stay gone for 15 min. We knock when we come back but they are still going at it even though we tell them we r coming in. they laugh like its a joke and its funny even though they have only meet in person for 3 hrs. My roommate and i grab our stuff and go to dinner, which they blew us off for, for a an hr makeout session. Which you could see out the back window of our dorm room. So walking back we saw them put pants and shirts back on. When asked about it she denied even after we said we saw it and her coming to apoligize meant him coming to so we couldnt say anything to hurtful to him or her. Not to mention she is a bigger bit** with him always knocking us down. Awesome glad to know she chooses boys over friendships.

My best friend was my roommate all throughout college. During our last year together, we decided to get an off-campus apartment. Her boyfriend came to live with us, since it didn't make sense for them to have to pay 2 separate rents. After about the first month I disliked him greatly. My roommate and I are not obese, but we are far from being thin as well. The boyfriend said something one day about a music artist being too overweight and that any woman can get down to 100 pounds, most just don't have the willpower. He didn't understand the concept of anorexia. He would lie to his employers and admitted to stealing mailed packages of technical gadgets in his past. They were both recreational drug users, though I don't know if you would call smoking 3 times a day recreational.... He hit on me while she was working at her senior internship, and ultimately took care of himself. He admitted to watching my boyfriend and myself in my bedroom through the crack in my door. All in all I loathed him, but I couldn't say anything to my roommate because it would have ended even worse than it already was. I moved out 5 months after the "incident" into a studio and have sworn off having roommates ever again. I still haven't told her what he attempted to do with me. I haven't talked to her since I've moved out, for the past 5 months. I want to say something so desperately, 'cause now they have a house together and are talking about marriage. I know she won't believe me, but it has been tearing at me for over a year now. I have no idea what to do...

my best friend's boyfriend is a jerk. Here's the twist: they're both guys. This guy tries to control everything my friend does, treats everyone around him awfully, is condescending, acts like everyone is not as intelligent as him, and actually claps at me like I am a dog. As you can see I don't like him. I've tried being supportive, I've tried the grin-and-bear-it technique and I've told my friend how I feel. I just don't really know what to do to handle this anymore. help?

Im 13 years old and my BESTFRIEND who I have known since Pre-K has her 1st boyfriend... Now I dont wanna get in the way of things but I told her he is a stupid, lying jerkface.. she took it the wrong way and now hates my guts.. how can i get her to stop dating him and like me again! :(( Please HELP!

Sadly I already tried to have this conversation with my friend but it proved to be pointless. She's got her head so far stuck up the clouds that she's not listening to reason. She's decided to choose her boyfriend over her friends.

Her current boyfriend has unfortunately lasted for 2 years and the relationship is apparently still going strong.

Several friends have tried to tell her he's an absolute creep. He decides what she's allowed to wear or what she should look like, how many children they'll be having and what their names will be (even though my friend doesn't want kids), where they'll be living, who she should be allowed to see (her relatives not being good enough apparently) where they'll be going on holiday and so on. Besides that, he's a disgusting womanizing jerk from the stone-age. She's not allowed to make more money than him for example, he feels it threatens his masculinity. It's sad really.

He does things in such a nice but manipulative way however that it sounds like he's the one making a huge sacrifice, meanwhile he always gets his way and controls everything in the household. My friend simply doesn't see the problem with it.

It's really sad to see a headstrong and confident young woman go down the drains like that. We're at a loss as to how to try and break it to her, being gentle about it clearly not helping. She's loosing a lot of friends really quickly and only ever seems to 'hang around' with his relatives nowadays, of course thanks to his interference. Making it a girls-only night is becoming more and more of a problem, he always insists on being there. Meanwhile he gives everyone the shivers and not in a good way.

Anyone got some advice?

my enemys boyfriend is rude to me and i dont like him ive told her that i dont like him and she thinks i like him and always says "he is my boyfriend not yours" i need to tell her that i dont like him but HOW?

Hi, I'm 13, & my ex-girlfriend's boyfriend is acting like a [Insert Any Cuss Word Here] towards all of her friends but when everyone tells her, she says they r lying.... What do i do to get him extremely pissed off at me so that he will say bad stuff about me?

My BFF has this new bf that lives next door to her and he has no friends like I swear none an he's a year older than us (were seniors in high school) but he just sits in his basent every freaking day and does nothing he doesn't go to college he doesn't even have a job! But theve only been dating for like 2 months and he apparently didn't rake his medication for his ADHD one night and he like seriously grabbed her arms and pulled her away from her house door when we were trying to go inside!!! Then another time he said "she doesn't understand simple things" about her infront of her and me and this other girl so like WTF who says that so she didn't talk to him tr rest of the nite so then it was just me her and her bf and we wanted him to leave since he was being a prick and he would not F***ing leave I swear to god an u kno eat he texted to her while I was sittin right F***ing next to her! "ur only mean when sarahs around" SO THE LITTLE B*******DS TRYING TO BLAME ME FOR S***!!!! I almost lost her as a friend completely like twice now god I hope he gets sent to Africa for some reason and has no way of communicate with her since it's not very Christian to say I hope he dies but there are just some people that really don't have a purpose In life and I feel 100% he is one of them

My best friends bf has done stupid things and I cant even start to explaibe all I can say is thst he has been to juvie at least 5 or 6 times in the past year for stuff like stealing flip flops from s local pool I have tryed to tell her why I dont like him and she could care less... This is her secound bf that is so controlling that je wont even let her hang out wit hMe he has gone as far as deleting meoff her phone . I dont know wjat to do me ans some of our friends have wven trued getting all to gether and telling her why were so worried but she 4osnt care.i have trued every thing and it won2 help im almost ready to ditch the friend ship its prettu dumb how I can become invisa woman because sombody not worth my sipt waled ibto the room I really need help!

My friend has been dating this guy for about 8 months. At the beginning of the relationship i caught him hooking up with a girl right infront of her in a club.. this was after he hit on me and told me he was still in love with his ex girlfriend. Now she is head over heels for him and doesnt beleive anything i say about him. He hasnt changed. The other night we were all out together and wen she walked away to get a drink he made a snid comment to me. I told him to shut the F*** up but unfortunately thats the only part of the conversation she heard. Ive been friends with her for over 10 years and am scared im gonna lose her over this but im not the type of person to just sit there and not say anything. I just wanna punch him..

I have been good friends with her for 2 months now. A week ago she asked this complete jerk out! He insults her or shuns her, slaps her when he's mad, bullies me, is always moody, and is so ugly with a gross voice. I want the best for her but I don't want her to ditch me. Everyone in my school agrees with me. I think that she is in an abusive relationship. What should I do?

HELP HELP please my best friend has an A*** of a bf, who says the stupidest S*** like "your using me" and "and your fake" hurting her everyday like toally douchebag jerseyshore style am sick of him and every time he hurts her and i try teling her she just say am hurting her, and THE SADEST THING IS, they havent even met in real life? stupid and so F***ed up right? please say something to her http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=10000076
3191150 beafore she dose something stupid

Dang, these are some pretty sad stories. I can really sympathize and relate. I am well aware that for the most part I should be supportive of my best friends bad choices for her boyfriends, but I'm not sure how much longer I can keep this up. My BFF has a reP***tion for dating guys who treat her with such disrespect and she admits it, yet she doesn't ever really do anything about it. She JUST got out of a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship like two weeks ago and she is already dating another guy who is doing pretty much the same things as her ex used to do to her. This new guy "jokes around" with her all the time and puts her down, plays mean jokes on her, he just says some really disrespectful things and I'm really quite sick of her talking about this guy. The thing that really irritates me is when she calls me all the time just to tell me what this new guy says and does to be mean to her. Most of the time she says he "jokes around" with her about her ex boyfriend because he constantly refers to my friend as "mrs. Orroyo" (which is her exes LAST NAME!). She absolutely despises her ex and anything to do with him and this new guy knows it, but he still continues to be a jerk about it. She has told me many times that it does bother her a lot when he says stuff having to do with her ex, and then when I ask her why is she allowing it to continue, she starts making excuses for this guy saying "yeah, I know he's being disrespectful and it does annoy me, but he's just "playing around" so its ok because I know he doesn't mean it." Like WTF! THEN, a couple days ago, she calls me up crying telling me how this guy started yelling at her and cussing her out and accusing her of sleeping with her ex just because she wasn't answering her phone for a couple hours! Basically calling her a lying whore. I was outraged when she proceeded to tell me that after he was done making her cry, that he told her he was just playing a joke on her just to get a rise out of her. He told her she was overreacting and she was being overly sensitive and to quit being a cry baby. The weird part is, she was clearly upset, yet she ended up defending his actions and making excuses for him when I was like "wow elena, that's pretty cruel of him, why do you let him do that to you? That's something that should never be joked around about." This is an everyday occurance. If he's not referring to her as "mrs. Orroyo", he's playing mean jokes on her and being a jerk. Why does she tell me bad things he's doing to her and then ends up trying to justify his behavior? I'm just really sick of this and I just wanna shake her really hard and tell her "elena wake the hell up!! Do you really consider this to be a healthy relationship? Don't you think you deserve better? He's emotionally abusing you and you act like its totally normal." She always claims what he's doing isn't emotional abuse, but IT IS! I wanna support her because she's my friend, but its taking a toll on me and I'm always sad for her. She has completely convinced herself that I'm crazy and that her new man is really a good person and she tells me I just don't understand him and that I take what she tells me the wrong way. He's not a good person!!! I'm so drained.

my best friend has this bf that me and my other best friend hate. i call the girl dating the guy me and my other best friend hate, "death" because its her nickname. my other best friend is in my class all the time and completely understands why i hate death's bf. her bf is going back and forth with being mean and nice to me. (for ex: hes nice one day then ignoring me the next/criticizing me of my bf because he was jealous of us together) and he's mean to my other best friend. and yet he still considers me as a friend, but i just cant be friends with him when he does this! I dont know why death likes him! he's so stupid! this is the 3rd time they are dating and he cheated on her before. he used to be an outcast and a nerdy kid in 6th and half of 7th grade, (were in 8th grade now) and was always the one being made fun of. hes changed and now hes the bully! i F***ing hate him! and i just don't want to talk to death either for dating a dumbass man-whore! and we hardly talk anyway and at least its a good excuse not to talk to her because shes a grade ahead of the 3 of us (shes a freshman). me, death's bf, and my other best friend are all in the same homeroom in 8th grade. but my best friend is still friends with death. and i dont know how she could be friends with her cause shes dated death's bf before and liked him a couple times and now hes not friends with my best friend and being mean to both of us. death is trying to be all nice to me and stuff but i dont want to back. my best friend had talked to death about her bf being mean to us and she should break up with him and death says shes not gonna break his heart. death did talk to her bf and now hes being friendly with me, but i think hes faking it just because his death talked to him about it. but hes not nice with my best friend and thats the problem. i dont want to be his friend if hes mean to my bf and best friend (i know i already said that but just im reminding yall) and i dont trust him with staying friendly to me because thats what he did before. going back and forth with being mean and nice. i am still upset with him about that by the way. besides, they are such a lame and awkward couple. as soon as she started dating him, i just lost my respect for her. and i never thought they would be dating. me and my best guy friend both agree that they are both desperate and death's bf is just trying to get in her pants. But i dont know how to tell death she is really dating a fat, ugly, jerk, man-whore, retarded bully.

i am Linda i want to tell every that i have found the real spell caster and that he have just helped me get my husband back to me and the kids.I met this spell through a friends description and he told me that he help him to get his wife back when another man took her from him and then i decided to try him out and i discover that he is the best and he is very powerful and just yesterday my husband whom i thought will never come back to me came and said to me that he was sorry for leaving me. i now so happy that my desire have been fulfilled. thank to the priest of the templeoflove1@gmail.com he is so powerful

My friend is awesome she has worked so hard to get somewhere in life, but her boyfriend is kinda of a loser. I feel as she is making the biggest mistake of her life if she moves in with him because hes never had a job until know which is part time, and mommy and daddy take care of him. I dont know how to tell her I mean hes nice to her and I like him alright but he has no drive what so ever. Maybe Im being unreasonable but I feel that she is moving to fast and I guess I just want to protect her. I know that she has worked so hard all her life shes all shes got and i feel as he wont do the same for her because he is lazy.

It is nice to know that women like to sit around and learn just how to sabotage someone else's relationship. Your friends' relationship is supposed to please HER not you. No man is going to please a girl and her 5 closest friends, making life impossible. Go sabotage your own life, and leave your friends alone.

i tuch her boy friend

I just read I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper. You can get it on Amazon or other bookstores. It helped me to deal with so many issues that I had with my fiance’s ex - who I really hated!! Now, my relationship is perfect :) xxx

My best friend is dating this douche bag! It is her first boyfriend and she is madly in love with him! He is a total jerk who is cheating on her! My best friend ever since she started dating him has turned into a total B and doesnt care about anything anymore. She has become a total S***! i dont know what to do anymore i feel like everyday we become further apart! He has not tried to be nice to me but rather cursed me out! He treats her like crap and doesnt even pay any attention to her. On Valentines day he gave her a cheap stuff dog and a mug and didnt talk to more than 5 minutes! And it was her first valentines day with a bf! He dated on of my close friends last year and he ruined hr life! He made all these rumors of stuff that "did" and told the whole school! To this day he still tells them and makes her cry everyday! But my best friend wont believe anything I say! It is like i am chop liver! everything i tell her she has to ask him and of course he comes up with some bs! I dont know what i can do because she comes up with excuses for everything he does! Any advice!

My best friend started hanging out with a girl who hates me for some reason even tho i dont know why....and shes doing it to make me jealous. Then i find out that a guy who is just terrible in general is going to ask out my best friend and she said yes.Its all gong downhill from there.....

My best friend begged me to set her up with my ex boyfriend who i dont have anymore feelings for. i agreed to make her happy and now she keeps ditching me for him. She doesnt spend any time with me anymore and when he's around she completely ignores me. Her boyfriend hits me in the face, slaps me, and he even tried to push me in front of a car and told me to go walk into traffic. My best friend got mad at me for calling him a jerk when he did that. I dont know what to do anymore

Well what happened to me is I was dating a guy for almost two years. Then I found out his ex girlfriend moved back to our town and started talking to him. She was a really bad influence on him and was ruining such a good relationship that we had. I didn't know what to do and I had tried a few spells in the past from psychics, but none worked to bring him back. When I finally tried from Dr. Lee the other girl got out of the picture and he came back to me within a week. There are definitely some powerful forces out there that can be a true blessing! Example is this, so if you are in need of help contact this man on Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

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'my name is lady Adriana I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called DR OPOPO of\x28 opoposolutiontemple\x40gmail.com\x29 has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost family to me with his great spell, i was married to this man called James we were together for a long time and we loved our self\u2019s but when i was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can\u2019t continue anymore then i was now looking for ways to get he back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email opoposolutiontemple\x40gmail.com\x29 then you wont believe this when i contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back and after a month i miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother a baby girl, thank you once again the great OPOPO for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his mail \x28opoposolutiontemple\x40gmail.com \x29and he will also help you as well my mail is MESSIADRIANA\x40YAHOO.COM'

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'Greetings all - I was just wondering at what point should I back off my friend about her boyfriend\x3f Our entire group of friends hate him, her family hates him, even her employer has threatened to fire her if he ever comes to her place of business again. I don\x27t want to continually harp on her for it, she knows how we feel, but thinks we should butt out or that we don\x27t know him well enough to really know him. Which is just sooo frusterating. I make attempts to see where she is coming from but he is just terrible. I even try to play Devil\x27s advocate with our other friends and explain there must be something we aren\x27t seeing and tell them to trust her judgement and just try to be there for her when she needs us\x3b but they have all but cut her out of their lives over him. It\x27s not that he is just annoying or mean to her \x28which he is, worst verbal abuse I\x27ve ever heard - even on TV\x29 but he has even started multiple physical fight with our male friend and some of our other girls friend\x27s boyfriends\x2fspouses after drinkning too much. He is openly racist \x28even to our friends\x29 he is constantly getting in fights\x2ftrouble because he can\x27t keep his hands to himself\x3b he calls my husband a \x22P\x2a\x2a\x2a F\x2a\x2a\x2a\x22 because he won\x27t fight him - I\x27m mean we are thirty, not 15..... and I could go on and on. It\x27s just crazy. I\x27m at a loss. Do I stop being her friend until she works things out\x2fcomes around\x3f He is too controlling to let her do things without him, but I can\x27t allow him into my home if he is going to be disrespectful to my husband and other friends...... I worry about going in public because it always ends poorly. What should I do\x3f What would you do\x3f'

'\x27Hi Friends My name is Laura Johnson i am from United States, I was in a relationship with Johnson and we loved and cherished ourselves for good 4years and every thing was going on smoothly but October 5, 2012 a day I can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because I answered a call from a guy that is asking me out for a date but I refused, and he told me that the relationship is over and that he is fed up with me and I begged him because I love him so much but he refused me I was so down cast and I felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped her sister out in getting her relationship back, a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first I was scared but I have to give this man a trial because I love Ben very much and I am not willing to loose him to any woman, so I ordered returning my love spell from this great spell caster that made me a happy woman again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying to this great spell caster Dr Shiva you are a grate man in this world and you mean so much to me you are the best spell caster that i have ever hear off in all Forum contact this man via this email if you really need to get your problems solve Email\x5cx3a.. hinduspelltemple at yahoo dot co'

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