Being able to talk dirty during intercourse is dependent upon one's own comfort level with their own sexuality and their relationship with that person. There's a time and place for everything, but dirty talk doesn't always have to be pornographic. It can be just as sensual as it is sexual given the right phrasing during the right circumstance.

So most guys could live with maybe less of the dirty talk? My ex would always say things to me and then want me to talk dirty too and I always felt silly or wierd about it. I've discovered some well placed moaning and whispering can be just as sexy.

It Depends, if im in the ade o talk dirty but if im not well you better not say nything to push my button.

Well, I think it is pretty hot to do sometimes. You have to be in the mood for it, but man can it lead to some dirty dirty sex haha

I'd recomment it to everyone!

Generally, when I think of talking dirty, I think of crappy porn, lol. On the other hand, it can be good if the moment calls for it...like during very intense sex...a heat-of-the-moment sort of thing. That's pretty much the only time I use dirty talk. And, even then, there isn't all that much to it, "oh yeah, f*** me" moaned under my breath. The only other situation is when we're going to be having sex soon, but it's not immediately doable (i.e. during a car ride home). I'll talk about what I want to do to him, what he could do to me, etc. Above all, though, it has to come naturally and *feel* natural. It's not something you can force...it will just sound awkward.

i hate when i have to talk dirty to a guy. Its so blah and a guy talks dirty to me is not a turn on.

I find it really fun to tease my boyfriend when we're away from each other in terms of dirty talk. We just talk about previous things we've done, what turned us on, and what we want to do when we see each other again. Oh boy does it turn us both on =]

Talk is just that talk!

Its more important that you both enjoy the type of sex your having. Being open and experimental is what keeps it interesing. I read once that sex is like a road trip. Choose to obey the speed limits and choose how far you go.

i really dont like talking dirty to my boyfriend like whats so good about it?
LOL it sure isn't a turn on...well for me...i feel really weird about it.

I think it depends on the kind of person you are, because some people dont feel as confortable as others.I think its something you and your partner have to talk to each other about. Because I think that talking dirty for some people its very unconfortable, me in perticular I dont mind it, but sometimes people get carried away and it becomes very unconfortable, so I think for any situation like this its always best for you and your partener to talk about it. Thats all i have to say.

heyy
YES they love when you talk dirty
and dirty is
I WANNA EAT YOUR GENITAL HAIR

I think it is okie to talk dirty but it has to be at the right time. Not too soon but not to late. A good time is to get it start maybe a tex message saying what you want to do to him wen he gets home. When he does get home after the kids are sleeping put a note in his room saying come to the bathroom and when he does you be in it. Some thing to S***e it up.

i dont know how i feel about dirty talk. my last boyfriend would always say things and then i would feel compelled to say something back, but i felt soo silly and it didnt feel sexy at all. my new boyfriend and i havent been together for too long, but the sex is pretty good. its still new and we're learning about what the other person likes. i kind of want to be a little dirty and kinky but im scared i'll freak him out.........but hes ten times hotter then my ex haha!!! :D

If you are being all romantic then dirty talk is not the way to go but if you its just sex then there is nothing like a man telling you all the things he wants to do to you or want you to do to him while he is doing it to give you that I popping BIG O.

Variety is the S***e of life - and anytime you can make the addition of something different and fun to the bedroom, even just once in awhile, can really keep things exciting. I'm not a personal fan of too much talk - but a few dirty words / demands once in awhile are great. ( "F$%K me, Taste me, I want to . . . )

Everything has a time and place, certainly i don't want to hear tit when we are having slow wonderful sensous sex,
but if we are to hot to wait and he just goes for it and is hammering me, i like when he satrts telling me things , it can make the diffrence in how hot i feel definatly!

dirty is sexy

Dirty talk is the key to absolutely mind blowing sex. Along with role playing. You have to S***e things up a bitt. It also depends on your comfort level. But if its with your spouse or something you love and have been with for a long time.. do not only him, but yourself the favor ;) Trust me.

Talking dirty to me can be a bit of a turn on or turn off depending on whats said. I knew a guy one time who thought it was sexy to call me Bi%@H or S**T. Needless to say it didn`t turn me on. Now sexy talk of what a guy wants me to do to him .. now that turns me on.

I LOVE it when my boyfriend and I talk dirty during foreplay and sex. It always leads to us getting a little rough, which is so hot and animalistic.

Raarrrr!!

i love it when my girlfriend sarah mcculloh talks dirty to me
its so arousing, shes so good at it.

I love it when my husband talks dirty to me. Its very sexy!

"i wanna F*** you"

pull my hair, F*** me harder, do it faster, hit it harder, i wanna eat you up, bite me, aaahhh , faster baby do it faster
THIS IS CALLED DIRTY TALK ;)
i love my girl sarah mcculloh.
she does me real good!

Hey me and my man get off talking dirty but everyone needs to know the limit. "do me harder" is ok "Lick my S***" way way over the top. be kinky but sweet.

Depends on the person. My boyfriend and I aren't sexually active at all..we've been together for almost a year, and never once had sex. We keep it to kissing and holding eachother..which works. Because we get to appreciate the presence of the person, rather than what their body looks like.
Anyway. Just because we don't have sex, doesn't mean our sex drive isn't there..it is. And sometimes that needs to be tended to.
Talking dirty to my boyfriend, give him that extra push that will drive him over the edge. It also helps him with his thoughts. So he's not thinking sex 24/7 because he doesn't "get anything". See..we're both still virgins, and believe in sex until marriage. So we've never experienced lack of sex. But in order to keep ourselves from stepping over boundaries we have set as a couple. Dirty talk helps to alleviate those times when we just want to pounce on eachother.

Where did they get this fruit. I'm very homo-accepting...but this guy is f*ing it up for the guys that actually savor deep, open, honest relationships (and aren't scared of women).

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 6 1/2 months. we have sex a few times a week. in the beginning of our relationship the sex was not as open as it is now. i think its because we have learned so much about one another over the past few months and are very comfortable with each other. My boyfriend had started talking dirty to me. Its once in awhile, which really turns me on.

i came accross this and it remendedme of my bf. we have a 2 year old together and we have been together fo 4 years. as weird as it sould he isists i talk dirty to him. he always wnts me to say S*** like "you like hat P***", "i love that thick C***", w.e u get the point. i dont like to but i do it, only f he does things i like in bed in return, im way more ruff then he is, and he does it as long as i do for him. its good to give an get:D

What are you doing tonight can you come over to my house but I love you and do you love me

without diry talk it wouldnt be fun. me and my bebe are like freeks so it works out for us, i do get weirded out by some of the things that he says but it still turns me on becouse it new and exiting, i even burts out in laughs some times but that makes it even more fun..lol.

Depends on the person . My boyfriend and I aren't sexally active at all .. we've been together for almost a year and never once had sex. We keep it to kissing and holding eachother .. which works . Because we get to appreciate the presence of the person, rather then what their body looks like. Anyway. Just because we don't have sex, doesn't mean our sex drive isn't there .. it is. And sometimes that needs to be tended to. talking dirty to my boyfriend give him that extra push that will drive him over the edge . It also helps him with his thoughts. So he's not thinking sex 24/7 because he doesn't '' get anything ". see.. we're both still virgins, and believe in sex unil marriage. So we've never experienced back of sex. But in order to keep ourselves from stepping over boudories we have set as a couple. Dirty talk helps to alleviate those times when we just want to pounce on eachother

personally i think its f-ing hot!
i love it when a guy says:
'F*** me babe;)'
and i love it when he texts saying wut hes gonna do to me like:
' oh babe, i wanna lick your tits and suck 'em ...hard'
how can that NOT turn you on?

i been wv my bf for 2 days an he already like talk dirty with me ? when i refuse he doesnt rely? what do i du?

I love it when my man talks dirty to me, it enhances the mood of sex. But I also feel that you have to be in the mood for it, or then it can just be very weird and awkward. Everyone should try it though. :)

i can't help being everything in the range from sexually suggestive (subliminal dirty talk to a guy i have feelings for) to sexually explicit (pornographic dirty talk to the boyfriend when i have one). it comes as naturally as saying "whoops" when i drop something.

"how dirty IZ dirty?"
-Well that said and us all being individually different....U decide for urself. Right? KNow urself nd ur partner and it can be all good,fun and sexi.As for me I definitely like dirty talk--Sometimes--(not every freaking time we have sex) And of course its not always the same amount of dirty hehe..depends how turned on we are and how crazy passionate the sex is. I LOVE passionate sex....ahhh crazy. But yes all this positive stuff aside now,coz I do have a lil problem that really throws me off sometimes. WEll I feel that sometimes my partner crosses the line.....actually not sometimes but almost evrytime we have sex he'd always say to me "ohh ur P*ss* is so tight"...Of course i find that quite flattering but him saying it EVRYTIME..ahhh just throws me off...and it makes me feel like he's F***ing a hoe or something...We've been together for almost a year now.

Well me and a guy text quite often, infact over the last week or so it's pretty much every night, with dirty texts even thought we arn't a couple.

But it's fun just to ask questions and stuff. And it makes us feels closer togther.

yo Mary you are so sexy

Hey what to do when your guy just wants it for him self and goes to sleep ,I think its rude ,what to do what to do ,I get tired of it what should I do about it .

Well actualy I find it realy HOT! It makes me realy couriouse! And turned on but some times I'm shy it all depends on the situation. This guy I meet randomly started! It wasent like I wanted to be with him; its gust haveing fun at the moment.

Re: Katherine Saddler

Okay there's a chick giving a chick advice.

She states:

"Because we get to appreciate the presence of the person, rather then what their body looks like."

Ha! Whatever! Talk dirty don't talk dirty who cares. Just as long as you are having fun with one another. But to sit on the couch and talk dirty to one another with never actually doing it? Now, that's just plain weird man! The only two people I have ever seen engage in this type of behaviour was the guy on "DEXTER" and his girlfriend.

I think it's healthy as long as it's not like that all the time! Variety if u know waht I mean! Variety is good

I love dirty talk. Like when my GF says ahhh stick it farther or like i'm going to eat your balls or somthing like that... But i need some fresh dirty talk that i can say to her.

MY LAST BOYFRIEND AND I TALKED DIRTY TO EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME. NOW THAT I'M WITH MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND, I FIND MYSELF FANTASIZING ABOUT MY EX AND I, TALKING DIRTY AND GETTING DOWN AND DIRTY. TO ME TALKING DIRTY IS A REAL COME ON!! THE SEX WITH THE NEW BOYFRIEND JUST ISN'T AS EXCITING.

I CANNOT my sex life without dirty talk! My husband and I dirty talk out of the bedroom. Theres always little comments being made in the passing so when we hit the bedroom its non stop animalistic, throw each other against the wall, hair pulling sex. Like someone said already, there are times like anniversaries or moments where its "making love" but then the dirty talk is quieter and maybe a sweeter tone but still there. If you don't do it then do it....if it makes you uncomfortable then try one little thing here and there - it will make a difference trust me;)

i love dirty talk cause it makes me feeel S***ish in a good way my bf always wants me to moan and tell him i like his fat C*** in my P*** it makes me melt

I just got married to a my girl I asked to marry 36 years ago..we were deeply in love then but after I came back from Vietnam my mind was so screwed up I had to let her go for fear of causing her harm and being married to me a psycho..in to drugs and everything else..we went our separate ways, me I never married..always in love with her, couldn't find her..she married and divorced 3 times then one night I answered the phone at my mothers house and it was her..that was in Oct. 2007 and now we just married on August 8, 2008 and we both are still deeply in love..but I find she wants me to be really physical and aggresive during sex which is great to me..she wants me to slam F*** her, slap her hard, squeeze her breast hard..this just amazes me for her to be that comfortable with me to be able to do this with me..she has some issues but who doesn't..her past is a little concerning but she has shared everything with me..I always thought she hated me for leaving her the way I did and it literaly destroyed her life at the time and I'm talking for years..but I will do what she wants me to do and do it well because I love her that much..I will do anything in the world for this woman and feel so blessed to have her in my life now..I never married for fear of being in a relationship I couldn't not walk away from..many women told me they loved me but I could never reciprocate for that fear. This whole thing is like a love story movie for us..How can one man be so lucky to have a woman who trust me like this, is willing to do anything for me, to love me to no end. When she told me what my actions caused in her life at that time, because I thought I was being a martyr and letting her go to not destroy her life, I became devastated at what my actions caused, how could I do this to someone, especially someone I loved as much as I did her..but the timing just wasn't right, I feel fate and destiny have played a role in our getting back together..but I will do what she wants and do it well. I wish everyone could experience what we have....

Hell yeah talking dirty is sexy!!! I love it when my man spanks me and tells me ive been a bad girl!!

Sometimes talking dirty is just what it takes to make someone feel comfortable. My wife was really into something that I just wasn't, but hearing her compliment me on it made all of the difference.

How boring.

i love it wen mi man pulls mi hair while hittin it from the back...but dirty talk aint all that for me.

sex is bad

i think there is nothing wrong if we talk dirty. It shows that we are closely attached and can talk about anything about life whcih may be useful for future relationship.

i love dirty talk.... i am with my husbend from 7 years , every time we do some fantasy and use dirty talk like it is the first time.

it is so hooooot to talk sexy , and saying what we are doing or going to do in sex....

Dirty talk is sexy...I love to know what he likes and i want him to know what i like...It's a must!!

i never know what to say...........ackward!

I am 23 and my bf likes to talk dirty but i can only do it if i had a few drinks. I am on the shy side and wondering if anyone has any tips to get the ball rolling into role play and all that, because I'd like to try but just a lil' nervous.

i LOVE talking dirty it gives me and my bf an extra spark. one of my fave sayings is "come closer so i can f**k u harder u sexy beast. lick my P*** uuuuuuhh" it makes me orgasm over and over!!! TRY IT

sex talk is only sexy when he's talking to you in spanish..omg i don't care what he's saying! it's a big turn on, trust me, try it!!!!

i also agree with jenna jameson. i like to tell a guy and have a guy tell me what he wants me to do and what each other likes.. it's hot!!

hey try this the next time you are with your guy.. tell him you cant wait to taste him, or to wrap your lips around him and see how hot he gets. i find that talking dirty doesn't have to involve necessarily dirty words (ie p**sy, c**k, f*ck) it's much better when you do it in a more refined or classy way. try describing the act you want to do to him or her in a way that doesn't include such words. use your imagination. its fun!!

dirty talk is amazing.

in the right context.

and if your not saying weird or funny stuff.

being dirty is all the fun in talking dirty too though. a little biting and sqeezing is always really hot!

role playing is better

role play is a huge turn on

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 6 and a half munths... and I love when he talks dirty to me and tells me what he wants to do to me... I remember one time he picked me up at 10 pm. We just drove around till really late, and we had a couple drinks. Then he parked the car, and we started doing it... and he loves wen I say, "F*** me harder baby." He also likes when I moan. Anyways, I love dirty talk. I mean who doesn't like when a guy says that he wants to F*** you? Especially if he's hot like my babe joe =]

For real hardcore sex, talking dirty just makes it all the more better. Like him grabbing your hair and screaming "WHOS YOUR DADDY?" and shoving his hard C*** up your tight ass.

then thats hot

I love talking dirty on the phone with my boyfriend while M***ing especially when we are away from eachother. makes me horny as F***. try it, don't be shy, all guys love hearing that you want to suck their hard delicious C*** until they cum.

Well we anit going out or anything we are friends but he wants to talk dirty and i do that but i dont know what to say im really stuck he dose it so well
and like i said im stuck on what to say.

XxXxX

I love dirty talk, but i always worried I wasn't any good at it. Happily, it doesn't take much to make guys happy. Pu**y, c**k, f**k me and they are completely happy.

It's hot to talk dirty... just the other night we were sitting on the couch- he was watching football.

I crawled into his lap, straddling him. As we were kissing I was pulling at his hair and telling him all the things he does that turn me on... I tell ya, the football game was forgotten about as he rushed to rip my clothes off.

That night we were about ready to fall asleep. I rolled over, pressed my mouth to his ear, and whispered what he should do to me.

As fast as he quit watching football he quit wanting to sleep.

dirty xx dirty so good !! hahaha :D

~I think that talkin' durty iz very Hot..but only when u're really attracted to the person u're with~:)

i love when my boyfriend talks dirty to me......
i have an innocent look to me and all his friends think i'm innocent looking as well so well we are behind closed doors and are both being super naughty... i love when he starts smiling and tells me how he loves when i'm his dirty S***.

it makes me go crazy and want to be naughty with him.

A prior girlfriend loved it when I talked dirty to her. I mean like calling her a C**T and commanding her to do things to me, grabbing her hair, pinching her N***ples and so forth. She seemed to like me to be as rough as possible and really wanted me to say and do some weird stuff.

She would call me at work and masterbate with the phone right down there so I cold hear it all. I'm not sure what causes someone to really be into this but it can be fun up to a point.

It just got too weird for me and I broke up with her.

i love when my boyfriend talks dirty one time he was watching tv i sat on his lap he was so happy and he picked up and took me to the bed i rolled all over him he loved it then he wanted me to strip on the pole in the room he took off my cloths and striped me and i stared swinging on the pole we kissed after that and we fell asleep naked i fell asleep on top of him he woke up and had his friend f*ck me i was sleeping but he told me in the morning i dumped him he still sleeps with me though

I love dirty talk and thats the reason I wrote in my blog a post about it, if you are curious and want to try something new, check it out:

http://letstalkaboutsex.blog.com/

i hate talking dirty to a guy. it makes me feel so occward and weird. im also VERY self conciouse and i hate my body so i hate being naked . i try and keep my bra on everytime i sleep with my boyfriend.

now a days , i also talk dirty when making love with my hubby. He also uses slang to make me more excited and wants to be my boyfriend who never f....d me. He also reminded me why i didnot have any sex with my boyfriend. I think he really enjoys this.

Very interesting, but you all should learn how to spell!

Ok this is off topic but while txting ur boyfriend can u ask him to many sexy question or ever say to many sexy things to him?

Ooh yeah.
Especially liked the following:
nd what fantasy scenarion - desert etc.?

intrduce beaved to cok
hump and pose opke
take a dump leak
pit stop
e ris ur gf boring or uniteresting mm
ru craavin for more
do you like good or bad girls
wud u avsx with me or ur frnd
wud u rather hav food or sx
want sum titlation
would you ratheri thrill or offem u
ru hot n sexy
wud u mk me orgasm
wdulk2ease urself in
wdulk2 touch ne
hw lng do i av 2 knw u b4 c hw long
wanna suck on you - love and roamance you - and you?
hw do u fl v tsx
rugd in bd
wna cum in my place
lk n sk
wana mk u hot - wrap my lips around n
wana shove ur hot C*** up my tight P*** or ass baby?
wana straddle me or can i cum on ur lap mm
wana undress me or rip my clts off
can i strip on ur pole
n finger my hole

Ooh yeah.
Especially liked the following:
nd what fantasy scenarion - desert etc.?

intrduce beaved to cok
hump and pose opke
take a dump leak
pit stop
e ris ur gf boring or uniteresting mm
ru craavin for more
do you like good or bad girls
wud u avsx with me or ur frnd
wud u rather hav food or sx
want sum titlation
would you ratheri thrill or offem u
ru hot n sexy
wud u mk me orgasm
wdulk2ease urself in
wdulk2 touch ne
hw lng do i av 2 knw u b4 c hw long
wanna suck on you - love and roamance you - and you?
hw do u fl v tsx
rugd in bd
wna cum in my place
lk n sk
wana mk u hot - wrap my lips around n
wana shove ur hot C*** up my tight P*** or ass baby?
wana straddle me or can i cum on ur lap mm
wana undress me or rip my clts off
can i strip on ur pole
n finger my hole

My boyfriend always asks me to tell him my dirty lil secrets while he's doing his thang.. but sometimes, I find it to be quite a turn off because i think to myself :Is he setting me up for something?" I usually can make something up or think of some strange fantasy I have involving other people. I have more of an issue with it than he does I guess...

I agree with a couple of the other posts. We've been married for 18 years, and we do it many different ways. If we are having vanilla sex, we don't do the dirty talk. Doesn't seem right. But if I get her hot before, and she just wants me to bang her hard, I do it to her off the side of the bed and she tells me to f*** her hard. That just gets me hotter and I cum in seconds. Do that if we are spending a long time making love, and it doesn't work. Sometimes, I grab her from behind, run my hand up her shirt and tell her I want in now, and we drop and go at it. I never use the f-word in day to day talk, so saving it for my wife, when I just want to ram her as hard as I can, just makes it that much hotter.

Mmmm I absolutly love being talked dirty to. I love it when my guy tells me that I'm such a naughty girl and that i need punishment.. Its such a turn on!!

I love my punishment ;)

wow, i learned some new dirty talk from you guys thats for sure. my boyfriend is always begging mr to talk dirty to him. i only have about 2 or 3 things that i can think of to say to him. I usually say "I ove your big C***"
I love the way it feels in mu P***.

then thats it. any suggesti0ns

OK Help havent met the guy yet in person but we've chatted online for a few weeks now ( met on dating site...he likes to talk dirty to me & i like it, want to join in... but at the same time think its kinda wierd since we havent met in real life< is that wrong??? he wants to meet ...should I?????

I suggest some folks learn to write correctly before attempting to talk dirty. Devolution of language is disgusting.

Never have sex, much less talk dirty, with someone who cannot spell, punctuate properly or get a simple idea across verbally. I shudder to imagine how underwhelming the physical expression must be.

Communication is key in progressing as humans, from taking about sex with partners to publishing essays on sociolinguistic trends.

I think it just depends on the couple. My ex wanted me to but with him it was forced and un-natural. The chemistry between me and my current boyfriend is AMAZING. We live in seprate states at the moment so if ether of us is feeling frisky, we tell each other. It's hard to communicate what you want to do to the other person without words via phone. (yes I am talking about phone sex) So I think the distance + the natural attraction was the key that opened up the dirty talk door. I like it when my guy talks dirty to me because it tells me that he is so overcome with desire for me that he HAS to verbalize it. I was really shy about it at 1st but now, I can honestly say that it is the best thing in sex aside from the act itself. Now all he has to do is send me a little text telling me he is hard for me and I am raring to go. Our sex life has never been better.

my guy is the most amazing sensual guy i have ever met. idk if it is dirty talk cuz i never think of sex as being dirty but we are apart and sext a lot and he is so detailed fromt he very first kiss to how he parts my lips with his tongue and the kisses down my neck.. the entire sex act is detailed and i reciprocate in the same way telling him how i do him in extreme detail. the desire is so intense that you feel like u are going to explode. tasting , licking, touching, cumming. it is really intense.and yea nuthin wrong with it in my eyes.

Definitley a turn on when you and a guy talk dirty to each other. With my husband gone, we talk dirty online to each other and he even made me orgasm. you just have to get into it and say how you feel and what you would be doing to each other if you were together at that time!

swear occasionally, lol know it sounds daft but it works for me!

If you have to talk dirty to have sex, or during sex, then obviously, you need to learn how to have sex.
Sex is about emotion. It isn't dirty, and words just cover up the fact that you can't give, or recieve pleasure, without this crutch.
Go read a book :)

i really dont like it!! i like it whenb they talk to me dirty, but at the same time i dont cuz i dont know Wut to say to them!!"/

Well..I think talking dirty is fine.It is a bit uncomfortable for some while it comes easily to others but its no big deal really.If people feel comfortable talking dirty to their lovers then that is perfectly fine.I do it on occasions but its not because im inexperienced in sexual intercourse,i do it because its fun.And i like being able to please my partner without physically touching them all the time :]

I love shy girls and that are fat and have short
Blonde hair with brown eyes and a girl named
Samantha

Me and my gf have an extremely active sex life, into bondage, lingerie/clothing, all kinds of toys and such, we never get bored, she can get as hardcore on me as she can, and I can do the same, we know our limits and always pushing for longer and harder, now I am a guy with a really deep and sexy voice, expecially in english, and my gf loves it when I talk dirty, but it has so many forms, I can start by taking things in my own hands (literally) or I can give her a massage, from there we can get to any other number of activities, lets say I put on a new porn movie we wanted to check out, and I start giving her a nice back massage with some lube,

I had a boring love life when with long term mates as they were high strung and unoriginal and never felt I met my match until I was 48 and ran into old elementary school chum on Facebook. Rather he pursued me and he too had the same sad experiences in bed and out with non-intimate 'intimate' partners. We have been together 18 months and both went from unfulfilled in bed to wild and constantly evolving with each other. The dirty talk is reciprocal. The sms's hot. The sex intense and yet 'twin flame' mind melding. At first I felt odd sharing any fantasies. And he was so shy. Now, we say filthy things to each other all the time without blushing and our love and passion is growing by the day. We go from shy to incredibly pornographic/taboo in bed and the interchange is just mind blowing. I highly recommend letting go and laying it all out there, so to speak for your man. And no, I do not think saying 'oh yeah daddy do me harder. I love being your little girl and sucking your big C#*@ is wrong or even telling your man you need to ride his big p@)!* or that you are just here to service him so get off on your body..or pretending you are a few people in bed is off. I love it. He goes wild and reciprocates in full. IN FULL. Its two adults sharing the most intimate things that they know in the real world is just not on in many cases. But sharing between yourselves is the best bonding experience ever. I love this man. Fully. Well. And as OFTEN as possible.

dirty talk is fun and if you are close it can strenghen your relationship it turns me on just before we have sex

well i've read all the posts and i really find them helpful, the only thing is that im still a virgin but my gf isn't and sometimes she tells me to talk dirty to her, i do but i get the feelin that she isn't turned on as i would expect, sometimes i don't feel comfortable talking dirty to her but i guess since im not really used to it its normal, i feel like i need to be more dirty with my wrds. I mean we both love each other an we've been dating for 6 months now an i just want to please her in every way even talkin dirty too, so im askin do you think its weird that she wants me to talk dirty to her even though i haven't got as much experience...

thanks for the share i've learned so much about how to talk dirty to a guy...

i really dont know how to talk dirty that good to get a chick or a dude turned on. help me!!! pleeeaasseee!!!!!!!

my fave thing to say to my partner is...
you better bite the pillow babe im about to pick up the pace..........she loves it dont hate on me cos you dont

I hadnt met anyone in a long while who seemed compatible so needless to say I was quite the wildcat. My idea of foreplay was saying take off your clothes, Ive got to have you now. And then I loved the dirty talk, except he was too shy! Im also a fan of sexting, which he wasnt. Im just very comfortable with my sexuality. Well, surprise, he was totally turned off by it, couldnt perform and then didnt tell me about it until he broke up with me!!! In fact, he blamed me for everything, even though one of my texts brought him straight over on a work night!! I was so embarrassed! Im a very sweet and loving person but I was just totally out of my skin from abstaining. Even after the mean way he blamed me I never put him down, though he was very hurtful about it and kept the relationship going for over a month after his supposed turn off and then he told me by picking a fight! Total passive aggressive breakup! This whole time I thought he just had a meducal issue. Candidly, Im very cute, funny and praising and not mean at all. Plus, honestly, I never enjoyed it but I just figured we were getting used ti each other. Still dont know what to think other than his meanness allowed him to erase some if his embarrassment over his problems. I naively thought
my lack of experience would be a total turn on. Oh well. Notes for the future! Sorry for typos, hate touch screen.

I desperately want a guy ti talk to me dirty, bat that just doesn't happend, and I m a bit frustrated. I ned that. It turns me on, my clitoris starts to work in my mind first. :) But he must initialize that, because, I feel uncomfortable now - I tried a few times, saying somethin like "I wanna lick your...I enjoy that"..but it seems like he doesnt now how to unswer...he just smile, or somthing...I sent him few sexy pics od myself naked, but nice, erotic, not vulgar, I sent sexy text messages too..but answers were...poor, it just turns me off... :-(( We re together 6 ears, I love him, he is great man, he is beautiful and handsome, but something that turns me on the most - I don't have at all! Help!

hey, what does a boy mean can you lick me?

It gets me aroused, but I don't like it during sex. I'm a girl btw.

Time and place...I am sure that in the grip of orgasmic bliss we have yelled out some pretty nasty S***. If your partner is into it, go for it.

Tell her you wanna F*** her in the ass. ..cum on her tits...suck my C***..if you're not comfortable with your partner....move on

i need some ideas on raunchy erotic names to call my bf during sex or through text and i'm having a hard thinking of some dirty talk cause everyting is either f**k, p***y, or c**t. i wanna S***e things up but not sure what to say. any sugesstions would be greatly appreciated thanks

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Hi, I am Keith Dalton,. I think it is okie to talk dirty but it has to be at the right time. Not too soon but not to late. A good time is to get it start maybe a text message saying what you want to do to him when he gets home.

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My fiancee and I are childhood sweethearts. We recently found each other again after 6 years of being apart. We have a great sex life but he really enjoys talking during sex. When we make love he tries to get me to talk. He asks me what's going through my mind or what I want him to do to me. He asks me what I think about when I giggle and smile. I am not a talker. I try my best but it feels like he's putting me on the spot and makes me draw a blank. The best things I could come up with is that I want him to kiss me and touch me and that I was thinking about him in general and thats why I giggled and smiled lol. I want to talk to him like that because I know it turns him into a beast, but I don't know how or even what to say....A little help???

I love dirty talk personally, its sensual, and quite heated. Judging from some of the comments, maybe people don't really understand how to do it, or really what it is. Dirty talk doesn't have to be graphic or literally gross (dirty). Nor does it necessarily mean having an awkward conversation about what you're already doing during sex.

Enjoying dirty talk doesn't make you S***ty, merely open to new ideas. I only find it uncomfortable if he (or she) is insecure. Usually it happens during foreplay, and is meant for teasing and even naughty games.

First step to enjoying dirty talk is to become comfortable with the idea. Talk to yourself quietly, or go over little conversations in your head until you turn yourself on. Second is to know his sexual weaknesses and exploit them, talk about them (I won't go into detail). Next is learning to respond, if he likes it he'll start talking back, this is where you need to have some replies handy. Last tip: try not to repeat yourself. Most men don't enjoy repetition, the sex appeal wears thin. Same for women, boys.

Keep an open mind and enjoy it. After all, adding dirty talk to your repertoire may come in handy.

Enjoy!

As a little follow-up, when I say "talk to yourself" I mean: Try talking dirty to yourself. If you find something that turns you on, then you're doing it right. Its a bit awkward, but everyone has something that turns them on, usually verbalizing it doesn't make a difference on the wanted outcome. Hope that cleared some stuff up.

Enjoy!

P.S. Dirty talk may not be for everyone, and that's ok. But even learning how to do it (even if it does nothing for you) comes in handy when you have a partner that enjoys it.

Hi, I am Shania Hill,. Thank you for giving us tips.. It helps me alot :) Keep on posting!

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I love dirty talk....I get turned on by being called a whore and a S*** etc it makes me feel wild and uninhibited. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea but as a 40+ women I know it's just sex talk and is not a personal slight on my character

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Wow, well I guess I'm on an island all by myself. I totally love when a guy I'm in a solid loving relationship talks dirty to me, it makes me go bonkers! I feel so naughty, I can let go and become someone else, which is very exciting. As for me doing the talking, no way, way too shy for that.

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I just got back with my ex bf. he came to my house and we were frenchin it on my bed then he sticks his middle finger down my pants and starts rubbing. That turns me on. Idk about frickin dirty talk but a finger in my P*** always works. Oh so does a tongue to the tits and P***.

oh wow so many good comments. so im only 15 almost 16... I have this amazing bf he is so HOT! I love his abs his lips eyes EVERYTHING... Yes im still a virgin but I LOVE DIRTY TAKK:D my bf makes me feel so special when he talks to me. Of course our dirty talk is so different from the ones that have sex.He wants to make me his but idk if im ready... everybody thinks he is worth it and i do too but im gonna wait a little longer if he really does love me like he tells me when we cuddle and makeout then he`ll wait for me! anyways DIRTY TALK is the best... it turns me on and makes me feel special

I aggree with tasha :)

My BF is soooo freaking hot! When he talks dirty to me during sex it is such a turn on. One time we were watching a movie on the couch and i crawled on his lap and whispered in his ear, "Baby F**k me real good!" He picked me up and took me to the beroom and took me shirt and pants off and told me i was soo F-ing good in bed and that i was such a bad girl! then he started masterbaiting and it felt amazing! he told me he had never met anyone as good in bed as me. I told him that he turned me on and that he was such a sexy tiger! he was totally turned on. He really knows how to f**k me just the way i want. We sexted for a long time before he would talk to dirty will haveing sex with me. But its 7 years later and were still together. I cant have kids but he loves me anywasys. my point is if ur gonna have sex and tlk dirty make sure its with someone who u can really trust and someone who really loves you. :)

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