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Q: Hi I am 27 years old and I live in Quebec (sorry for my English). I have a question for you, I think I know the answer, but I want to make sure I am not over reacting or over thinking this.

I am with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I got pregnant 2 months after we got together. We decided to keep the baby since we thought we had done everything by the book and because of our ages. I am very happy with our baby girl. The thing is in a matter of a short time we did a lot. Moving in together, knowing each other and the hardest thing ever dealing with money. Since I was on maternity leave I really did not make much. And that put a strain on our relationship. So since my boyfriend can’t sleep well he watches TV at night. But my problem is that he almost always sleeps on the couch. I really don’t like that. I now take it very personal. I say to myself I worry but I can still go to bed next to him. He says when the money problems are gone it will be ok. But I feel it is an excuse. And also I would like it if he would give me more affection. But he says he is not an affectionate person. What dose that mean???? Really!! Please give me answers and a way we could talk and get past this thing because I really am scared. I want this to work and I am willing to work at it.

A: It sounds like your boyfriend is overwhelmed with the recent flurry of activity in your relationship. He barely had a chance to get to know you before he learned he was going to be a father. So, you can either give him time and see if the situation improves once the finances aren’t so dire, or you can appreciate his sense of responsibility but accept that while he may be there for your child as a father, he may not be emotionally invested in your relationship to be there for you as a boyfriend. - Sergio

A: It sounds like money has become an excuse. Many couples go through difficult periods in their relationships after having their first child, it can be an incredible strain, but you need to be honest with each other and address the problems now rather than pushing them off with excuses. You also need to remember that as parents you have responsibilities not just to yourselves but to your daughter, and young kids are aware of far more than you would think. I would be honest about the problems you are having, and seek out solutions now. - Josh

A: There’s an imbalance in your relationship and you both need to address that if you’re going to make it work. That there’s a baby involved only makes it more crucial. See if he makes good on his promises to improve his behaviour, and if he doesn’t then it might be a good idea to see a couples counselor. - Chauncy

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hi im 13 my best friend was going out with this guy that guy was like my bestfriend too but then me and that girl dint get along soo much this year and they broke up . about like a month after they broke up he ask me out and i said no but he wouldnt stop so i said yes. he would always be telling me how much he loved me. 1 day he told me ur 100x better , prettier and smarter then my ex but the next day i asked him if he still liked the other girl and he said i dunno and then i said do you still like me and he said ya kinda or something like that so then i got confused and asked him was that for me or her and he got pissed then he dumped me and now there going out again . the thing is i kinda feel stupid and stuff and at school when i wait for the bus he always looks at me sometimes he has a smile and my his gf ( my old bestfriend) always stares at me in the buss with the dirtiest face ever . he also sends me texts like ur a freak... HELP ME

sarah3
Saturday, 12 December 2009 14:29 PM EST

Boys will tell you just about anything you want to hear in order for them to get what they want. The most motivated ones truly have the "gift of gab" to get "closer" to girls. This goes hand in hand with their hormonal system and ensures their "physical needs" are met. As you get older you will get to learn this pattern. But for now, boys your age are experimenting and sometimes playing with girls' mind. Which explains the things he said that are not adding up. There are chances that he will be switching you up again, but is he the type of person you would like to have as a boyfriend? Until then, I'm not saying to avoid intimacy with boys, but why not get closer to a boy that does not go to your school and does not live within walking (seeing) distance from you? Believe me I learnt the hard way... the key is to find out the boys's intentions. Negative comments about past girlfriends is a red flag. Someone caring - generally speaking - will not do this. He's playing on your self-esteem. The best thing you can do is value yourself in activities that you are good at and surround yourself with true, caring friends. Hope this helps, best of luck!

Annie243
Tuesday, 22 December 2009 09:22 AM EST

I love Tori and Dean and cant seem to find it please help me find my fav shoe thanks nad xoxoxox

Natalie Joanne Delorme
Friday, 01 January 2010 04:19 AM EST

Heyy :)i'm 15. right, well i like this guy who is really nice and we get along so well and everything in common. but, he's got a girlfriend and he told me he has a crush on me, and i told him i like him too. we always flirt with text or phone calls but, now, i havent spoken to him for a while its really annoying. i tried to talk to him but he dont text me or ring me anymore or never speak to me online, i saw him in town and he said, oh i cant text you my phone is breaking up and when i texted him before he always makes excuses up that he cant ring me. i'm so confused what he's doing to me. i cant stop thinking about it. he's just changing everything. shall, i just leave him alone? help me please :(

Selina Lebrette3
Saturday, 02 January 2010 10:50 AM EST

hey.
Im 15 .. theres this guy. ive liked for about a yr now. Last yr. we used to talk on the phone alot , lots and lots.. and id got many hints that he did like me.. but suddenly we grew apart.. but i still like himm.. Now a yr later. With a lot of courage I told him that i still like himm.. Hes been very nice since then and my friends keep telling me that he will ask me out.. sooon.. but i dunno when... Today i asked him if we were just firends? he said I guess but then also said: " Just Friends.. Is that Ok with yu ?.. iDunt care wat others think " .. I dunno wat that means.. a guy friend of mine told me that hes hiding his feelingss.. Im doubting on that.. I need Help... I dunnoo.. Does he like me or not ?

Me3
Monday, 04 January 2010 23:23 PM EST

I'm rather confused that 15 year old girls would even consider dating. I was too interested hanging out with my friends and avoiding guys at that age. Enjoy being young without the added stress of boys, pregnacny and sexual diseases.

Stacey3
Saturday, 09 January 2010 12:59 PM EST

Dear Selina Lebrette3,

Do not ever flirt/engage in a more then friendly manner/date/marry/ have sex with a boy or man who is seeing another girl/woman!
That is a big NO NO!

Ask yourself, " If he cheated on her, why wouldn't he cheat on you?"

You do not want to be the "other girl"

Hayley3
Tuesday, 12 January 2010 21:07 PM EST

Dear everyone who posted their problems above,

Okay everyone! If you have a question for the guys, send it in by email! Its not that hard! This comment area is for comments about the answered question. NOT for your problems. Email your problems, as instructed, to guy@slice.ca
I am sure they would be happy to help you out!

Natasha47
Sunday, 17 January 2010 16:34 PM EST

I'm 14 and I have an amazeing bf completely perfect and everygirls dream guy. Doesnt tell me he wants to have sex or he loves me because he doesnt want to say or do things til Hes sure he means it. But I have a best guyfriend whos always been there for me. Hes a manhoe and im one of the only people who understands him.. i woke up one morning after haveing a very XXX rated dream (bad for how young i am yes) but the wierd thing was is i woke up from texts from him.. sometimes i feel like my bf doesnt understand when he does.. i hate it because i dont know what to do and everytime my bf kisses me I feel guilty because sometimes i wish when i opened my eyes is what my best guy friends eyes IDK WHAT TO DO AND I FEEL LIKE A HORRIBLE PERSON!!!

***Lexus3
Monday, 18 January 2010 02:28 AM EST

You guys are 13/14/15 respectively. Chill out! You've got the rest of your life to find a serious relationship; chances are these guys won't matter ten years from now.

Natasha Dee
Saturday, 23 January 2010 14:46 PM EST

I do not know very many people who have ended up with someone they dated in junior high or high school, so for the teen girls, take some comfort in knowing that you will find a responsible and loving man when the time is right. As far as the original topic, the reason why people date for at least a year before thinking of making solid commitments (marriage, children) is because it takes that long to even START to know someone. The initial stages of infatuation cloud one's rational thought, and no serious commitments should be made in this time.

Danielle3
Tuesday, 23 February 2010 18:48 PM EST

It was too early to get involved like you did. Just too bad... :(

Simon
Thursday, 01 April 2010 12:22 PM EST

Hi, i'm 17 yrs old and i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Our relationship was amazing until about 5 months ago. It has been up and down for me. Recently I have found myself wonder if he still loves me. He used to do things like text me randomly to tell me he loves me and now he doesnt do it anymore. It seems like he doesnt want to make time for me and always makes excuses for seeing me. When I confronted him about this asking him if he was pushing me away on purpose he said its for your own good i dont want to hurt you???? what does that mean?? He still says he loves me and cares but his actions are telling me something else. I still do love him very much so and want to be with him. HELP!!!!!

Sarah3
Thursday, 27 May 2010 09:20 AM EST

This comment is for the original issue: you need to go to couples counselling and get help from a neutral 3rd party who sees things from both perspectives. Maybe, you'll realize why your boyfriend is behaving the way he is. Sometimes when there is a neutral party in the room, one can speak more freely and the real problems come out and can then be dealt with.

Lexi3
Thursday, 08 July 2010 04:41 AM EST

I am a twelve year old girl that goes to school with one bestfriend and she's a girl...and we might be seperating from bffs to bfs...and i dont know what to do....My sister told me that a true bestfrien to be with is a guy....is she right and if she is i kneed a bestfriend..thats a guy

Eriikaaxoxo3
Monday, 19 July 2010 10:07 AM EST

OH my god!! I can't believe someone else out there feels and lives exactly the same situation as me!!! I can't sleep right now because of it. Sometimes I think maybe I'm overreacting but I feel so left out since the baby has come. I love her very much but I feel like our couple is going down the drain. We barely speak or make love anymore. We don't even kiss! He says he's tired because he works. I understand but I don't think we will last very long if this keeps going on.

Baby1213
Thursday, 12 August 2010 23:14 PM EST

My boyfriend and I were in our 5th year when i'm impregnated by him "unintentionally". Everything has changed as soon as he found out that i am pregnant or am i just thinking that he is that or so. But as I felt it, men wants to love someone but if they knew that they are on their way to lifetime commitment, they just change their attitudes in a snap of a finger. They are confused and dont know what to do. Women are more advance thinking. Yeah, how i wish i am a man so that I don't have to get all the responsibilities of being a mum. So unfair! You are there changing nappies, getting the milk done for your little one to feed on and then all of a sudden you are doing it all alone without any help from that one great man whom you were with doing the nooki! You were together doing it and then when there's the outcome of what both of you did - he's gone all the time acting like he is some 21 year old boy - not anymore!

Tine Marie3
Monday, 14 March 2011 07:39 AM EST

To Me3

You are very young. Don't tell a guy that you like him that soon, girls deserves to be courted. Take the time to wait. It's good to be in a relationship that you feel you are courted in the begginning rather than blaming your self what you went in to.

Tine Marie
Monday, 14 March 2011 07:42 AM EST

okay so... i have a dilemma.... i am 13 and i have a "bf".we have bin dating for more than half a year...and he has not kissed me yet...so now i know that he wants to kiss me... and over the 7-8 months that i have bin dating him i have sorta grown attached... but not as him being my bf. more as a good friend... i used to want him to kiss me but now i barely even want to hug him! i want to brake up with him but i don't want to hurt his feelings again. (i broke up with him before. when i was like in 6th grade. but he came back so i gave him another chance.)and if i do then he will ask why and idk what to say!
i know i am growing apart from him but, but he is becoming more and more attached to me! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!

please help! :(

kaitlynn
Saturday, 06 August 2011 01:27 AM EST

ok sweetie, just let him know how much u love him. Then he will give u xo then it will be ok.

jojo
Monday, 19 September 2011 20:53 PM EST

dont show him or her u still in love with them just make friends with his or her friends and show the person that you still hot and sexy and his missing out

baaaaad chris
Wednesday, 09 November 2011 07:35 AM EST

dont show him or her u still in love with them just make friends with his or her friends and show the person that you still hot and sexy and his missing out

baaaaad chris
Wednesday, 09 November 2011 07:35 AM EST

okay so im 17 and im engaged and things have hind of gone down hill when him and i got back together after being broke up for 5 months after he told me he still had feelings for his ex we go back together and he would love on me hug me kiss me and hated it when i left his side and was always telling me how much he loved me now he hardly eeven holds my had or kisses me and tells me he loves me and the worst part is i found porn on our computer im not sure if this is his way of braking up with me or pushing me away. everytime i say something he gets pissed off and says really you think i would do that and if its not him then it must be our dog because he is the only one ever on it other then me and its all over the computer this happen before and he said he would stop because i told him i was leaving what should i do please help

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Tuesday, 27 December 2011 23:18 PM EST

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Anna
Wednesday, 06 March 2013 20:04 PM EST

'life is so sweet when you have your family around you. my name is Anna from UK \x3cbr \x2f\x3ei lost my man to 26years old girl who cast a spell on he i cry out for help for the past 3 weeks i have be looking for a way for me to get he back. one day i have it with my friend she gave me a solution she said i should contact Dr Odumdu landofsolution\x40gmail.com a great spell caster who can do all thing. i told he my problems he cast a very powerful spell and the in 48hours my husband was back to me \x3cbr \x2f\x3eall thanks to dr odumdu a great powerful spell caster \x3cbr \x2f\x3eif you need help to get your ex back conact dr odumdu landofsolution\x40gmail.com or a call \x2b2347053319835'

Anna
Wednesday, 06 March 2013 20:06 PM EST

'Hello everybody. Am STEPHANIE from FLORIDA i want to share my life experience to every body on this site. i was in a serious relationship with mike i love him so much we have dated for almost 6 years now. until he meant another girl called charity he told me that he is know longer interested in dating me any more. i was so confuse i don\x27t know what to do so i told my friend about what my love just told me and he told me that she can solve my problem i was doubting her how can that be possible so she directed me to a spell caster called DR voodoo .so i contacted him and i explain every thing to him and he told me that my problem will be solved within 2days if i believe i said OK .So he caste_ a spell for me and after 2days my love came back to me begging me on his knees on the ground asking me to forgive him. And I was surprise just like a dream and today Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body incase there is anyone out there that have such problem should contact him via voodoospiritualtemple\x40yahoo.com'

stephanie
Friday, 08 March 2013 07:31 AM EST

'John Melanie is my name living in USA. When my boyfriend left me for another woman all I could think about was getting him back. I was not out of the closet to my family and had lived a straight lifestyle my entire life until recently. My boyfriend cheated on me and moved out of my house when I was away at work. I had a love spell cast by shekirryspellcastingtemple\x40gmail.com and within three days, he came back to me once again. I was so relieved\x21\x21 Him coming back to me gave me the strength to tell my family about us and the time we spent apart really brought us closer together than we ever have been\x21 I highly recommend their love spells because they work very well\x21'

John Melanie
Friday, 08 March 2013 23:51 PM EST

'To all that are listening i want to thank the great spell caster Dr.Shekirry for a wonderful work he has done,before now i have been living in this word of tears and sorrows every day that pass this was as a result of my inability to get a child for my husband he had married me for about five years and since five years i could not get him a child,His family people was even the worst of it they advised my husband to get another wife so that he can get them a grandchild but for the fact that we love each other very much he promise that he will never leave me for another woman since we love each other very much although we were both happy but i still feel very bad for not getting pregnant for him,i have tried all the different hospital but no one could help me they where all saying the same thing that my womb have been tempered with due to surgical operation i had that affected my womb as a result of a serious accident i had long time ago when i was still 15 years old.\x3cbr \x2f\x3e I have thought of many ways to get my problems solve but it seems all effort came to nothing,because off my thinking i also develop a heart problem but all this things are now things of the past due to the help of Dr.Shekirry,i came across him on one faithful day i can never forget the they i was introduce to this great spell caster by my cousin Mr Daniel living here in USA who he helped to save his marriage a long time ago i am so very happy to have him as my cousin i contacted the great spell caster and he told us not to worry that every thing will be alright he casted a wonderful spell and as i speak now the same doctor who said i can never be able to get pregnant have confirmed that i am 2 months pregnant all thanks to the spell caster Dr.Shekirry and come to think of it all my heart problem has also stop what a wonderful miracle my whole heart is full of joy its an on usual miracle so there listeners if you are looking for a help that need urgent attention beyond your power the only Spell caster i can recommend for you is Dr.Shekirry you can contact him through his email\x3ashekirryspellcastingtemple\x40gmail.com or phone\x3a\x2b2348154053024 for fast and easy solution to all your problems.I know that after he is done with you you will also come here to testify\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eHelen'

MRS HELEN ADAM
Saturday, 09 March 2013 00:19 AM EST

'Dr. Kwale was the only spell caster i contacted to help me get my ex back to me. and he was able to get him back to me i really appreciate his work it din\x27t take more than 2days that my ex came back to me i knew Dr. Kwale was really great in helping lover to be together again, Dr. Kwale is the only way to get ex back without weasting any much time. here are his contact Kwaletemple\x40gmail.com his \x23 \x2b2348056141089\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eHari'

Hari
Saturday, 09 March 2013 07:30 AM EST

'Am Alloy from the united state of America,Am here to testify in the goodness of this great man sent by God called dr iK\x2a\x2a\x2au for what he has done for me,For bringing back the happiness which i lacked for years,After 3years of marriage without no issue\x28child\x29my wife Stacey left me for another man,i cried and was in deep sorrow,because i truly love Stacey with all my heart because she really meant a lot and brought a good impact into my life,She was the only hope i had,Then i tried all my possible best to get her back both it never worked until this faithful day when i was in at a friend place then i decided to listen to news on his radio due to boredorm,Because i was always thinking about Stacey everyday and night,Until a short programme came up about love matters,Then i had a lady testifying in the name of dr iK\x2a\x2a\x2au how he brought back happiness into her life and her lover within 24hours when i had this i instantly stood up from where i was sitting and thinking i rushed home went online and search about dr iK\x2a\x2a\x2au and i read wonderful stories about him,And also had people saying he his a scam,i laughed and said someone who is a scam someone would now come on an international radio station and talk about him,Instantly i sent dr iK\x2a\x2a\x2au a mail he replied and then he called me and spoke to me,Which then i told him how my lover left me for 3years and also without no child of my own,He just told me to clean my tears that i shall get good news within 48hours,i was so happy and i generously waited for this 48hours but things started changing within 30hours,Saw Stacey status on Facebook showing divorced,Then the next thing was she sent me a marriage request i accepted and she came home in tears and i accepted her back to my arms now we are together due to the help of dr iK\x2a\x2a\x2au,Please you can contact him on his private mail iK\x2a\x2a\x2autempleofsolution\x40gmail.com or cell Number \x2b2348034458597'

Alloy
Tuesday, 26 March 2013 10:29 AM EST

'what a wonderful man who has brought light to my life,my god will continues to bless him for his work of spell caster because he has help me with his spell caster work.i must confess that this man is bless with his wonderful power as a spell caster and i must thank my friend Judith who introduce me to this wonderful man the spell caster who make me find happiness in my life again,after 1 week when this wonderful man cast spell for me my life change automatically my Divorce husband who has left me for another woman for the pass 4 years came back to me for forgiveness which i never hesitate to accept him back and now my family is very happy that we are together with my two kids contact him his name is Prist SANGO JAGABAN and sell or email him via\x3bsangojagaban\x40gmail.com'

Gladys
Sunday, 31 March 2013 19:58 PM EST

'Thanks once again the great Dr samura I am faith krotov I want to\x3cbr \x2f\x3eshare my testimony to every one here about what this great man did for\x3cbr \x2f\x3eme I was married for more than six years now know child with this, my\x3cbr \x2f\x3eheart has been trouble so I don\u2019t know what to do. And I have gone\x3cbr \x2f\x3efrom one place to another still I did not found the solution of my\x3cbr \x2f\x3eproblem on till one day in my office when a friend of mine came for a\x3cbr \x2f\x3evisit so I have been hiding this for every body not to share this\x3cbr \x2f\x3eproblem to any one so when I see the situation on ground now my\x3cbr \x2f\x3ehusband is\x3cbr \x2f\x3eabout getting another woman, I try my best to share this\x3cbr \x2f\x3ewith a friend so she advise me to contact this great man for a spell\x3cbr \x2f\x3ecast so I was not my self of telling her my problem so I ask her what\x3cbr \x2f\x3ewe it take me\x3f She said\x3cbr \x2f\x3eit we not take much time just three days it we\x3cbr \x2f\x3ebe done then I look up and down were we I start from now\x3f She insist\x3cbr \x2f\x3efor me to try him the I ask her for his contact she gave me his number\x3cbr \x2f\x3eand his email address his number \x2b2347030410643 and here is the email\x3cbr \x2f\x3eSAMURATELLERSPELL100\x40YAHOO.COM so I called him first before I email\x3cbr \x2f\x3ehim to know if his the write person so he cast the spell and am so\x3cbr \x2f\x3ehappy with my husband with two kids with this, the man is great and\x3cbr \x2f\x3ehis spell casting is real thanks to my friend may God almighty bless\x3cbr \x2f\x3eyou all from Nana hill'

nana hill
Monday, 08 April 2013 19:49 PM EST

'The powerful spell caster that help me bring back my wife. My name is Brown from USA,i had a problem with my wife sometimes ago but never knew what the problem was,i tried to asked her but she refused to tell me what it was as time goes on i discovered she was having an affair with a friend of mine that happens to be my best friend,i was so sad that i never knew what to do next,during my search for a way out i met a friend of mine who had similar problem and introduced me to a man who helped him with his situation,on getting to the man i discovered he was a spell caster i was shocked because i have not had anything to do with a spell caster in my entire life so i tried to give this man a chance cos i never believed in spell casting as i thought it will not work for me but to my surprise i got positive results and i was able to get my wife back from him even after the spell caster did all i discovered my wife fell much more in love with me on like before so i was so happy that i never know what to do for him so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone having similar problem visit or contact ogbubabaspellcaster\x40yahoo.com.....He will surely solve your problems.'

Brown
Saturday, 13 April 2013 03:57 AM EST

'I was diagnosed with cervical cancer 10 years ago \u2013 While i was pregnant\x21 As you could imagine, my pregnancy was stressful and i was ordered to bed rest.I couldn\u2019t get any treatments for the cancer because i was \u201cwith child.\u201d After the birth of my healthy son,i had surgery to remove part of my cervis and underwent radiation treatments, which made me extremely ill \u2013So i have to look to the Internet for my last hope ,then i say a testimony about how DR OLOKUN helped nancy from her problem so i cantacted nancy because there are so many scams on the Internet with her email nanc0147\x40yahoo.com to confirm if it was true which he is a true healer. , thank goodness.I contacted him imidiately for help,so he cast a spell just like a miracle i was healed. I went to see my doctor for confamation guess what my cancer was no more in me he said.All thanks to you the great spell caster and healer for saving my life i am in tears of joy.i advise you out there with any illness or crisis should contact him now.Description\x3b \x3cbr \x2f\x3e1. He\x27s got Creams for Skin Lightening,pimples \x26 temporary scares. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e2. He fix broken relationships\x26marriages. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e3. He treat pregnancy problems,miscarriages,longer periods. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e4. He bring back lost lover\x2ffamily. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e5. He can make your admired partner to be yours alone \x26 marry you \x3cbr \x2f\x3e6. Is he or she cheating on you\x3f Stingy with money\x3f Want to stop him\x2fher\x3f \x3cbr \x2f\x3e7. He makes court cases\x2fdivorces\x2fbad debts to disappear. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e8. He has remedies for losing or gaining weight \x3cbr \x2f\x3e9. He solve financial \x26 domestic difficulties \x3cbr \x2f\x3e10. He has a spell charm to bring back stolen goods. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e11. He\x27s got a sale quick potions to boost customers in your business. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e12. He can make you gain promotions at work place. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e13. He can help you pass Exams\x2fInterviews with excellent grade. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e14. He has herbs to make you long live with HIV-AIDS. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e15. Get the job,man,favor,promotion,tenders that you desired. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e16. He cure madness\x2fstress\x2faddictions\x2flong illnesses. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e17. He has lucky spells\x2fcharm to accumulate \x26 protect your wealth. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e18. He has charms for gambling \x26 win court cases. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e19. He has powerful herbs for curing early ejaculations,strong elections. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e20. He has charms to protect you away from car robbers\x2fhijacker\x2fany risk. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e21. He has got charms for bath to retain your good luck you had in life before. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e22. Creams for reduction \x26 Increase of Breasts\x2fBums\x2f Hips\x2fTummy\x2fVagina Tightening and jaundice.\x3cbr \x2f\x3eDr olokun of the great benin kingdom\x28priestolokun\x40yahoo.com\x29tel.\x2b2348182743275.\x3cbr\x2f\x3eFrom Emma Ethan'

Emma
Thursday, 25 April 2013 16:24 PM EST

'my name is RITA\x3cbr \x2f\x3ei will like to share my testimony to you all.i just got married to my husband about a year ago we start having problems at home like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with other women out side.i have never love any man in my life except him.he is the father of my children and i don\x27t want to loose him because we have worked so hard together to become what we are and have today.few month ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about DR.OLOKUN how he helped her solve the problem between her and my dad i was surprise about it because they have been without each other for three and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each other.i was directed to DR.OKOKUN and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my husband.he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK.So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back asking me to forgive him.i Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact him email.Dr olokun of the great benin kingdom\x28priestolokun\x40yahoo.com\x29tel.\x2b2348182743275'

RITA
Thursday, 25 April 2013 17:22 PM EST

'A SPELL CASTER WHO HEALED ME FROM HIV AIDS WITH NATURAL HERBS\x3cbr \x2f\x3eALL THANKS BELONGS TO HIM.\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eAM Gerard Prescott from South Africa...\x3cbr \x2f\x3eI want to use this medium to inform the world that there\x3cbr \x2f\x3eis a wonderful man who can help you solve any problem you\x3cbr \x2f\x3eare facing without taking any penny from you,for instance problem\x3cbr \x2f\x3erelating to MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP, LOW SPERM COUNT,JOB\x3cbr \x2f\x3eAND FINANCIAL FAILURE,he can also ENLARGE YOUR BREAST OR\x3cbr \x2f\x3ePENIS,GET YOUR EX BACK,LOSE YOUR WEIGHT,Help you get pregnant,\x3cbr \x2f\x3eeven,cast a spell for you to win any court case\x3cbr \x2f\x3ehelp you WIN A VISA LOTTERY,his name is OGA ABIDU OR simply\x3cbr \x2f\x3econtact him on his private email..Ogaabidutemple\x40gmail.com.he can\x3cbr \x2f\x3echange your life for good from any part of the globe.'

Gerard Prescott
Tuesday, 07 May 2013 08:50 AM EST

'A TRADITIONAL SPELL CASTER AT YOUR DOOR STEP\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3e Listen to the voice of the wise one who inhenrited an ancient remedy from his fore fathers to solve all source of predicament from someone\x27s life.His name is PROPHET BOLIVAR the spell caster,He said to me couple of time that after he cast the spell for me that i shall testify of his goodness.I have a court case for more than 4years which i never thought of winning,within 2 days of the spell casting by PROPHET BOLIVAR,i was told the other week to present my humble self to the court for the last judgement,i did as PROPHET BOLIVAR instructed me to do before living my house to the court,and to my greatest surprise the judge pronounce the judgement in my own favor.I can still remember vividly that he said to me\x5ba saying\x5d that the wisdom of the wise one is the source of happiness,counselor and comforter.Am celebrating now because i won the court case....All thanks belong to PROPHET BOLIVAR the spell caster for doing wonders in my life.Are you in any distress kindly contact him on ODUNGASPELL\x40GMAIL.COM to eradicate difficulties in your life.He can also cast a spell in all sport ramification and make you have fame around the world.AM Anderson Freeman from UNITED KINGDOM.Thank you.'

Anderson Freeman
Tuesday, 07 May 2013 09:02 AM EST

'I know it really hard for all you reader to believe that i got back my husband with a spell but this article was writen from the most honest part of my and i don\x27t intend on misleading anyone so i need you all to belive me when i say that MUTTON OSUN is a really honest and powerful spell caster who uses this spell to help and not to destory anybody there is no problem he can make easy for you.I really owe MUTTON a lot i can\x27t even imagine what would have become of me if i hadn\x27t met him for help.My marriage was sinking and everything around me during that period was a mess.It was driving me crazy i didn\x27t even know how much of it i could take.My husband was cheating and abusing me even though i was carry our child.I didn\x27t know went to laugh with him or even talk to him cos everything i say to him always made him angry i mean i could no longer communicate with my husband.I was in this alone with no help from any body he refused to go with me to our marriage cancellor and when i went alone it was trouble for me he would scrim at me breaking glasses on the floor and wall.All this i could not take i was alway crying, cos it was so hard to see the man who use to say good thing to you who use to protect you now turn to hate you so much.He use to love more than himself before our marriage started failing.He was my man i was his woman but along the line he met the woman that turned him into what he was then.Meeting this woman destroyed us and our marriage.I don\x27t believe there is any woman who will willfully give up on fighting for the man she love so much, who you want to die with.So living my husband is not an option cos i can live without him.I pratically lived in this problem for about 3 months he kept on see the woman i even tried to reason with the lady but it didn\x27t really go down well it ended up a mess.It was so obvious that this b\x2a\x2a\x2ah of a lady was out to destroy my life.My husband moved out of our house to a place i didn\x27t know.All those period was pure torment for me it was like the whole world has turned its back on me i thought to myself, what i had done to deserve all this problemi mean i pleased my husband in every way and i know he loved it.I was planing on kidnapping him and make him fall in love with me again.I kinda read about it online and some said its works but i never got to try it cos he moved to a place i didn\x27t know.Before them i read an article an article about MUTTON it says he is a good spell caster and that services where free only that the material for the spell will have to be provide by me which was kinda of weird cos i don\x27t even know all this things and even if i know them i could not get them.But all the same i decided that i will contact him for help and when we got to that phase i begged him to help me get the material tell him i want to send the money over to him at first he was feeling reluctant to do it but after a long mail of pleading with him for help he finally help me.Within five days he completed the spell believe and me everything he did worked.He told me before hand that my husband was going to move in back with any explanation but after a week he beg me to be his again.I will give the full detail of all that took place but it will make this article too long to read.But you should know that MUTTON spell works.I will just live his email for those who whats to contact him \x3agodsofosunx\x40rocketmail.com i promise he will help you with your problem his words are true.'

Eva Yolanda Javier
Friday, 17 May 2013 03:39 AM EST

'My name is Cynthia Bullock, am from maimi usa. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man DR.INEGBENEBORGRATETEMPLE brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one qaurrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be stronge just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mINE was a small case and that i shouldnt worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just two day and that my husband will come crawlling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great suprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.thats why i want to say a big thank you to DR.INEGBENEBOR GRATE TEMPLE. This great man made me to understand that theres no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him at\x3aDR.INEGBENEBORGRATETEMPLE\x40G MAIL.COM'

cynthia bullock
Saturday, 18 May 2013 05:29 AM EST

'i can,t believe that this spell caster cure my hsv1, i,m so happy\x21\x21\x21 i don,t know why this virus is so common in the AMERICANS. and he gave me ADURON B1\x26 B2 and it cure my semen leakage at once no more virus.. i advise any of you suffering from any illness go to this great man and he will prepare herbal remedy drugs to cure your sickness, just contact dr shant tami on redconversantspell\x40gmail.com and see is herbal remedy drugs healing, please always follow the instruction i will give to you. E.G when he ask you not to eat meat, don,t disobey him, because he will heal you when you follow is instruction'

Joihn
Saturday, 18 May 2013 10:31 AM EST

'Priest umahon is a really a great spell caster he brought back my lover back in just 2days after six months of me and my lover been apart he is really helpful you can reach him on his email address for any kind of help on drumahonsolutiontemple2\x40gmail.com or better still you can call him on his phone number on \x2b2348140458872\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eMr Tim\x3cbr \x2f\x3eFrom\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3e-USA'

Mr Tim
Sunday, 19 May 2013 00:53 AM EST

'I would like to thank Dr. Kuda for breaking the dark spell from my ex boyfriend. When we broke up, he fell into the hands of a woman and he stayed over at her place, drink a lot and even picked up smoking which became excessive. I was always worried and had a lot of doubts. I told Dr. Kuda everything and he never fails to reply my emails. Sometimes, he would call and check up on me. He is very patient and encourages me every time I cry. Now my ex boyfriend doesn\x27t stay over at her place and had quit drinking and the good news is that he is back.\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eIf you need help, just email Dr. Kuda at dr.kudasolutiontemple\x40gmail.com. I am sure he will find ways to help you out\x21\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eLucia Tan, USA'

Dr. Kuda brought back my lover
Monday, 20 May 2013 03:10 AM EST

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