Why don`t you just ask him stright up? Stop the drauma and game playing thats going on in your own mind. A good rule to follow is to stop assuming. The truth is only one question away. Ask it.

I think obviously yes. Why would a stranger wants to come to your place for a night. I bet he is not really good at picking up ladies and that is why you seem uncertain. lol

MOVE ON! He just wanted a hookup. Something legitamite girls do not need.

If a guy is interested in you then he will call you, find you on facebook, and text you. Guys want to be the hunter, so if he really wanted to see you again he would make that happen. By not giving into a guy and helping out a friend instead would be a turn on for a guy because it shows you have values and are hard to get, not the you are uninterested, so I would MOVE ON

The same situarion happend to me and it's been like a week and a half and guess what??!! he NEVER called since, so i'd say to let it go!! ( I knew this was going to happen face it )

Not every guy wants to be a "Hunter", as not every woman wants to be an "Object" .

He may quite simply feel he put in an effort, and you know he's interested. Now it's up to you.

He may realize that continuing after may seem like he is stalking or badgering you (creepy guy),and that the ball, quite rightly is in your court now.

He may have wanted a hookup, and there is nothing wrong with that, it does not make you an "illegitimate girl". But, you need to be comfortable with casual encounters.

Being specifically afraid of men you just met isn't fair to men in general, and neither is your friends' views. If it goes the same for females as well, that's reasonable, and healthy. But stigmatizing one group of people will give you a narrow and unhealthy view of those people.

Either way, you do not have enough to go on in this case to judge his intentions. The best answer is the one stated above: Give him a call and arrange for you and your friends to meet with him and his friend somewhere you'd all enjoy.

I have a question. I am 37 and met a 24 year old at a bar a month or so ago. We've stayed in contact since the first night we met and have also been out together a few other times. Last week he went out with his friends and asked me to come pick him up so that he wasnt driving. I picked him up and we came back to my house. We had amazing sex and he was also telling me that he was "addicted" to me and that he definitely wanted to keep doing that with me. Then a day later, we just stop talking, he stops replying to my texts and/or phone calls. It was not the 1st time we had sex so I dont think he just got what he wanted and moved on. He has also told me that he is not one to express his feelings but he did really like me. And that he was comfortable with me and it felt good to be with me. He also said that there are probably going to be times that he doesnt want to talk and not to freak out because he was not seeing or talking to anyone else. I sent him one final text telling him that I wouldnt bother him anymore. Was that the wrong thing to do? I really like him and I believe that he really likes me. Do I just leave it be and walk away or apologize for not giving him his space?

hey kat,
unfortunately, most of the time, if a guy isnt talking to you or going on regular dates with you, he is not that interested. He may have another girl besides you, and is covering his tracks by saying that he may ignore you sometimes. Move on from this guy and find someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

Yes, you didn’t go and see him. This totally ruined his night! How could you do this to him? Don't you know the agony he went through giving himself a hand job? Woman you are just so insensitive. OK, enough with the sarcasm. All he wanted was a booty call and you were going to be his woman until after his organism, and then he boots your booty out the door! Think about and be cautious with these type of guys.

he just wanted to hook up.

is this true ? :O

Men associate pickup in clubs for sex only.

Advice so needs. Wish I could hav 5min in the male brain.. :)
Met this real hot Guy on a dating site..we sat on our first date for hours an spoke about everything under the sun including views on marriage..to my surprise we seem to have a opting commen.
Needless to say couple dates in mind blowing sex & than I didn't hear from him.. so I asked him flat out if I was just a piece of @$$. He said no. .but after that things were so different between us. Needless to say..I told him to just date other people..two months past& I txt him a couple random times seeing how he been always getting an answer... and lately...is like we talk all day for the past few days...our life hrs work hrs make it hard to see one another..huge problem...BC he's now saying if we can never see each h other why waste our time....I don't really want to let go again...

All my friends tell me I was just a piece the first time why else did he just stop talking till I question him...... & they keep telling me I'm stupid to countine bothering BC its just going to happen again....

Advice??

tell him to go F*** him self hooking up in guys word is am just going to F*** her and go 5 or 6 times

he just wanted to hook up and then you like didnt come to him so he thought he was just a loaner in your mind so he just stopped bothering you o_o

Will my friend with benefits care if I send him a dirty text? also what dose it mean when you ex asked to be friends with benefits after he the one that end it?

I met a guy through a mutual friend and aside from some flirtation, nothing really came of it until recently. We were at a party and both had a lot to drink. We ended up talking all night and then, sadly, having a failed attempt at sex; which I initiated. My question is, what, if anything, can I do to get him interested in me again? Is it even a possibility? If so, what do I need to do? I'll be seeing him socially again soon. If I'm just myself and act like it didn't happen will that just make it worse?

if this paul guy thinks about u, he WILL reach u some one (call or text..) the point is, if guys want a girl, TRUST ME THEY WILL GET HER

'F\x2a\x2a\x2a the S\x2a\x2a\x2a out dat N\x2a\x2a\x2a, you met em at the club not at price chopper. get the D. might be your only offer.'

'get that D betch'