Did he just want to hook up?
Q: So, I meet this guy at a club and we seem to have hit it off. We had a lot of things in common and he seemed to be interested. He even wanted me to stay with him the whole night. But my friend was kicked out of the club and so we all left. I had to say bye to Paul, but not after a sweet kiss goodbye. He takes down my number and my last name so that he can add me on his Facebook. Later that night, he texts me wanting me to come over or if he could come over at our hotel room. I wanted to go but my friend was really drunk and we had to take care of her. Plus I don't think my friends would like the idea of me going out alone with a guy. I was a bit apprehensive about the idea either, but I kinda liked him. I told him that I couldn't go because of my friend and after that he never texted me or called. He didn't add me on his Facebook either and it has been two days since we last saw each other. Will he ever call me or text me again? Or because I didn't go and see him, he thinks that I wasn't interested? Should I text him or call him? What should I do?
A: Text him, asking him if he and his friends want to meet you and your associates at some club. If he shows, let nature take its course. If he doesn’t then he probably had beer goggles on the first night you met and is anxious about his next move. - Sergio
A: I would let it go. If you haven’t heard from him odds are he was only interested in a drunken hookup. If you’re looking for the same thing, by all means give him a call to let him know you’re still interested, but it doesn’t sound like the beginning of a meaningful relationship. - Josh
A: It sounds as though he was in the mood that night, but hasn’t been since. Guys will do that sometimes. If he hasn’t done something as simple as add you on Facebook, I’d say just let this one pass and don’t worry about it. - Chauncy
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