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Money Talks (Part Two)

 
Gail Vaz-Oxlade shares her common sense path to financial bliss

(Continued from Money Talks, Part One

Nicolle Weeks: One of our most asked question on slice.ca is about your jar system, which seems so simple.

Gail Vaz-Oxlade: I wrote a book called The Money Tree Myth to help teach kids about money. One of the things I tell the parents to do is to take the kids’ allowance and put it into different jars. Kids need metaphors and visual aids. If you put your mad money in a jar, before you take your last $10 out, you think about it. When we started the show, I brought the jars out. We started with four jars, but extended it to five to fit the budget better.

NW: Are there any hard and fast rules about the jars? Like a percentage of your income?

GVO: There are no hard and fast rules. That’s one of the mistakes people make about budgets. Wait, there is one hard and fast rule: you can’t spend more money than you make. Everything else is about guidelines. On my interactive budget, I talk about which percentage of your income should go to housing: 35%. But it’s not a hard and fast rule: if you live downtown and you walk everywhere, your housing will be more expensive, but you don’t have a transportation cost. So you can take your transportation money and slot it into housing. Now you have 50%.

NW: You talk a lot about goals. Do you have any advice on setting goals, because you say it’s not enough to say, “I want a house.”

GVO: No, you have to set smart goals. It means that they have to be straightforward and measurable and achievable and realistic and timely. “I want to buy a house” is not a goal. What kind of house, where do you want to buy it, how much will it cost you? How much of a mortgage can you afford? The problem is that we get mixed messages about it.

You can have a house with zero down and take 40 years to pay it off! No you can’t! That’s stupid! If you can’t afford to save a down payment for a house, what makes you think you’re ready for home ownership?

NW: It’s all about common sense… which is difficult for some people.

GVO: I will give credence to the fact that there are so many mixed messages, sometimes it’s hard to understand what common sense is and what it isn’t. Sometimes you have a whole bunch of specialists saying to you, no, get into a house because your house will build equity and that’s the best way to earn wealth. You also have a government plan saying the same thing. They’ve just reversed their position and said, maybe you should have at least five percent down, which is where we were before.

Why would you believe an old stick in the mud like me, who says, if you can’t save 20 percent of a down payment, you should not be getting into a home.

NW: I was definitely under the impression that I should buy a home now.

GVO: Yeah! I always err on the side of caution, because sh*t happens! If it takes both our incomes to pay this mortgage, what happens if one of us gets sick or loses a job for six months? If it happens, you’re compounding your trouble. Do you really want to get sick and lose your house at the same time? Isn’t being sick enough? What if one of your kids gets sick? How do we then cope with this mortgage that has a trap door ready? Specialists will tell you the fundamentals have changed; they haven’t, that’s why they’re called fundamentals.

NW: So you have to be the voice of reason.

GVO: That’s what I’m trying to be. I try to say to people, there’s a reason these reasons exist. They are good rules, follow the rules. If they change the rules, that’s probably the marketing department. It used to be that you couldn’t pay credit with credit. It was illegal. Now, we issue a new credit card and the first thing you do is transfer your balance. You can’t survive on that, it’s just a matter of time.

NW: Is there any last advice?

GVO: Don’t spend more money than you make and you can have anything you want, anything, if you’re prepared to work hard for it. You can have it, but be prepared to bust your ass.

Interview by: Nicolle Weeks

Comments:

I really appreciate Gails no nonsense approach to money, only wish I had understod money when I was a lot younger.At the age of 64 and facing retirement I will live in poverty if something happens to my husband, not really something to look forward to.

Mary hes
Wednesday, 10 September 2008 07:26 AM EST

I wish Gail would do a special for her show on single people who need help with their finances. I watch her show faithfully and know I could learn from her tough love approach!

Lorrie
Wednesday, 10 September 2008 12:23 PM EST

I’m with Lorrie, I’ve always thought that Gail should do a show for singles, especially single parents, because face it, its not just couples that need a financial kick in the b*tt! Yeah, yeah, it doesn’t go with either the name or the format (no relationship rescue), but a smart lady like Gail can come up with something! Whaddya say Gail? How about the rest of us? We owe money too! (and Google notwithstanding, I can’t find her blog or website either…)

Cheryl
Wednesday, 10 September 2008 14:08 PM EST

I love this show and I think Gail is great. I wish Till Debt do us Part was on tv years ago. Everytime I watch it, I get more motivated to save money! Thanks Gail.

Rhonda
Wednesday, 10 September 2008 18:49 PM EST

I sure could do with her help - I'm on disability and just can't seem to make the money see the end of the month

Pat
Wednesday, 10 September 2008 21:25 PM EST

www.gailvazoxlade.com/blog

I read it everyday!

Kait
Thursday, 11 September 2008 11:09 AM EST

Why do you think money management for singles is different than for marrieds? I'm curious?

Gail3
Saturday, 13 September 2008 10:14 AM EST

I love Gail's show and watch it every morning or night on Slice. I feel it gives you great advice on budgeting. Although I don't have the jars, I write down what I spend my money on and use strictly cash. I find it makes me more aware of where my money goes and I am less apt to spend money foolishly if I see it disappearing out of my wallet fast. I leave my bank card and my credit card out of my purse or else I can spend money impulsively especially if I am feeling crappy as you always think buying something will make you feel better and when the bill comes in you see you've spent more than you make in amonth, bad situation.

Lynn
Tuesday, 16 September 2008 19:44 PM EST

my boyfriend was a serious gambler and thanx to the show and some very tough love from me, it has made him see things in a different light. Now, when he gambles $30 he thinks oh, s*^t that could have bought diapers or formula. By me watching the show and him noticing on how much better our finances are, and him not gambling anymore, we are both happier in our relationship. I totally agree that people can look rich but really not have a pot to piss in. Its all about image. Thankfully, i am not image conscience and am quite content to raise my babies in hand me downs.But in 20 years from now, their RESP plans will pay for their education.

dawn
Thursday, 18 September 2008 16:19 PM EST

I saw this show for the first time.Had I seen something like this before, I would have been in much better financial situation. I am looking forward to Gail's advices and suggestions.

rashmi
Thursday, 18 September 2008 18:48 PM EST

I just found the show a few weeks ago and tune in regularly. Finally a show that helps people on such an important issue. It is great that it is shown on a regular basis too - it has much more meaning this way.

The show is helpful but does raise some questions as I find myself wondering more about Gail's approach. I have been searching for resources by her but have not found one that is a more detailed approach of what she does on the show. Does anybody know of any???

Joan
Monday, 29 September 2008 20:52 PM EST

Help I feel like we are drowning and can't get up for air, I don't know what to do!!!

dawn
Tuesday, 30 September 2008 23:39 PM EST

One about credit cards, debit cards and cash. I notice that when I use debit, I get charged .05 cents or whatever each time. If I use cash, well, it just flows out of my hands and I don't always remember where that moolah went. But when I use visa, there's no charge at all (the retailers pay it, not me) and at the end of the month, I get a statement that lists where all the moolah went. This makes bookkepping a breeze for me.

As long as you use the credit card responsibly and pay off the balance in full every month, it's a nice tool (an interest free loan for 21 days plus they do the paperwork for me).

Scott
Wednesday, 01 October 2008 13:59 PM EST

Oh, one addition. My credit limit is a very reasonable $1,500. My monthly income is three times that so no worries.

It's people who have a $5,000 limit and never pay the bills that get into trouble.

Scott
Wednesday, 01 October 2008 14:01 PM EST

I wish I had learned Gail's advices long time ago! I always watch the show and get motivated to save but owning my credit cards as I am now it has been hard.

I know I need to save for my senior age and I want to fix my financial situation now that I am young!
Thanks Gail for your advices, I have watched and I am doing my best to improve everything.

Marcia
Monday, 13 October 2008 13:54 PM EST

Our family moved back to Canada from my husbands place of birth, wanting better for our children. Now we work 2 and three jobs, though we don't owe credit cards we live very close to the edge.
We do not want our children to miss out on opportunities that we did not have.
We have never minded hard work but we would love more pointers for cutting costs, investing and what to do about big ticket items like braces and university?
Thank you for your show Gail, I know you are helping alot of people.
Keep up the great work.

Terri
Sunday, 19 October 2008 19:23 PM EST

I agree Lorrie, for those single ones out there, I hope one day Gail does a special, we could also use some advice and guidance to get rid of our debts and to get to our goals before marriage and etc comes along.

KC
Sunday, 19 October 2008 21:07 PM EST

There's one thing I found hard to start doing but once I got into it, i save a ton of cash. I got the idea from Gail's excellent show. LIVE ON CASH. I had a big jar that I put clippings of pictures, places I want to travel, the car I want, what I want my first place to look like, all the goals i have for my future. I decided not to spend any coins, no toonies, loonies etc. Instead, at the end of each day I emptied out my purse into the jar. I can see where my money is going (into the jar of my future) and I'm not using, debit or credit as one the cash is finished that's the end of the cash based on the budget I set for each month. This has actually helped me to not only stick to my budget, but cut down on expenses. Hope this tips helps. P.S. You use a $5 bill to pay for a $1.50 cup of coffee, the remaining $3.50 goes into your jar. In one month i've saved just over $200 in coins alone. The trick is, to commit to not spending any coins.

All the best to everyone for a financially free future.

Gail - I love your shows :)

KC
Sunday, 19 October 2008 21:14 PM EST

I need some serious help. I agree with others who have requested "advice" for single parent's help. I have debt from my marriage as well as I rarely make it month to month. I do not go out for lunch, the rare time dinner, yet still nothing. If someone would of told me 3 years ago what my salary would be, I would've laughed and thought I would be doing great.....but not so much!

Anne
Thursday, 23 October 2008 00:06 AM EST

I do think money management is different for singles compared to couples. Yes we don't have as many mouths to feed or bodies to clothe, but the typical single person/parent brings in less money then a working couple does, does not have as many credit options as a couple does, and in may cases is paying close to the same in rent, mortages, car, gas, and utilities as a working couple does and in the case of a single parent paying more for childcare then they pay for rent. I would really enjoy watching Gail do a show or special that is geared to a single person/single parent and their specific needs. Money Management Basics is the same for all but it is our individual life situations that make it Advanced, and I would like to watch Gail do a show that I can compare to my life.

Carol
Sunday, 02 November 2008 11:06 AM EST

The Women's Network has a similar show called "Maxed Out" which does mostly money management for singles, especially single parents. It's pretty good, I like both shows equally.

Paula
Sunday, 02 November 2008 23:39 PM EST

i am a single parent stuggling to keep my head above water. how can i get your help, or maybe you don't do single parents on you show.

andrea3
Monday, 03 November 2008 16:47 PM EST

Thanks Paula, I will check out that show!

Carol
Wednesday, 05 November 2008 18:53 PM EST

I think Gail has a very realistic no-nonsense approach to money. I appreciate that. I am only eighteen, and I do not own a credit card, so I have never been in debt myself. However, most of my family have struggled with money and I am desperately trying to keep myself from picking up their bad habits. Gail's show and philosophy always motivates me to keep from straying.

Megan
Tuesday, 11 November 2008 21:53 PM EST

My paperwork is all organized. Could you take a hard look at what we are doing? I love your show. I canceled satelite once I saw that we can watch it on the internet and saved 40 bucks a month. Love what you are doing. It is very motivational and keeps me trying.
Sincerely,
Jadene

jadene
Saturday, 15 November 2008 13:20 PM EST

i found the show a few months ago and i love it i watch it at least twice a day or more if its on . where i live cable is not available so i have satellite and i can watch your show on different channels . i applaud you for the help you have given to those who need it . what about that budget binder that is used on the show know where i can get it sure would be nice to have

irene
Friday, 21 November 2008 20:33 PM EST

My husband and I watch the show regularly but have found its all reruns now. We are both wise with our money but still enjoy seeing how others can spend their money so frivolously. great show!! Keep it coming.

shelley
Tuesday, 25 November 2008 19:32 PM EST

What a great show. I would love more info, as in percentages. I am a single mom and yes this is a challenge. Expenses are often the same for mortgage or rent, transportation, food and there is only one income. I often feel out of control. No more money and too much month left over. I would love some help.

Evelyn
Tuesday, 02 December 2008 13:48 PM EST

http://www.gailvazoxlade.com/

That is her website.. and everything you need to know!

Christy
Thursday, 04 December 2008 12:22 PM EST

I just watched the episode of David and Marissa, a young couple making $150K/year, and 'overspending' by $7,600/month. That means that they are actually spending almost $20K a month!!!! What are people thinking??? I moved back to Saskatchewan with my two youngest sons in 1999 - my gross income for that year was - are you ready for this? - $8,129!!! We did not starve, live on the streets, or go without - unless you count credit cards, cable, internet, partying/smoking (on my part), or eating out as a matter of course. My boys were teens, and we did just fine, although I was always 'broke'. There are many definitions of broke - they don't always lead to such ridiculous examples of spoiled rotten 'children' who have to have everything. Like many here, I would love to see a special on how single parents can utilize their reduced incomes to a better outcome. I am just over 50, and should be looking at retirement, but having been a stay at home mom, (they've all flown the coop now) I did not return to post secondary until my late forties, and now have $20K in student loan debt, no hope of ever owning a house at this age, and less than two years of pensionable earnings to my name. Would love your help, Gail. OH, and like everyone here, I too love the jar system.

Suzanne
Saturday, 06 December 2008 20:18 PM EST

I would love to see some show subjects re-visited, are they still on track with their budgets? Who is back in debt? Did any of them lose their homes or did they all stick with Gail's program

Shelagh
Tuesday, 16 December 2008 18:03 PM EST

I found and started watching or taping your show every day it is on. Like others, I wish I had knoown of some of these ideas years ago. We are both now in our early 60's and no chance other than bankruptcy or Gail's ideas on how to get out of the "huge" credit card mess we got ourselves into. Can you publish or something, the names of a few companies that actually do what Gail does who might be able to assist. It woul be a great help to us and I am sure many more with the same problem. PS-I have bought the jars, cash, and just started our new budget. I sure hope it works and I suggest everyone who is living on the edge, either watch the show or at least check it out once.

Gerry
Thursday, 18 December 2008 16:00 PM EST

I watch your show everyday and you give great advice. My question is my husband and I are struggling we more or else living on one income. My husband is on disable and I work also. we pa our bills but still fell that we don'nt have money left to play with. what do you suggest.please help.

liliana
Sunday, 28 December 2008 13:20 PM EST

I watch your show everyday and you give great advice. My question is my husband and I are struggling we more or else living on one income. My husband is on disablity and I work also. we pay our bills but still feel that we don'nt have money left to play with. what do you suggest.please help.

liliana
Sunday, 28 December 2008 13:22 PM EST

I love your show whenever I can watch it, I love the jar system, but How do you actually start with the jar system if your paycheck goes directly into your bank account? And How do you calculate how much goes in each jar?
Dont worry though I bought your Budgetting Book 2009 and I am anxious on recieving it to finally getting started.

Claudette
Tuesday, 30 December 2008 20:58 PM EST

I love this show and never miss them. I think Gail should be a course in school, grade 7 or 8 as a lot of parents have no idea about money so lets start when there young. Keep up the good work Gail! 6 months to retirement and looking forward to it.

Penny
Thursday, 01 January 2009 09:30 AM EST

I love this show and never miss them. I think Gail should be a course in school, grade 7 or 8 as a lot of parents have no idea about money so lets start when there young. Keep up the good work Gail! 6 months to retirement and looking forward to it.

Penny
Thursday, 01 January 2009 09:32 AM EST

How can a person get a hold of Gails'2009 Planner.

Cindy
Thursday, 01 January 2009 13:03 PM EST

How can a person get a hold of Gails'2009 Planner.

Cindy
Thursday, 01 January 2009 13:07 PM EST

I watch Gail's show everyday and was wondering if she will ever do a special on the people who she's tried to help. I've always wondered if they have stuck to her ways or have gone back into debt. I think it would be very interesting especially with todays economy.
Keep up the good work Gail.

Cathie
Saturday, 03 January 2009 00:27 AM EST

Great show, after a few episodes I put my credit card into my safe, started living off cash and paid the card off. Now that I don't use the credit card for impulse purchases I can actually afford things like new doors and windows for my house! I couldn't have done that without Gail's great advice.

Sandra
Sunday, 04 January 2009 21:30 PM EST

Love the show, have been watching for probably as long as it has been on. I'm 23 years old and make about 20 k a year. My dad's on disability and my mom has 7 children and lives paycheck to paycheck. They've never taught us about money and savings, I still don't know as much as I should about investing in rrsp's and stuff like that. But, thanks to this show, I feel like i can balance my budget and save as much as I can, pay my credit off first and foremost. Still alota learning to do, but I'm greatful becuase the only money knowlege I have is from this show.

Kathryn
Wednesday, 07 January 2009 11:33 AM EST

Like the others I love the show. I too would like to revisist some of the families to see how they are doing or if they fell off the wagon soon after Gail left.

debbie
Thursday, 08 January 2009 09:00 AM EST

This is a great show and my sons ecomincs teacher tapes the show and they watch it weekly in class

Tracy
Friday, 09 January 2009 21:32 PM EST

Has Gail ever done any follow up shows to see if the people she helped are still on track 6 months, 12 months or 2 years later?

Debbie Gradiner
Tuesday, 13 January 2009 17:08 PM EST

I'm recently married and now my hubbies past is haunting us. Suddenly , since I pay bills religiously , we have collection agencies after us for his past deeds. I've consolidated and paid and paid and I'm fed up. I do all the paying and its his problem. i want a house and to go back to school but his debts keep appearing. Last one was for a 10,000 telephone pole from a car accident andanother 1200. from a bill he didn't remember. We owe my mom tons of money. Do I end the 4 month old marriage now? I just don't know what to do anymore.

Stacey
Tuesday, 13 January 2009 17:12 PM EST

Lilliana,I am in the same boat as you are! Husband on diability, I'm working and have 1 daughter (15) at home. My pay goes directly in the bank and it covers all the bills and some food! My husbands disabilty covers gas for the car for work and the balance of food, and anything else that comes up!! He recieves 800/month. When our daughter turns 18/out of school, her portion of the pension comes off!! Leaving my husband with about $600/month! We are fortunate enough to be on geared-to income housing...if it weren't for that, we would have no where to live!! So after all that, there is nothing left!! Our situation needs help!!

kelly ann
Thursday, 22 January 2009 19:36 PM EST

Gail! ,I need your help, today, I am sinking fast still 2 young teens girls at home we have been through so much in the past 3 years,many obstacles, I have age 15 years and just want to see happy faces again, I am dedicated and willing to work hard in making it happen, I need you! You are the hope for my family! I had to lease my home so I do not lose it and know I am renting but things keep getting worse> I am not a spender and I am tired of selling things to just make ends meet. Bills are accumilating!

Lisa
Monday, 26 January 2009 12:40 PM EST

We were offered a Short Shop course yesterday through my work on 'Managing Personal Finances in Times of Turmoil' and guess what budget model we used and who our falicitator kept on referring to yes...Gail's budget and expertise and website. I left the course and got right on your site.

Thank you Gail, you are making the impossible...possible!!

Gigi
Friday, 06 February 2009 13:12 PM EST

Gail, please help Lisa...I know what it feels like to go under, it's an hopeless feeling! Hang in there Lisa!

Gigi
Friday, 06 February 2009 13:26 PM EST

Now that the market has crashed, layoffs, and few seems to be smiling I am wondering.
I am wondering where you buy your clothes (2nd hand?), cook from scratch?,
do without or find creative substitutes?, use low cost internet?,
cut cable?, dont drink/smoke?, fix your own stuff?, bake?, quite the gym and use the park instead..or sidewalk?, cut your own hair?, quit makeup or use up what you have? use a bike or drive old unsexy beater?
Just wondering..

brought up knowing the value
Saturday, 07 February 2009 12:46 PM EST

At what point do you consider bankruptcy? How much debt is too much? YIKES!

When do you throw in the towel?
Tuesday, 24 February 2009 14:22 PM EST

My Wife and I watch the show whenever we can.

One question I have is why don't you ever talk to people about protecting their famalies and retirement savings with Individual Insurance policies (not creditor insurance)? Especially when kids are involved...

AJ
Friday, 27 March 2009 22:25 PM EST

Honestly first the first time my husband and I talk about money together- and we are changing the way we think an act. The idea that there is not an endless pool has helped us through is job loss- and new job. Have I made mistakes in the past- sure.......but I am learning. Thanks for being a practical no nonsense kinda lady!

nancy
Saturday, 02 May 2009 17:08 PM EST

Gail is a very cool lady, I love her honesty and genuine interest in helping people, I love watching the show. Gail you are far better than Oprah, keep up the excellent work.

Carla
Sunday, 17 May 2009 00:47 AM EST

First off I love this show, and I love Gail and her smart sense. It's funny many of the things she says are just common sense but to those that are in debt it seems easier said then done. Its amazing how easily it is to get into debt, credit card companies are so sly offering extended credit to any Tom, Dick or Harry and before you know it your on that never ending spiral into the black hole of debt. I think it would be a great idea to do a show involoving single people. Currently it is only couples that but what about those people who are single and have a lot of debt and only have one income to work with. As a single woman who has recently graduated from University and has a lot of student debt I would love to see a show done with someone similar and see how the rules apply when there is only one income.

Crystal
Monday, 01 June 2009 13:38 PM EST

HI Gail
I love your show, and watch it faithfully. I get that you spend only what you can afford. The thing that gets me confussed is how do you get out of debt so quickly, if you have so much credit debt. Is it consolidation of everything, with a lower interest percentage. I know there has to be something left "unsaid" but that is where I get frustrated, in how do we fix that pay back situation.

carol
Thursday, 04 June 2009 10:05 AM EST

Can you tell if we are to take out a line of credit to pay off the credit cards, will that lower the interest rate that we pay back & free up some of our money.Is this correct anyones comment would be helpful :)Thank you so much.

Hello
Tuesday, 09 June 2009 10:24 AM EST

This all sounds great!! My husband and I are having a difficult time feeding our children, while I'm in college studying for a career. I feel really guilty about that, but we have been doing without for some time now.....3 years to be exact. I've phoned the credit card companies if they would be kind enough to lower our interest rates....No we cannot....Sears, Zellers, Mastercard-Canadian Tire...Mastercard-President's Choice and low and behold Visa is the only one that has...why is that? And one more question Gail....How is it possible for us to get out of debt in one year, with only one income? Thanks

Tralee
Monday, 13 July 2009 13:30 PM EST

Hi Gail and all....It appears a lot of us need Education - Money Education. So I think Gail or the producers should do a general show or class in Finance Education as there are many scenario's , married, single, with/ without children, disabled, young / old. In my case, I don't owe millions of $, but I can't seem to get the budget down, stick to it or even know what the best way to pay a bill - I would just feel better about learning, I would even love to go on the show, but I know my husband would be too shy and maybe we don't owe enough money, but let me tell you - I'm always stressed, begging from Peter to pay Paul and just getting by. We don't ever seem to have any money, and I'm not sure why? So let's all ask Gail to do a general show on budgets, paying bills! Perhaps if she takes an average of all the situations, such as Rent / Mortgage, Utilities, Expenses (groceries etc.), like all that stuff that represents the jars, and walk us through what to do - maybe we could learn too on our own. Obviously not everyone can be on the show! But love it and watch it and understand it - wish I could know more to do it!!
Pam in GTA

Pam in GTA
Wednesday, 15 July 2009 16:29 PM EST

Finally a show that helps real people with real problems! There are so many sources out there, like banks, that people think are there to help them, when in fact they are there to stay in business, so may not have our best interest as their main priority. Love the show!!!

Susan N.
Tuesday, 21 July 2009 10:11 AM EST

I have been watching the show now for about six months. It was interesting see Gails approach and ability to syphon
through all the useless spending. My wife thought she was watching a female
version of myself. Ironically, in an
attempt to help out a friend, I said to him that I have several books on no
nonsense finance; the first book I pulled out was "The money Tree Myth"
not realizing that it was one of Gails
Books. I would love to meet you sometime Gail!

Regards,
Domenic

Domenic Rutigliano
Wednesday, 22 July 2009 00:47 AM EST

I would love to see a show from Gail on smart money for the single girl. Its an even bigger challenge - home ownership and successful retirement planning when there's only one income.
Love Gail's show - her show and money sense is much needed in a world where so few people get any financial education.
Thanks Gail!

Catherine
Saturday, 25 July 2009 00:34 AM EST

I watch your show all the time. Still to this day I don't know how you do it. It's great to see that you help people like me.
At lease we see that some day there will be hope for use.

Thank you for doing what you do.

Fanny

Fanny
Saturday, 22 August 2009 10:21 AM EST

Where can I get a copy of Gail's budget sheets?

Rosie
Saturday, 22 August 2009 20:17 PM EST

Ihave been watching your show Gail, for about 2 months and it is really teaching me that my husband and I over spend alot!! I am now working on our goals to be "debt free"in hopefully 2 1/2 years.Thanks for all of your advice it is amazing...our world has become a stuff world and it is bringing us all down so much....

Donna -B.C.
Sunday, 23 August 2009 18:44 PM EST

Gail, just wanted to say A BIG THANK YOU. Because of you I now have a decent future. If your parents knew nothing about money, chances are you won't either. Thank god for Gail.

Angel
Tuesday, 01 September 2009 14:48 PM EST

TRUELY ENJOY THE SHOW, HAVE FOUND IT A GREAT LEARNING EXPERIENCE, AFTER THINKING OF INITIATION GAIL'S RULES HAVE FINALLY DOWNLOADED THE BUDGET SHEETS FROM YOUR WEBSITE. WISH ME LUCK

LOUISE
Monday, 07 September 2009 00:20 AM EST

I'm single and follow the same rules Gail has talked about on her show, in her books and on her website.

It's all the same whether you are married or not. Don't spend more than you make. Don't put anything on a credit card if you don't already have the cash in the bank. Track all your expenses. I can't believe some people pay so much in bank charges; I spend nothing. I refuse to use a debit card, because my bank would charge me for that. They don't charge me for taking cash out of the machine. My credit card is no fee and since I only charge what I can afford, it costs me nothing. Once you track every cent you spend, it's then your choice whether to keep it that way, or turn down the heat, walk to save gas or transportation costs, make your own food etc. I'm single and I think, due to good money management, that I'm better off than many couples.

Single person here
Thursday, 17 September 2009 18:52 PM EST

ps. Thanks for the show Gail. Just wanted to say I have learned so much from you and I love your no-nonsense approach. My kids watch the show and it has really helped and taught them. They also can't believe how much some people spend, when they cannot afford it.

For the person looking for the BUDGET SHEETS, I just put in 'budget sheets' up in the search engine to the top right, and kept following the links. It takes you to them; I think it was under the kids sections.

Single person here
Thursday, 17 September 2009 18:58 PM EST

Hi Gail, What is in the "Office in a box" and can I buy a ready made kit?? This would make a terrific gift.

Rosie
Thursday, 24 September 2009 18:02 PM EST

Hi Gail (after watching as many shows as one person can) I have initiated my debt repayment schedule through consolidation and have drawn up a budget with your worksheet. The jars come tomorrow. Your show has had such a positive influence on me and my family. I have read your blogs and take comfort in knowing that I am not alone. That you even have a name for a common phenomenon. Lifestyle inflation - so true. (I am a victim).... no matter how much money I make, I still live pay to pay and can't save money to "save my life". Wish us luck and continue making new episodes......... This is true Reality TV........

Sheri
Thursday, 01 October 2009 00:04 AM EST

I love Gail and I love her show! I was raised in a household where my dad was the sole earner for many years, but I never felt "poor" as a kid. My mom returned to work when I turned 14 since they had me and my 2 sisters to raise. What surprises me when I watch the show is you realize how uninformed people really are about looking after their money. I guess common sense is not so common!

Marc
Wednesday, 07 October 2009 01:36 AM EST

Hi Gail,

I love your show ;)) You're a GOD send Gail. Eventhough they are re-runs, I still watch them and I also watch them in the internet. Although the only think we owe is our house, monthly mortgage is also debt (the way I see it), I write down the money I spend everyday and we're living on cash instead of credit. Anyway, I'm like the others, I would like to see a follow up on the people you had on your show, especially the couple in Season 6, Episode 70 (I think, the one with Orson). I do hope that they will be able to buy their first house soon. I don't know why but I cried when I watched that episode. Keep up the good work!!!

Aimee3
Tuesday, 03 November 2009 14:20 PM EST

I wish Gail did a show for singles. as a single mom of 2 teens I am a very frugale person but balancing 3 part time jobs is hard. I watch the show faithfully and have taken notes but I dont see that light that she talks about.

Mona3
Saturday, 07 November 2009 09:08 AM EST

Gail, Thank you for all of the financial advise. My daughter and I watch your show every Saturday night following Suze Orman. We appreciate your financial wisdom...

awake
Tuesday, 15 December 2009 20:48 PM EST

I have written before regarding doing follow-up shows with people that have really listened to you and got themselves out of a hole! We are retired and just recently implimented the jar system - if I had known it was just a matter of common sense, I would have started this long ago! Thank you, Gail, looking forword to many more new shows.

BarJo3
Sunday, 17 January 2010 18:01 PM EST

I still haven't located ne information on the % of the jars...I realy want to try this...I try just usen cash....nd I find that I have spent less as seeing the cash is rite in your face so to speak.....if u can please point me in the rite dirrection to find this information....Love your show...I learn something ( or clue in )every show that I watch !! its a great reality jog..
tkz
CHer

cher3
Friday, 29 January 2010 23:20 PM EST

I love the show. I understand when Gail meets the couples she slashes the monthly budget tremendously. How does she do that? How does she make a plan where a couple that has $80,000 in consumer debt (January 30,2010 show) can pay it off in 3 years? I would love to see this kind of info on the website.

Beverly3
Saturday, 30 January 2010 22:36 PM EST

Love Gail and her show. The focus may be on people in a financial bind but those of us who aren't (but not stinking rich) can learn a lot from her as well.

Mary5
Sunday, 14 February 2010 22:44 PM EST

Gail, I love your show, and wish it was on more. I watch it on Saturday night on cnbc. You should be go to Washington and ask them
"are ya nuts?"_ I love your down to earth straight talk.

Sharon D from Kentucky
Thursday, 18 February 2010 17:18 PM EST

Hi Gail
I love your show. I am a single mom, going to school so I can get out of debt but have to consolidat my credit cards so I can pay them off easier, I talked to the credit card companies but they do not want to help out. Does consolidating loans help I owe about 8000 in total and 21000 on my morgage but I WILL get out of debt.
Keep up the great work!!

Wendy from PE Canada3
Monday, 15 March 2010 16:11 PM EST

I would like to discuss our finances with you how do I do that

Stacey
Monday, 22 March 2010 12:55 PM EST

Hi Gail,
Great show. I watch it all the time. Best on TV! I've been a student for 6 years now and I'm entering another 4 years of medical school in the Fall. Besides summer jobs and small jobs throughout the year I have been living on student loans. Budgeting seems to be a whole different story when you have little to no income and are living on loans. There's also the mystery of how to pay them off after graduation. Doing a show with students would help answer these different questions and instill money sense early. Please, give us students some advice.

tylerpath3
Saturday, 03 April 2010 09:11 AM EST

Hi Gail
I'm scared and don't know where to start. It's overwhelming. Every aspect of my life, every part of my life is starting to un ravel. I need the self confidence to believe and to trust myself and my choices

Karlene3
Monday, 14 June 2010 14:00 PM EST

Gail, How can I get on your show???

gail
Sunday, 27 June 2010 02:58 AM EST

luv the show, watch all the time when I can. As mentioned in previous comments, would really like Gail to do a take on single parents. I could really use some solid advice now!!!

charle
Wednesday, 21 July 2010 13:45 PM EST

My hubby and I need your help and would like to be on your show.
How can we apply?
We are an older couple and am having a problem meeting ends meet.
I am retired and my hubby is also retired but has a part time job. He is 79 years old and we don't want to be in debt when we die.

Sandy3
Thursday, 19 August 2010 17:14 PM EST

Hi Gail:
Thank you for your shows. They are very informative. I've just ordered one of your books. I'm 68, retired and in debt. I'm single. I'd love to see a show about OLDER SINGLE people that need help with money. Your show is wonderful. Thank you for your common sense approach to money. I wish you had been around 40 years ago, but that would have been impossible as you'd have been a baby then.
Thanks again for your shows, I look forward to HOPEFULLY seeing a couple of shows on OLDER FOOLISH SINGLES.
Sharon

Sharon Chapman
Sunday, 21 November 2010 10:17 AM EST

hi gail i really need your help my wife and i cant seem 2 get ahead and spending money at all the wrong times can u please help me and my wife sincerly chris can u please get back to me if u can help us in these terrible times


Comment Moderated: Due To Personal Information

chris campbell3
Tuesday, 18 January 2011 11:43 AM EST

I started watching Gail about 6 months ago. My husband and I now use the jars and it's wonderful. I never knew where our money went before. If we wanted something we got it, there was never money at the end of the month but loads of stress and guilt. With the jars there's money left over and we're stress and guilt free.
I would like to add though, at first it was hard to pay for things with cash! Now I love it and it feels so good!

Pat Russo3
Wednesday, 16 February 2011 21:47 PM EST

I love Gail! Her humor and approach are great. My hubby recorded a show for me about 2 month ago and I'm hooked. I eagerly await any of her shows. I keep them on my DVR every time I get the urge to go play, which in my case, usually means go shopping. Thanks to her for the first time in years we set a budget and almost stayed within it. I still have a ways to go but for the first time I feel optimistic about turning our situation around.

c healey
Sunday, 20 February 2011 17:09 PM EST

Hello Gail,

How does one contact you to receive help, where there is no light insight???

Please & Thank You,
Lori

Lori
Thursday, 03 March 2011 13:09 PM EST

Hi there, I'm writing this with the hope that poverty will be a thing of the past for me. I have struggled as a single parent for nearly 30 years now and it's finally coming to a close. My youngest is in his first year of University and I'm an empty nesting 60 something. RRSP's? never had one, RESP? could never afford one Personal Savings? couldn't do it. All I can hope for now is to be debt free by the time I retire and my son is ready to graduate. If I'm able I figure I will continue to work until I am no longer able. Any advice for me at this point Gail? I love your show and watch it regularly....often wishing I could turn back time.

Pam3
Monday, 07 March 2011 22:18 PM EST

I'm just recently separated with three children - I have lost my full time job, forced to take p/t in the same company. Would love to see a show on single parents trying to get through this without having to sell the home because renting is just as expensive.

Michelle3
Wednesday, 16 March 2011 15:28 PM EST

Hello: My Question is how do i get on your show because i have stuggled with money problems all my life. I come from a family of nine children,everything i ever had when i was younger was handmedowns? Now i have a very great job and my husband as well. My problem is we never have been able to manage our money. We have been through one bankruptcy and just did a consumer proposal recently.We own our home trying to pay it off but i feel i will never reach my goal? If you could help get us on the right track it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

Theresa Luckey3
Friday, 08 April 2011 21:30 PM EST

Hi Gail
I love you show and it has taught me many lessons in finance. What I would like to know is how to get out of debt the quickest way? I have started to pay on my credit cards weekly to avoid the high interest rates and get them paid off quicker. I would like to know if this is a good way to get out from under my credit card debt. It seems like in the past I have paid but the balance barely changes. If you have some information that will help, please help me.

Thank you,
Pamela 123

Pamela 1233
Saturday, 14 May 2011 23:21 PM EST

If you can give me some help please email

(Note: email removed by blog moderator for security. Please visit Gail Vaz-Oxlade's website here:  http://www.gailvazoxlade.com/)

Pamela 1233
Saturday, 14 May 2011 23:22 PM EST

Hi Gail,
I love watching your show, i watch it every chance i get. I really need your help, i don't have credit cards, but i have payday loans, old loans, rent, and my husband just went back to work, and i am on maternity leave but i will be returning back to work next month. I really have a problem with spending money, i can't seem to pay any bills, i only pay when i get notices. i would like for you to give me some good advice. please help me and my family.

Thank you,

Antoine183
Tuesday, 26 July 2011 15:49 PM EST

HI GAIL NEED HELP WITH MONEY PROBLEMS AS WE WATCH YOUR SHOW ALL THE TIME AND WE SEE HOW YOU HELP OUT DIFFERENT PEOPLE PLEASE CALL US AT 647 717-2160 OR 647 717-2107

TRISH
Friday, 23 September 2011 16:21 PM EST

Well Gail, your fans have spoken, singles are people too, with financial problems. I am fine personally but my girlfriend in her mid fifties was walking a financial tightrope with her husband, now he passed away and she is left holding the proverbial bag of his debt, she earns about 2400 per month and her mortgage
alone is 2150/m. I resisted the temptation to tell her to declare bankruptcy as I am not qualified to do so.But here is one example of person who could really use your help Gail, what does it take to get it?

Willie
Sunday, 25 September 2011 19:23 PM EST

Thanks Gail! I see & understand how it all works now but my wife does NOT!! I am totally perplexed & have been trying to get through to her to no avail. I understand that we need to sell our current home & get into something smaller & in another location, effectively cutting our mortgage in half & offering our children (twin 12 year old girls) a better future.

I have put together a presentation for her to see the big picture with her fighting back. I even went so far as to put the last year & a half on a graph showing that we are & have been living beyond our means.

I'm at the point where I'm just going to wait till the bank comes knocking to take our home away & THEN maybe she'll realize the mess we're in.
There are a few factors (her family) that I know would not appreciate us divulging any information on a TV show, lest we ruin their good name.

I just became a teacher & got a 2 year contract which ended last June. I was making good money & we still went further down the money pit. I know she's telling family members that we are alright but we're NOT.

I am tired of fighting. I am all stressed out, it has affected my health but only a few outsiders see this. I had even contemplated divorce if she doesn't change her tune in a year or so. My wife seems to think everything will be alright.

I wish I could find someone who she will listen to, to make the hard decisions that need to be made. Family is not helping.

Please help, send someone, ...

Frank K
Friday, 30 September 2011 23:22 PM EST

If only we knew these things when we were young! I'm all for kids being taught finances in school - or make courses available for those getting married. Part of the problem is that we look at other couples and see how they live so we figure we can live like that too. We don't understand the difference between luxuries and necessities.

Anita
Tuesday, 17 April 2012 13:50 PM EST

'I get it, and my son gets it too, but some how I failed with my daughter. She is 19 now, and coming around, but still thinks mom and dad have a money tree\x21 I would love to go on a show with Gail as my mentor, she is around my age I think and it would be a great experience.'

veronica
Saturday, 25 August 2012 22:59 PM EST

'I absolutely love your show Gail. I just don\x27t know how to implement the jar system. There aren\x27t a whole lot of terrible issues in our life but we just can\x27t seem to get through them. We start doing good, get close to getting out of the hole and then boom, something happens,like job change and again we are right back to square -1. I am actually quite good with our finances but can\x27t get the payments in on time.... any advice would be terrific\x21 Thanks, Gail'

LisaB
Thursday, 18 October 2012 17:58 PM EST

'Gail,\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eI love your show very much. I am a married woman whose husband is very well educated by has not job and I am the bread winner. I have a couple of jobs but I still can\x27t save enough for the family. I wish I could talk to you about saving the money.\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eI LOVE YOUR SHOW'

Florence
Sunday, 28 October 2012 17:37 PM EST

'hi there Love your show watch it over and over i take things from each one and try to put them into our lives i buy your books and take everything i understand from them then i try to use them in our lives i don\x27t finish everything i start but in the past year we got our bills up to date and they are paid on time and the best thing about watching your show help us to buy a HOUSE \x3cbr \x2f\x3emy 10 year old son would love for you to come to our house and help us out more because he want your help to go on a vaction\x3cbr \x2f\x3eThank-You for your shows and books do help.\x3cbr \x2f\x3eP.S how do you get the percent for the jars and how much do you pay how much do you save \x3cbr \x2f\x3eHelp \x3cbr \x2f\x3eGail Boudreau \x3cbr \x2f\x3eAmherst Nova Scotia'

gail boudreau
Sunday, 28 October 2012 21:42 PM EST

'First, thank you Gail\x21\x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eI grew up hearing \x22save your money\x21\x22. but they never thought to show me how. It really was not \x28and is not\x29 intuitive for me. So you and your show have given me some really easy and simple ways of how to save it, and how to plan what to do with it. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eYou have made me think about money differently - in a much smarter and healthier way. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eIn the next few months, as I move forward from being in a couple with a child, to be being separated with a child \x28single parenthood\x21\x29 I feel better equipped to meet the challenges and confident that at least my finances will not be one of the pressures I will have to live with. I have simply made some new goals, and budgeted and saved accordingly. I don\x27t know that I would have known how to do that before watching the show.\x3cbr \x2f\x3eSo, once again, thank you Gail\x21'

Martine
Friday, 23 November 2012 11:24 AM EST

'Thank you Gail for your approach to Financial Success for many, many couples. I watch your show faithfully. On the other hand, when my husband watches me watch it, he says, why are you always watching that crap\x3f He is the reason our finances are out of control, and I am wondering if you have any advice for me\x3f He refuses to listen, and figures he has it all figured out. Unfortunately, that is far from the case. Bankrupcy sounds great to me\x21 At this point, we both work as hard and as long as we possibly can, we have just had some bad luck. I realize that your show is generally based on couples that have a regular income, do you have any advice for self-employed people. We never know how much money we will make from month to month, so it is really hard to budget\x21\x21\x21 Credit is our saving grace, even though it costs are huge\x21\x21\x21 My husbands\x27 motto - you have to have money\x2fthings to make money\x21\x21\x21 Oh, and \x22Everything is not his fault\x21\x21\x21\x22'

Jody
Tuesday, 04 December 2012 15:05 PM EST

'At 22 years old, I am officially debt free\x21 Probably doesn\x27t seem like that big of a deal, but ever since I obtained a credit card at 16\x2f17, I would rack up the debt to the limit of \x24500... Pay it down \x28or in the earlier times, not pay it down at all\x29, and then rack it back up. I\x27ve probably lost a good \x243000 of money, which to someone my age is ridiculous when I still live at home. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eWhen I started my business as a private teacher, my finances didn\x27t get any better, as you can imagine. Watching the show over the past 6 months has given me more control over my finances. I use the jars, budget my monies, kick myself for spending, and I am once again debt-free \x28in a much faster time than it used to take me\x29, able to pay all of my bills \x28I pay for everything except rent\x29, have an RSP account, a good savings account... Could not have done it without Gail. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e\x3cbr \x2f\x3eGail\x27s Rules\x3a\x3cbr \x2f\x3e1\x29 Talk. A LOT. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e2\x29 Save. Even more. \x3cbr \x2f\x3e3\x29 Get the debt paid down QUICKLY. No matter how much you have to tighten the belt.'

Bee
Monday, 10 December 2012 08:37 AM EST

'SO can\x27t wait to see Gail today she\x27s coming to Prince George B.C \x3a\x29'

Inga
Saturday, 09 February 2013 12:28 PM EST

'Hello Gail \x3cbr \x2f\x3eI watch your show all the time I learn a lot but my wife loves to spend it just a fast a I make it . When she buys something she needs it now and a week later its on the back burner . Well take care \x3cbr \x2f\x3epauldbeaton1977\x40hotmail. Com'

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'9023033598 call or text love to hear from you'

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'My finances and all out of wack card card dedts . My phone does not stop ringing all day everyone looking for money I need to be thought how to pay if my dedt 9023033598'

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